I'm the PP who you originally responded to, and I read your post, and I don't understand it. You say you are against banning foods but then you argue in favor of keeping these foods out of "shared public spaces" so I actually don't quite understand what you are arguing for. Should people be able to send foods with allergens to school, or consume them in public, or not? Yes we should encourage hand washing and proper hygiene but unless you are going to require people to wash or sanitize their hands before entering public spaces, you will never get 100% compliance. As the PP said, unless you literally ban peanuts as a substance, you won't be able to control whether kids consuming peanut butter or peanuts in private homes or their cars thoroughly scrub their hands before going to school or the playground. So what is the difference between that and a kid eating a PB&J at the playground (far from your kid with an allergy) and then playing on the equipment? I don't know what the answer to this situation is, but I don't think it should be try and keep the general population from eating any food that might contain an allergen in a public place. |
| There is nobody banning food from all public places it’s a safety issue in small intimate settings like…school. Don’t be a jerk. Consider other people maybe? You can survive without peanuts at school. The kids with allergies cannot say the reverse. Cost/benefit. |
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My nephew was visiting and a neighborhood kid gave him some chocolate with nuts. He has a severe allergy, six years old, and parents didnt have EpiPen with them. He went to hospital and had to be sent to a children’s hospital.
Just a little caused a major reaction, it was scary. |
Guess that’s his own problem to deal with. He should have stayed home if he was so allergic. |
Did you read the thread? It's not just peanuts. What people are saying is that they were fine avoiding peanuts and then they were also told they had to avoid common replacements for nuts, like soy and sunflower seeds/oil. And that some places ban all Big 8 allergens which includes wheat, dairy, and eggs (I assume few people are burdened by not being able to send shell fish to school). Plus it turns out that peanut allergies are not even the most common or severe allergy, so the places that still only ban peanuts/tree nuts are odd because why would you ban that but not milk, which is about equal to tree nuts in terms of occurrence and severity. Also, some schools are small and intimate, but some schools serve thousands of students. I get banning peanuts in a preschool or daycare setting where the kids are just in a few rooms, at the age where they are going to touch each other and may attempt to share food despite best efforts, and etc. But banning peanuts in an elementary or middle school with 500-800 kids? When you could more easily just institute some rules that would be pretty easy to follow (no eating food from home anywhere but the lunch room, kids with allergies are provided with tables that you can only sit at with allergen-free food). Plus reminding kids to wash hands after eating. |
I am the biggest proponent for getting rid of X free schools and environments but in return, there needs to be a general awareness that food doesnt belong in shared spaces for children without cleaning up after yourself, including your child and their physical body. So let me get this straight, HANDWASHING is too big of a road bump for kids and their families, to protect kids with allergens and also themselves from colds and viruses? Parents of kids with allergies should just not go to shared public spaces because instead of asking people not to eat the allergen (which sounds crazy to me as well and also not effective) we also cant ask that people just wash their hands and their kids hands, specifically? BTW, us crazy allergy parents, do literally everything - at a huge expense to our finances and times and work and personal lives and risk to our children- to do things like OIT requiring biweekly visits for 4 hours per day, Xolair, food challenges, daily dosing, sublingual therapies, yearly blood draws, etc to try to get our kids to grow out of it and train their immune system to not go crazy over their allergens but its a step too far for kids to wash their hands after they eat. Which BTW is also self-protective and generally known to be the biggest advancement in humankind and our survival but OKAY! |
| So, you want people to thoroughly wash their hands after they eat a Snickers bar at a park with a playground? |
| 2 of my kids have severe allergies to peanuts, tree nuts, and sunflower seeds. Sucks. But my third has zero allergies. He gets to eat these things even at home. BUT I get why schools don’t want that liability esp if your sunflower or peanut kid doesn’t wash their hands or clean their face after eating. Can a teacher monitor everyone that closely or tell when a kid is going into early stage anaphylaxis? is bringing this really worth another kid dying? FFS |
Wait, are we time travelers to Sparta? |
I wash my hands and encourage my kids to wash hands regularly. But not everyone does. Despite a lot of public education and conditioning to get people to wash their hands, one in five adult American admit to not washing their hands every time they use the bathroom. And that's people self reporting, you can assume the real number is lower. When it comes to getting kids to wash hands, you might get high compliance in schools and daycares where it's built into daily routines, but I would assume an even lower than 80% compliance rate with parents at home with kids (or at a playground). It's not that I don't think people understand that hand washing is important. It's just that people are lazy, and getting kids to do stuff they don't want to do is an inconvenience, so from a practical standpoint, you're just never going to get 100% compliance on this. Ever. Just like we never got 100% compliance on public masking during the pandemic. Humans are imperfect. So any policy approach to allergens that relies on other people to protect people with allergies is flawed, IMO. I think you need a combination of targeted institutional policy making (I'd support classroom bans over school wide bans, based on the allergies in an actual classroom, and perhaps accommodations like allergen-free lunch tables as people have suggested) and vigilance on the part of people with allergies. That might be frustrating but it's just the reality. You can get upset about it or you can accept that you are never going to get 100% compliance with an effort designed primarily to protect 5% or less of the population. Again, people wouldn't even comply with mask mandates during the height of Covid when part of the goal was to protect themselves. Even people who wanted to comply did so imperfectly (wet, sagging masks or masks worn under the nose or fabric masks that didn't really work, etc.). The idea that you will do better with a permanent measure that a lot of people will view as unnecessary or overzealous is just unrealistic. It's really hard to control individual behaviors. |
I agree with you but this is why we should really be looking at why allergies are proliferating and more aggressively pursuing methods of decreasing the incidence of allergies or decreasing their severity, like the exposure therapies many allergists are now recommending. We should also consider asking if food bans may have inadvertently increased the incidence of allergies, or made existing allergies worse, by decreasing the frequency with which kids come into incidental physical contact with allergens. Like before we freak out about the odds that a public playground might have allergens on its surfaces (odds that are probably extremely high -- it's a public playground!) we might want to consider that traditionally allergens were everywhere, all the time, and that attempting to control them may actually have made more kids develop the kinds of severe allergies we are talking about now. Like what if the reason so many more kids have scary allergies now is because a generation or two ago, those kids would have been frequently encountering tree nut particles, milk or egg particles, etc., at school and on playgrounds and at friends houses. And now it's very common for schools, daycares, and parents of young kids to avoid foods that contain any of those allergens at all. Is this approach actually making things worse? Maybe let's figure that out before we start screaming at people on playgrounds to hose down their kid after their lunch. |
Ideally, yes. People should wash hands before and after eating. In a lurch, where there is no sink or soap available, commercial wipes are sufficient to remove most proteins. https://www.foodallergy.org/resources/cleaning-methods Hand sanitizer with water doesnt work as well. |
Seems like that’s the direction of the world these days. |
Good God stop. Most allergies are identified prior to introduction to playgrounds or schools. |
My son year old seems to have more empathy for allergies than some of the commenters here. He'll also remind me when my sister brings her dog that we need to put up any chocolate or grapes. |