Green card? Who cares. Is your illiterate step mom back yet Op? |
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Reddit is much more knowledgeable, here barely anyone has a green card or any experience with immigration for that matter.
Maybe call ice on her |
It is a common immigration play. She gets the immigration benefits also for her family, he is taken care of in his old age. Very very common. There does not need to be any communication at all, google translate works fine for this type of arrangement. Doubters are confusing love and marriage. This is a transactional type of marriage so love and deep communication are not really relevant. |
You sound nasty and judgmental. There is nothing wrong with her not working and staying home to care for her family. |
Anyone who does this deserves to be pulled over in the future for a traffic violation and jailed. |
No, it’s not fraud. It may be gross, and you may not like it, but it isn’t fraud. In fact, for centuries, this was marriage for many if not most women. |
Who do you think enters into these types of marriages??? I volunteer in our court system domestic violence cases. 100% White Christian MAGA males = mail order brides from Russia, Babies from Thailand, Columbia, etc...... How the hell do you think Trump found Melania? Putin's mail order bride. And Trump's illegal teen modeling agency where was your outrage over those green cards..... ???? Illegal Teen minors babies for god's sake! And now we have The Heritage Foundation building maternity homes for 16 and under child brides to breed. You think that is better than green card marriages??? |
Op here - she doesn’t stay home and take care of her family. She lives with my father and that is it. He works and she just stays at home doing nothing. She doesn’t volunteer or clean (they have a cleaner). She does cook occasionally. Doesn’t help with outside or inside maintenance. Pretty much putters around the house, works out and wait for my dad to get home. |
And? What’s the problem here? Just mad that your dad’s money will go to her? |
Your dad seems fine with this arrangement. What’s it to you? Worried he won’t leave you money when he dies? You sound greedy, nasty, and judgemental. |
Well, once the kids are grown up and you're retired, what do you think you'll do? What do you expect her to do? Your dad is a millionaire, so she doesn't need to earn money. They have no kids that need tending to. If it was an American woman or your mom instead of an illiterate immigrant, they'd do exactly what she does, maybe even less -- not cooking nor working out. |
| Wanted to add... doesn't help with outside or inside maintenance... You want her to paint the house or repair the roof? Do washing machine motor change? You sound out of touch. |
The more you trash her, the more we all realize you are probably bitter because your dad is a multimillionaire and will leave his millions to her. This is his 4th marriage, so you've thought you were home free for 3 other times now. The hard truth here is that you aren't entitled to anyone else's money unless they actually stole it from you, or you sue and a judge says you are. Even then, you have to sometimes accept that you will never get it. Better to focus on your own budget and living your best life within your own means. |