Would you date a smoker?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:25 years ago I did, and married him. Thankfully he quit after a few years, and hasn't touched a cigarette in nearly two decades. It grosses him out now too.

At the time, he only smoked outside or in bars (it was allowed back then), never in a home or car. Didn't bother me too much, but cigarettes were around a lot more back then - like in every bar. So I guess I was more used to it.

I wouldn't put up with it today. No way would I date a smoker now. But I love my DH, so I'm glad I did back then!

A story similar to this is the reason I exist - my mom smoked when my parents started dating and my dad helped her quit.
Anonymous
Dealbreaker. Move on.
Anonymous
No. You can get a cancer from secondary smoke exposure (more dangerous than you think). I know a family where non smoking spouse got lung cancer and died in their early 60s. The smoker is still alive
Anonymous
No you are definitely not narrow-minded at all.

In this day ➕ age where cancer is so prevalent I do not see how ANYONE would start this disgusting habit!

If you continue this relationship long-term just imagine all the second-hand cigarette 🚬 smoke that you will inhale…….
Anonymous
No, the smell of smoke permeates everything
Anonymous
If an occasional tobacco smoker and only smoked outside, maybe. If smoking drugs, hell no.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can’t see a LTR as the habit is so awful but am I being narrow minded?


No. No addiction. Alcohol, smoking, drugs, porn, make up, gambling. You better compromise on looks if you must but not on addictions.


make up?
Anonymous
Did Obama ever quit?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Did Obama ever quit?
Is she going on dates with Obama?
Anonymous
No I wouldn't
Anonymous
No.
Anonymous
No, I have a strong sense of smell.

Now that my ex left me for another woman, he's started smoking again, and his teeth turned brown. He smells and looks great, lol.
Anonymous
Only if it was cannibus.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Only if it was cannibus.


You're my kind of people.
Anonymous
No

I also would not date a former smoker.

Sometimes they start smoking again.

I have asthma and can't take that risk

Plus it shows bad judgment to have ever smoked
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