DD excluded from birthday party -- how to comfort her?

[Anonymous]

We were once at a location for a birthday party and bumped into another family from DD class who wasn't invited. We of courses cluelessly began to talk to them about the party and realized our mistake. We were all mortified. Thankfully this family didn't take it badly. We were beyond mortified for all of us. But my point is, it happens. Someone doesn't have to be stalker but these coincidence happen more often than not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
"This was my thought too. If it were me, I'd definitely be talking to the teacher and maybe even the school counselor."

Why would you bother the school with this? This wasn't a school event, nor did it take place in the school. It's a parenting issue.


People sometimes ask the teacher for insights on social situations involving their child and the rest of the class. It's not a demand on the school. If something arose in school that might explain why this girl is being ostracized, it might help OP to understand.

PP here. That's true. Thanks for answering the question.

[Anonymous]

OP where are you and why aren't you answering the questions? I would like to know how you know the other parent said that your daughter was not invited.