If your dh was chronically unemployed, would you expect your ils to bring it up?
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Anonymous
| EDIT: Ultimately it's a complex situation, and I wonder if OP's is too. In this case, the DH is not a deadbeat or watching TV all day and gambling.*** |
Anonymous
| Reverse the genders and say all of this. Highly sexist. |