Why do people buy houses on the basis of 2 salaries instead of 1?

[Anonymous]

In our case, one spouse is an excessive spender who's always in financial trouble, and the other is too weak to say no.

[Anonymous]

This is so “let them eat cake.” Most people can’t afford a home within a reasonable commute if their job in an area with good schools on just one income. This is not their fault but a predictable outcome of policy choices. I say that as someone who does own a home we could afford based on one income, but that is in part thanks to the fact that my DH got on the property ladder in 2000 thanks to a $40K gift from his parents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why do people buy houses on the basis of 2 salaries instead of 1?

Wouldn't it better to buy on the basis of the spouse who has the lower salary? Wouldn't that be a better strategy to manage financial shocks if one spouse loses their job.

Seems to be the season for dumb questions on DCUM.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, why do people even *have* two salaries in the first place? Don't they know it's less stressful for everyone in the household if only one parent works? Someone should tell people this.

Zero is better than one. Why don’t people just use their trust fund?

Yeah, what is wrong with people these days?!!?

Thanks! I needed an afternoon laugh!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No one would ever be able to own a home then now that starter homes are going for over $400 and $500k+.

So many Boomers still living in the 1960s when you could own home on the husband's GM factory job alone while the wife stayed home.

The tiny brick rambler we bought for $200,000 back in 2002 we sold for $650,000 last year. That’s entry-level now.

[Anonymous]

I'll bite.

That is how we afford the house.

[Anonymous]

This has got to be one of the dumbest and most out of touch posts I’ve ever seen on this forum, and that’s saying something.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This has got to be one of the dumbest and most out of touch posts I’ve ever seen on this forum, and that’s saying something.

Yup. Even worse than the “we make $600,000 a year can we afford a $100,000 house” types.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In our case, one spouse is an excessive spender who's always in financial trouble, and the other is too weak to say no.

So good plan for not overspending on the house. But have a reality check---staying with someone who is "always in financial trouble" is hard on a marriage. You need to find the way to say no and learn to separate your finances (I fully support combining them and dont' really get the not unless rare circumstances, and this is one case). if you choose to stay, you need to protect yourself

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In our case, one spouse is an excessive spender who's always in financial trouble, and the other is too weak to say no.

So good plan for not overspending on the house. But have a reality check---staying with someone who is "always in financial trouble" is hard on a marriage. You need to find the way to say no and learn to separate your finances (I fully support combining them and dont' really get the not unless rare circumstances, and this is one case). if you choose to stay, you need to protect yourself

We file taxes separately and don’t have any joint credit cards. Also it’s only a matter of time until we get a divorce over financial and other issues. When I say no, he throws a tantrum and threatens me. That's how we ended up with a ridiculous mortgage, and that's not even the worst of it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Also, why do people even *have* two salaries in the first place? Don't they know it's less stressful for everyone in the household if only one parent works? Someone should tell people this.

Oh God, it's another one of these threads.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, why do people even *have* two salaries in the first place? Don't they know it's less stressful for everyone in the household if only one parent works? Someone should tell people this.

Please tell me about your lower stress life when your one income is threatened by the current administration's budget. I'll wait.

[Anonymous]

People generally want the best lifestyle money can buy. They dont earn 2 incomes because they like working. They do it so they can spend more both now and in the future.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why do people buy houses on the basis of 2 salaries instead of 1?

Wouldn't it better to buy on the basis of the spouse who has the lower salary? Wouldn't that be a better strategy to manage financial shocks if one spouse loses their job.

Because most people want a neighborhood that has good schools etc and that usually isn't in the cheaper place.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Check your privilege.

Most couples don't have the typical DCUM HHI. They afford townhouses in the exurbs on TWO salaries so they can raise their children. Most Americans can never aspire to DCUM salaries.

Shame on you. I despise posters like you.

Relax hombre. They didn't voice their opinion..they simply asked why people buy on the basis of 2 incomes..And they are not wrong. A lot of us can't see ourselves living in normal "basic" homes.

It took our 2 incomes to buy the most basic house available in the area. Truth is no one is building truly basic houses, but small, well designed SFHs are something our country definitely needs. Sorry but crowded stacked townhouses with no trees or access to outdoors suck.

Many promotions and a divorce later, it worked out because me and the kids got to stay in the “basic” house while ex traveled and worked. But our 80s house is not truly basic, it is merely basic compared to the 90s and beyond McMansions etc that followed.