Forum Index
»
DC Public and Public Charter Schools
No, honey, we are the same people you know in real life. |
| I know tons of people who (probably rightly) assume a dcps kid won’t be as well prepared as a private school kid. This isn’t news. I don’t blame people whose kids want a stem degree to stay at schools that prepare you for that. Not sure why there are people trying to argue about this. |
NP - but yes, this is true. These are the people you know irl. Anonymity is a funny thing because people say whatever they want here and often filter things depending who they are talking to irl. This is why I like DCUM, because it shows me what people really think- not the facade they put on to the masses. |
|
OP: LOL to the comment about detouring my questions... Also I find it helpful that some had reservations just by being there. It seems like some people think I should not put Walls on a "pedestal" so to speak. Go to an open house and keep our minds and options open. I am not thinking "hey it's a free private" but I am hoping for challenging curriculum, excellent college preparation, social/clubs, safe, and reasonable to navigate student/teacher communications and relationships. My child has friends at Walls through sports. I'm leaning toward talking to their parents in real life to get a sense of the overall vibe. I am not surprised that they get few private admits. It's a big, expensive decision if it's accessible at all to go to private. Most probably don't shift for various reasons that would not have to do with the quality of Walls compared to private. Since only 15 admits came from private, I'm not likely to find a critical mass of responses to my targeted "what's different about the process since we don't do CAPE" question, but now that's answered... I guess back to lurking on other Walls posts. I know kids at JR and they love it. I have to wonder if parents are overthinking high school.
|
I think talking to current and recent Walls parents and students is your best bet. That's what we did, and it was really helpful. Did we come away thinking Walls was the best thing since sliced bread? No. Did we come away thinking that it offered sufficient challenge, good college prep and outcomes, nice kids, accessible teachers, and EC's our kid wanted? Absolutely. People we talked to IRL were generally happy and their kids were happy with their education and their college options (which were more affordable because their parents weren't paying for private HS). See what your kid's friends' parents have to say. |
|
Walls is a good option but I didn’t like the crowded feeling during the open house. I find quibbling over courses as not that differentiating in the long run unless specifically required by a target college.
For subject deep dives there is Gemini and so many videos and podcasts and interest groups to supplement. The advanced kids truly interested in a topic were doing stuff building robots doing intricate craft or writing their own novels and not at all confined to what the teacher is providing in a classroom setting. |
I totally think parents overthink high schools. My high school and college education have zero to do with my success in life. I actually think teaching life and social skills would do a lot more good. The problem is we live in a keeping up with the Jones’s society here, where people think academics are more important than resiliency, resourcefulness, sociability , adaptability, etc. The most successful people I know are the ones that have these skills that seem to be innate. I think the best life lesson you can give a kid is to show them they can adapt to any situation and to let them figure out how to be resilient in the face of challenges. |
|
“I totally think parents overthink high schools. My high school and college education have zero to do with my success in life. I actually think teaching life and social skills would do a lot more good. The problem is we live in a keeping up with the Jones’s society here, where people think academics are more important than resiliency, resourcefulness, sociability , adaptability, etc. The most successful people I know are the ones that have these skills that seem to be innate. I think the best life lesson you can give a kid is to show them they can adapt to any situation and to let them figure out how to be resilient in the face of challenges.” +1 |
+1 It doesn’t have to be one or other. You can have a kid get a great academic experience and also be resilient and adaptable. It’s not like private school kids can’t have both. It’s not like the top performers at Deal who leave to go private don’t already have acquired these traits in the chaotic, dysfunctional sh’tshow that is DCPS. The reality is that the academics in DCPS is subpar. Most families with options leave. It’s not about keeping up with the Jones. It’s about meeting the academic needs of the top kids which in DCPS leaves much to be desired. |
LOL. Doesn’t sound like you are “searching” much. |
The number of private admits is some subset of 15…it could just be a few. |
Just send your kid to Eastern and they can pull themselves up by their bootstraps, amirite? |
Eastern definitely works for some kids. And there are kids who attend the most selective privates who never develop resilience and proceed to fall apart as adults. I’d pick Walls over Eastern or private, tbqh, but the PP is right that many high schools are good enough and none are perfect. |
If there's one school where the main criteria for getting in is being really smart, and another school where the main criteria is being really rich, then it seems almost impossible for kids at the second school to keep up with the first. Sorry. Being honest. |
NP. You don’t have to be really smart to get into Walls. You can even be below grade level in certain subjects. The criteria for entrance has significantly degraded with the admission changes. You have to be really smart to get into the top privates in high school. Being rich definately makes it easier to attend. But let’s not pretend that the kids who actually have the optiins of privates or Walls are not really smart. Being honest. |