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I think this is about "influencers" on A2C, TikTok, instagram. Who, I admit, I follow.
The story they tell is that SCEA is zero help, and if you're not hooked, can harm you. You're better off EDing a half step or full step down and locking something in. The lesson is that those T5 schools are out of favor - they're getting more apps now that pre-pandemic (less than when they were test optional and everyone was throwing one in). The story is they're IMPOSSIBLE really if you're unhooked so don't throw away your shot at ED. Use it wise ie, a T20/25, not T5. |
“Nerds” would totally be better. And as your kid older, you’ll discover most of the students going to T20 schools are nerds with something. The prom queen goes to different schools. |
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who knows. this kid seems to think he could have/should have done better?
https://www.reddit.com/r/ApplyingToCollege/comments/1keco03/did_i_get_screwed_over_and_could_i_have_done/ |
All of the adults I know who went to T20 schools self identify as nerds. The adults who want to be seen as cool are pretty much all dummies. I’m sure there are exceptions of course. |
| I can’t speak for all these kids, but my non-partier, doesn’t like Greek life, not quirky social kid would be pleased to be classified as a nerd. Their nerdiness doesn’t show on the outside much, they can move in a lot of circles. |
Well, it's my post you are referring to and I went to a T10 for undergrad and a T5 for law school, and don't identify as a nerd. I guess my college and law school friends don't know you. |
Interesting. I also attended a T5 law school and everyone there was a nerd, even the Brett Kavanaugh types who thought they were cool. |
My good looking athlete is at a T10. Prom Queen can marry middle manager at her different school. |
It’s the norm nowadays. My son and his friends are all like this. They were athletes (some still play in college) , lots of friends, social. I am so glad they aren’t majoring in partying/tailgaiting like me and my friends. I swear so many of my generation have alcohol use disorder as adults. We also had DDriving issues with the kids that do party. So much healthier to have other outlets and be confident enough to not have to get sh@t faced to socialize. |
| Mothers still more concerned about their kids’ popularity and social status. So pathetic. |
+100 So glad my kids didn’t want anywhere with a big Greek presence |
30 years ago is a long time ago. These days you generally need to bring it. There are exceptions of course with the hooked people. But for unhooked, you generally need to be pretty stellar - unlike 30 years ago. |
Complete bs. I know multiple high achieving HS kids in the DMV. And they are obsessed with the Ivies. Way more so than their parents actually |
| My kid is going to Vandy. We are thrilled but her first choice was ivy schools but didn’t get in. |
+++ the ivies and the like were extremely popular this cycle from our private! Every top student seemed to apply to at least 4 ivies and many other T20s. It used to be even the top kids would do 2 maybe 3 ivies and couple other elites, but not this year. |