Lol hypsm do not have more chill or noticeably different kids than penn brown columbia northwestern…sports may be better at the non ivies but the students are essentially the same: high intensity, driven, separated into finance bros, premeds, tech kids, or prelaw. Consulting for the undecided or humanities kids. |
There's usually a different kind of kid going to Brown or Dartmouth than to Princeton or MIT, at least from our HS. |
So the 1% are overrepresented. There are a lot more of them there than you would expect or find. But if the cohort is poorer and less connected, coupled with the less fun environment there's not much reason for the 1% to go to those schools. What's in it for them? |
It's why schools like Wake and Tulane are growing more popular. For the Pell group, sure, it's great from a social mobility perspective for those kids in the long term, but it makes for a horribly bifurcated social life and cliquey campus life (have any of you stepped on these campuses lately? it's a case of the haves (goyard totes, VCA, Cartier bracelets, Fendi baguettes, GG shoes on the girls) and have-nots) - Vanderbilt, anyone? The groups are formed in the first week. With Greek life's growing importance (even off campus at schools like Duke), your Pell grant kid is NOT moving into that social circle in college. Ever. Its not happened. Yes, they'll form their own circle, but let's not pretend this experiment is kumbaya and everyone is friends together. It is absolutely not like that. People need a giant wake-up call. |
Idk about less fun, they certainly seem to have a lot of fun at my kid’s ivy. As a 2%er with a sibling in the 1%, we each have had kids pick ivy/t10 over the past five years: it is a great education and they study among the brightest peers of their age! Those who are there seek that. There may be fewer 1% kids and more pell grant/poor kids but it does not seem to be deterring the 1%ers who get in from going to these places. |
Oh come on. Wake and Tulane are not being picked by the 1% who actually had a kid also get into an ivy. |
We know a private HS kid who ED to Wake, who absolutely could have gotten into private T20....wanted fun, social, and non-bot/nerdy vibe that wasn't a large flagship. Very few real options. Are you in a public-school immigrant bubble? If so, that would explain your disbelief. It's way more common than you think. |
Plenty of 1%ers don't even care enough to apply. It's not the environment they are looking for. |
A quote from the article comparing elite WL admits to those WL at elites and went to the flagship: “The graduates of elite colleges outperformed those who went elsewhere in three key ways. They were 60% more likely to have earnings in the top 1%—that extra lottery ticket. They were nearly twice as likely to attend a graduate school ranked in the top 10. And they were three times as likely to work for a prestigious employer, such as a research hospital, a top law or consulting firm, or a national newspaper. But when it came to earnings, Deming found that the average income of Ivy-plus graduates was pretty much the same as those who went to selective public flagship schools” In other words, elites benefit. Maybe it is intellectual bias as a family of research MDs and top-law lawyers but I care more about the intellectual prestige of a job than the exact $ earnings. Being a 1% earner would not get me anything different than my 2%er salary, and wife and I love our jobs. |
Paul Tudor Jones, founder of Tudor Investment Corp, (UVA) Bill Gross, co-founder of PIMCO, (UCLA MBA) David Shaw, founder of D.E. Shaw & Co (UCSD) Julian Hart Robertson, founder of Tiger Management (UNC) Jim Simons, founder of Renaissance Technologies (UCB MS and PhD) Lee Ainslie, founder of Maverick Capital (UVA, UNC MBA) And a bunch more, though above are some of the biggest and most notable funds. Plus the people who went to “lesser” privates like Ray Dalio (Long Island University), Ken Tropin (Goddard College), etc. Of course the top schools are heavily overrepresented in this space, and some of the above have additional degrees from a “better” school. But I always find it odd when people claim they don’t see it. |
My son is a senior and he read the article and enjoyed it. My DS especially liked the ending about infinite game (career) versus finite game (college).
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People gravitate towards people like themselves. I am going to take a guess that you didn't know anyone of generational wealth in college or grad school - because you don't know how to recognize it. While your ivy opened doors for your generation, the next generation will have a very hard time getting into an ivy because there is no pity party for children of ivy grads. Many 1st gens that graduate into high salary figures think they have reached an UMC level of wealth but if it's not generational, the children will be wage slaves too trying to maintain the same lifestyle and similarly without any cushion. Wealth has cushion, those kids can choose careers like art curator or non-profit work because they just need to get by. They don't need to save. |
No. Top private day school in the northeast with very wealthy families and about 10-15% of graduates go to ivy/duke/stanford. Wake is for the above average ED, a backup RD for the top, and Tulane ED is for the bottom 1/2. Truly. No one who is truly ivy-level ends up at wake unless they are very unlucky in admissions to T20. Tulane has very few applications from the top 1/2. We have detailed Scoir data by uw and w gpa and the kids know their deciles in 11th grade. |
If you want to make lifelong connections to the "right cohort" you should put energy in getting your kid into the "right" K-8 or K-12. The lifelong friendships are made then, and private school students at elite colleges often hang with other kids who went to similar private elementary/high schools. Elite college is cliquey but in kindergarten the kids are so young they don't care. That's been my experience having gone to private K-12 in NYC myself, putting my kids through that now, and having one at so-called "top 20" elite college now. |
I couldn't agree with this more. I see it in my circle. |