You have no idea what you are talking about. maury gets a lot of new kids in the older grades and a steady stream of turn over every year. And although I guess some parents have weird hang ups and insecurities, the vast majority of kids don’t and make friends readily. This is about the dumbest discourse on Hill schools I have read recently and that is saying a lot. My guess is that if you approach *first grade* as a “nut to crack,” you are the one with the problem, not the other parents. |
The fact that you think Maury gets a lot of new kids in older grades compared to almost any DCPS in the city shows how out of touch you are. Last year, Maury offered 0 seats from 1st upwards in the initial lottery. They filled approx 5 seats across those grades from the WL. The year before they also offered zero slots, but filled more from the WL. The other schools were talking about offer 5-15 seats per grade initially. Last year, Ludlow had 9 1st grade lottery seats, so at least than many new 1st graders. |
I don't feel holier than thou for sending my kid to a T1 for 1st -- we wound up there because we were stuck in our condo longer than expected and didn't get a spot at a better school until 2nd. I would have preferred to go to move earlier but lottery luck is what it is. But also the T1 was fine for 1st. There were not really behavioral issues at that age, my child's teacher was AMAZING (I think T1s tend to attract teachers who are really, really passionate about teaching, and also in DCPS T1 teachers make a bit more so it may be more competitive -- I can't speak highly enough about my kids 1st grade teacher) and we wound up having a wonderful year. I'm not defensive or upset about it. It wound up working out great and I have zero regrets, which is why I feel pretty confident telling OP, who is in DC for exactly one year for 1st grade, that they will likely be totally fine at one of the T1 schools on the Hill, especially if they find an ideal housing situation nearby and it's what works best for their commute. I would absolutely prioritize the housing and commute set up over a specific school, as I think having a small yard, being close to a playground or park, being in a houses with nicer finishes, and having a short, walkable commute to school and work would be way more important to me in that situation. |
I’m giving some of this grace because I should have been more specific that it took my kid (not me) longer than expected to make new friends. We’re very close with our (adult) friends on our immediate block. I have (adult) friends locally from pre-kids. We’re fine. We do want our kid to have friends in their class, for obvious reasons. And they made them and kept them, but it took longer when transferring for 1st than it did for the same kid in PK and K. There’s absolutely no harm in acknowledging that. And I honestly assume that would be the case anywhere where the entry years are the same as DCPS. |
That’s definitely not true for 3-5th. |
|
OP - I think after you weeded through the typical DCUM bickering, you found the advice that Maury or Ludlow will be a great fit for you. I have friends with K-3rd graders at each and they are all very happy. For my child, lotteried every year for K, 1st, and 2nd and got a match or waitlist for Ludlow each year. We were still relatively happy at our T1 in bound (until 1st when it was obvious we needed something else) so we turned them down until 2nd, when we ended up taking a lottery spot at a NW school because we plan to be in DC for a long time and wanted the middle and high school options. But it was really hard to turn down the Ludlow offer since it gave us such good vibes.
I am assuming your spouse is here for some kind of fellowship? I would have them check with the coordinator and their office to see where coworkers live. Just thinking based on experience that there will be a social cohort there and that may be your “in” for your child’s social group as well. Welcome to Dc! |
Not sure what you’re saying isn’t true. It is 100% true and confirmable on the lottery results page that Maury hasn’t offered a seat in the initial lottery in 1st grade or up since at least 2019, so any new kids in a particular grade are very hit or miss (they have often offered some seats via the WL; it’s hard to know how many seats v offers). That’s very different than Ludlow (and most other Hill schools) that routinely offer 5-15 spots a year, so there are reliably new kids in every grade. That’s not an insult to Maury; it’s a sign of its popularity. But it’s also a reason it might be harder to be a new kid there. |
Not progressive at all. Just making the choices I think are best for my family for now. I would love if the school had better CAPE scores, but for early elementary I don't think it warrants moving or committing to long/multiple school commutes. I can see my own child's iReady scores. I know the kids in my child's peer group and their families. I'm not sure why anyone would trust the advice of someone who admits to looking up student data just to "prove a point" on the internet. Seems very unprofessional. |
Yeah you need to stop thinking you know everything. TONS of kids were added in the upper grades post-pandemic. |
| Maury gets a ton of new students starting in K who dont get a PreK spot. It is heavily IB but people move into the boundary not all that infrequently, the grade size is large, and a new IB family there is not going to have a more difficult time there socially than anywhere else |
And the advice of a random mother who only has the experience from a single child is more of an expert? Hm, ok. Unprofessional? You act as if I posted scores, or even mentioned exact scores. You may say ‘on the internet’ as if that equates to evidence not needing to be validated in some way. You tried to lie and insulate your claim that first is ‘fine.’ Or perhaps more than it being a lie, it’s just your own ignorance. Now I won’t be replying on this matter again. Van Ness is not the worst school, there’s simply better options. |
I mean, yikes, most Maury families I know are way better than this thread, but like the PP before this is right that all of this info is oubligalotba |
I didn’t realize how clueless Maury parents were. You get very, very new few kids in upper grades. Your “TONS” is most kids normal. Like you apparently have no idea what most kids face; it’s crazy. |
You have been arguing with at least three different posters -- the PP you're replying to isn't even the one who said 1st is "fine" (that would be me and I stand by it). Glad to hear you're taking a break, it seems like you need a breather. |
I never suggested Van Ness for OP. I also wasn't the one who said it would be fine. For OP it's probably going to be too far outside of her comfort zone. There are enough viable options elsewhere on the Hill. I have access to a lot of sensitive personal data at work. I use it when necessary to do my job. I cannot imagine accessing it to prove a point to "a random" on the internet. |