I just don’t see kids dreaming of sports thinking ‘I hope I can play for MIT someday!’. I appreciate that it may be a hook, but personally I don’t think that’s a great reason for a parent to encourage a sport. If a kid is isn’t it totally independently, great. But I suspect there’s some parent interference with some parents |
Op, totally agree and that is why I’m a little incredulous that MIT is being mentioned so often on this chain. Not exactly known as a school for serious athletes. I’ve also noticed the retention rates for recruits (to finish college on the team) are rarely more than 50 or 60 percent. Not sure if that includes kids who use the transfer portal or not. |
Thanks, this is what I think I’m seeing. Technically no money for sports at d3 but merit money. Congrats to your dc!!! My dc wants d1 but between me and the walls, I don’t think it’s going to happen but I can’t say that out loud. This is make or break time so he’s nervous. Can I ask how it’s gone for your dc so far? Any regrets? Anything you’d recommend? |
What sport? |
Do you know how to write coherently |
lol I guess not. I’m just a dumb jock 🙃 |
Funny how the knives come out with some parents on the topic of college and if sports are being used as admission hooks I mean, do we not remember Varsity Blues?? |
Sounds like hockey. Was your kid a goalie? S/he must be good. |
How are your dc’s fencing lessons going? |
Wut |
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My take.
1. For the truly gifted athlete (ie nationally top ranked) recruiting is an open door into almost any school except maybe the most academic colleges (and even then if it’s a sport the alumni really care about they will find a way to admit you). 2. For the elite athlete (ie all-state/record holder) recruiting will significantly lower the admissions requirement. I personally know kids with a 3.5 and 1200 sat who have gotten into ivy league schools. That would be impossible w/o recruiting. 3. For the very good athlete (ie multi-year varsity starter/all-district) it can give an edge to the excellent student. The 4.2, 1450 sat kid has a good shot at a top school. 4. For everybody else- the recruiting game is reversed and your kid ends up going to lower ranked schools in order to play college sports. |
My kid's middle school coach went to Duke as a recruit. |
Yes |
and they are laughing all the way to that free Duke diploma and network, while you whine and complain that your smart kid didn't get in to UVA out of state, and omg its so unfair that UVA doesn't accept more instate, and ughhhhh when did JMU get hard to get in to, and I just can't believe that UMD didn't accept little Larla with her 4.3 GPA and her 31 ACT, it's sooooo unnnnffffaaairrrr. |
Awesome, congrats to your dc, you must be proud! |