What's your unusual attraction?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t think this is necessarily unusual, but as I’ve gotten older (I’m a 40F), I’m basically only attracted to 6/6/6/8+ men. At least 6 feet, 6 pack, 6 figures, and 8 inches. And they need to have a muscular 6 pack, not deathly skinny 6 pack.

I don’t know why. In my 20s and 30s I was attracted to a wide range of men, short, fat, broke, etc. But now I can’t do it.

I have seen the numbers on this stupid viral standard and just the 6/6/6/ standard in less half a percent of men. Throw in the 8" requirement and you probably have better odds of walking through a random forest and spotting a unicorn.

Ironically, in this area the 6' and 6 figure income probably aren't that hard to find. The six pack is where it starts to get tricky, there are more millionaires in the US than men with 6 packs.

PP. That tracks, of the men on dating apps who swipe right on me, I swipe right on way less than 1% of them. But I get at least 100 men a date swiping right on me, so I still get around a match a day who fits my criteria (well, except the 8” since I can’t see that, but I just ask for nudes early on). That’s 7-10 matches a week and I go out with around 2 of them. Plus I meet men in public and exchange numbers, too (usually at places like the gym, where I can already gauge fitness and income level).

I’ve tried hooking up with men who didn’t meet the standard and I just can’t get into it. Last weekend I tried, and couldn’t get turned on, ended up asking if he would leave. I felt bad, but I can’t really help what I want.

I can be flexible on the 6 figures. The last guy I dated made far less, but was absolutely perfect physically. I don’t mind paying for dates. I just don’t want to marry that guy, ya know?

As a man I absolutely love your mindset. You are a wh**e like many of us guys lol. You go for the D just like we go for the coochie and make no apologies about that. I love it welcome to the club.

[Anonymous]

Dark women. Something about that chocolate and glowing smooth skin.

[Anonymous]

Women with big butt. Instant attraction. I just can't do women with flat butt I just can't.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think this is necessarily unusual, but as I’ve gotten older (I’m a 40F), I’m basically only attracted to 6/6/6/8+ men. At least 6 feet, 6 pack, 6 figures, and 8 inches. And they need to have a muscular 6 pack, not deathly skinny 6 pack.

I don’t know why. In my 20s and 30s I was attracted to a wide range of men, short, fat, broke, etc. But now I can’t do it.

It’s an unfortunate attraction, because you’re less and less likely to attract this type of man yourself.

I’ve actually been attracting more of them. When I was younger I was too intimidated by them, despite being very attractive myself. Now I see myself as their equal, I make just as much money as they do, and I get a lot of interest from attractive men who don’t want their own kids and would prefer stepkids (which there are a surprising number of). Also helps that I’m a lot of fun and plan good dates! I have a date with a cute one tonight.

A “man who prefers step kids”- honestly this might be a phrase that’s never been spoken. Is that what they tell you?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think this is necessarily unusual, but as I’ve gotten older (I’m a 40F), I’m basically only attracted to 6/6/6/8+ men. At least 6 feet, 6 pack, 6 figures, and 8 inches. And they need to have a muscular 6 pack, not deathly skinny 6 pack.

I don’t know why. In my 20s and 30s I was attracted to a wide range of men, short, fat, broke, etc. But now I can’t do it.

It’s an unfortunate attraction, because you’re less and less likely to attract this type of man yourself.

I’ve actually been attracting more of them. When I was younger I was too intimidated by them, despite being very attractive myself. Now I see myself as their equal, I make just as much money as they do, and I get a lot of interest from attractive men who don’t want their own kids and would prefer stepkids (which there are a surprising number of). Also helps that I’m a lot of fun and plan good dates! I have a date with a cute one tonight.

Do you request a dick pic before meeting in person? A financial statement? How do you verify all of this?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I love me some pregnant women.
Maybe not 9+ months( I feel kinda bad for them), but months 3-7 get me stiff.

At 3 months you can’t even tell! Men are so dumb about these things.

UmK, sure, we never notice our otherwise thin co-worker's tits just balloon up at that phase, before the stomach starts to show.

If I were your coworker I would be very disturbed by this.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's hard to describe exactly, but it's women who work in public facing science/nature roles. Park rangers, zookeepers, that kind of thing.

Is it the outfit?

Zookeepers and park rangers tend to be very fit, nice tans, but also low maintenance/natural. It's an appealing combination because the people you find who are fit and tan at a gym tend to be really high maintenance and done up.

[Anonymous]

I hooked up with a woman once and she had a test I never heard about. Apparently if she can wrap your D with both up and stroke it then your D size met her requirement. That was what she found attractive. Yeah she was only good for f**g and nothing else. Every time I was horny I would call her until I got tired of her and dump her. Bizarre

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think this is necessarily unusual, but as I’ve gotten older (I’m a 40F), I’m basically only attracted to 6/6/6/8+ men. At least 6 feet, 6 pack, 6 figures, and 8 inches. And they need to have a muscular 6 pack, not deathly skinny 6 pack.

I don’t know why. In my 20s and 30s I was attracted to a wide range of men, short, fat, broke, etc. But now I can’t do it.

I have seen the numbers on this stupid viral standard and just the 6/6/6/ standard in less half a percent of men. Throw in the 8" requirement and you probably have better odds of walking through a random forest and spotting a unicorn.

Ironically, in this area the 6' and 6 figure income probably aren't that hard to find. The six pack is where it starts to get tricky, there are more millionaires in the US than men with 6 packs.

PP. That tracks, of the men on dating apps who swipe right on me, I swipe right on way less than 1% of them. But I get at least 100 men a date swiping right on me, so I still get around a match a day who fits my criteria (well, except the 8” since I can’t see that, but I just ask for nudes early on). That’s 7-10 matches a week and I go out with around 2 of them. Plus I meet men in public and exchange numbers, too (usually at places like the gym, where I can already gauge fitness and income level).

I’ve tried hooking up with men who didn’t meet the standard and I just can’t get into it. Last weekend I tried, and couldn’t get turned on, ended up asking if he would leave. I felt bad, but I can’t really help what I want.

I can be flexible on the 6 figures. The last guy I dated made far less, but was absolutely perfect physically. I don’t mind paying for dates. I just don’t want to marry that guy, ya know?

I kept my profile private because I found having to wade through 100 likes a day to be annoying and frustrating- like - these guys swipe on anyone- even from many states away. I didn’t find it a flex, but a frustration.

Can you tell me more about asking men for nude photos before meeting or becoming intimate with them? If their member appears insufficient do you just fade off, or do you tell them you don’t want to go out again? Curious how this works, as a woman if a man asks for nudes before he’s seen me nude- I mismatch cause I think he’s a creepy loser. Curious how this works when it’s the woman asking for a nude..

[Anonymous]

My unusual attraction: Men with long hair, but only two specific types— 80s hair band style/ David Bowie in Labyrinth, and American Indian/darker skinned South American men with long hair.

Not unusual attraction: dark hair/light eyes combo.

[Anonymous]

I like short men who are lithe and muscular.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My unusual attraction: Men with long hair, but only two specific types— 80s hair band style/ David Bowie in Labyrinth, and American Indian/darker skinned South American men with long hair.

Not unusual attraction: dark hair/light eyes combo.

So does the oft-mentioned Momoa meet the requirements of your first attraction?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I like skinny guys. Runner/soccer player build.

Same. Skinny, tall men with lean muscle, like how Alexander Skarsgard looks. Dh is a biker and a runner. I really like that his 6 pack is natural and not from working out in a gym or doing sit ups.

Bears or chubby men really turn me off.

You probably like fit men as opposed to skinny. I am 6'0 140 lbs all muscles and I don't think most women like my body type as I am very skinny. But my wife likes my body so that's good enough for me.

No I like that! My dh is 6'2 and 160lbs. Lanky is what I like. Must still have muscles though, not skinny fat.

I dislike those muscles from gym bros who take testosterone.

[Anonymous]

Sweaters and sweater vests on a thin guy with somewhat messy hair.

[Anonymous]

Nice hands