It is not cruel to be honest. It’s a few weeks away and a typical wait time. DP |
OP wasn't specific, but if you search this forum you'll find a lot of women who found the wait for a diagnostic mammogram and/or a biopsy to be really long. In my case it was six weeks for each, so about 3 months after the original mammo. That made me completely crazy with anxiety tbh; only when I posted here (or read someone else's post) did I realize it was pretty much the norm.
In the end I got the all clear, but I remember feeling paralyzed with fear (my mom died of ovarian diagnosed at the exact same age as I am now) so I totally sympathize with anyone who is in limbo and finds our health care system overly byzantine. Good luck OP! |
I had to wait 3 months last year for diagnostic mammogram. Is this at Inova Fairfax? |
I'm sorry OP. I don't think Washington Radiology would have anything (they screwed up my appointment scheduled last week and the next available they had wasn't til October), but I was able to reschedule with Fairfax Radiology. Medstar never called me back, but maybe you'll have more luck with them. And as someone else mentioned upthread, NYC has more hospitals and may have more availability... |
+1 The wait is the hardest, the not knowing. But IF it’s anything the wait isn’t going to make a difference. Is there a way you can mentally put it in a drawer when you start thinking about it? It helps me to do that. |
False. This was for an initial consultation. GW and Medstar were able to make an appointment right away when I called the main line. Inova futzed around for 2 days before anyone called me back. |
I’m so very sorry. That’s not ok. |
Perhaps it shouldn’t be a typical wait time. |
I dislike women in groups, who trivialize other women's fears. I have GAD and panic disorder and never had a mammogram as I know I couldn't tolerate wait times like this. So I'm collateral damage and will be mocked by the hyena pack of women who put down my intolerance. Male doctors and men in general are more supportive of me than any women are.
If I get breast cancer I'm not treating it, just going straight to medical aid in dying. That's what "one size fits all" medicine does. |
I had an ultrasound this week to see if cancer has spread to my lymph nodes. The hospital specifically said they would read the scans by the end of the day on Friday. They did not. It’s the weekend now and I have to wait until Monday, at least. Previously, my biopsy results took A MONTH to come back. These timelines are absurd but we are powerless to do anything about it. |
Maybe women don’t treat you well because you give off strong “cool girl” vibes. |
Long wait times is an excuse they always give to not have a medical system like Canada, UK or Australia. |
What does this mean? Wait times are longer in those countries than here, if you can get an appointment at all. |
Yes, someone admitting to this much anxiety probably does experience herself as a “cool girl” /s WTF? PP, Bay Radiology in Annapolis does all needed followup through biopsy on the same day. I started at 48 because I have already had organs removed for cancer risk and frankly cannot tolerate waiting around for results and that wait being treated casually by the system. Bay Radiology has been a Godsend in that regard. |
When I needed a call back for a suspicious spot on my breast, fairfax radiology got me in quickly. I had to go to Loudoun but it was worth it. |