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Anonymous wrote:Op here I wasn't gona post this but she left cause she's been having an affair for a while . She moved in with her ap . She didn't work which was fine cause she took care of our son but I had to work like crazy to keep up her lifestyle. I haven't been thinking the best the last 24 hrs . I was just trying to make sure I didn't miss anything. Thanks everyone for the ideas I know this mostly moms on here but I truly do appreciate you all taking time to give me ideas what to get . Now I guess I start over .
If you're so checked out that you don't even know what your 4 year old child uses daily in terms of furniture and other essential items... your wife must have felt so neglected that I don't really blame her for looking elsewhere for an emotional and romantic connection. You only talk about giving her money. What about connection? In situations such as yours, the blame isn't all on the cheater. There's a whole of blame that attaches to the cheatee, ie, YOU. And I would also say this if gender roles were reversed. Marriage is not transactional. You are more than a wallet, but apparently you didn't bother to stretch to anything else. You get what you deserve (and so does she - she doesn't sound like a great catch either). If ever there is a next time for you, choose better, and behave better. Op here she was given connection . I spent every weekend with her helping around the house . I actually tried to help shop for our son and she shoved me out of it . I tried to go on datenights but she never accepted interested. I tried to make more of a connection. I planned a surprise birthday party for her last year . She acted somewhat happy always wanted more . I have somewhat of an idea to get just wanted to make sure I don't forget anything.
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