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Not to be the bearer of bad news but I’m a teacher. there is significant grade inflation. The school I teach at: the average unweighted gpa is a 3.7. And kids can barely read and write.
I don’t have kids in high school, but I don’t think I’d care at all about gpa. I would care more about how much they are working and learning. That matters significantly more than gpa and grades. I’m looking to send my kids to private one day, but don’t know where to find meaningful rigor. But, Bs and Cs are what D’s and Fs used to be. Teachers can’t give authentic grades anymore because the teachers who do get terrorized for having high expectations. So, look at the evidence in front of you: if she is on YouTube or what not and not studying much, she’s probably not learning much either. I wish this was a bigger concern to society and parents - than packaging kids as marketable objects for college. |
I don't think you can say the same for the kids coming through RM, Blair and Poolesville magnets. |
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This seems to be a problem with public schools nationwide. I have a kid who had straight As through a W schools (and high SAT) and is now at an Ivy. She said there is a stark contrast in public vs private school kids in work ethic. The private school kids sit somewhere quiet and focus and study hard on a regular basis, all semester. The public school kids, not so much.
She had a prof who said as much. He had a tendency to say the quiet part out loud and gave them a bit of a pep talk saying he wants EVERYONE to succeed. And then said, 'I've found from past semesters that I tend to have kids drop out or not do well--especially women, minorities, and kids from public schools' (she is all three), 'so especially if you are in one of these categories, please come to office hours and we'll work through this stuff together to make sure you succeed.' Kind of a jerk thing to say, but it suggests that he can see a difference between public and private school kids... [/quote] Seems strange that the prof would look up the students' high schools.[/quote] Because it's a fake story. A (probably white) professor called most of the class, including the women, bad students? And invited the women to spend extra time in office hours? And the students didn't rage about him? |
we figured kids needed to go to one of the magnets to get education. one is in, but two more to go. privates are too expensive for us so we haven't bothered to learn much about education there. |
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This seems to be a problem with public schools nationwide. I have a kid who had straight As through a W schools (and high SAT) and is now at an Ivy. She said there is a stark contrast in public vs private school kids in work ethic. The private school kids sit somewhere quiet and focus and study hard on a regular basis, all semester. The public school kids, not so much.
She had a prof who said as much. He had a tendency to say the quiet part out loud and gave them a bit of a pep talk saying he wants EVERYONE to succeed. And then said, 'I've found from past semesters that I tend to have kids drop out or not do well--especially women, minorities, and kids from public schools' (she is all three), 'so especially if you are in one of these categories, please come to office hours and we'll work through this stuff together to make sure you succeed.' Kind of a jerk thing to say, but it suggests that he can see a difference between public and private school kids... [/quote] Seems strange that the prof would look up the students' high schools.[/quote] Because it's a fake story. A (probably white) professor called most of the class, including the women, bad students? And invited the women to spend extra time in office hours? And the students didn't rage about him? [/quote] PP here. True story. I asked my daughter if she resented him saying it, and she said, "No. I feel like he wants me to succeed." (Personally, I was shocked.). And it wasn't 'most of the class.' There were apparently students from any three of the groups registered in the first place. |
"Things I made up to justify paying for private school" for $200, Alex! |
You get a PTC, grades, can see the papers that are returned. What more do you need? |
Step back from the helicopter. It will be fine. |
Nah that's things I made to show how much I disrespect my stepchildren. |
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My Blair kid found college easier than high school. I think that’s a pretty common experience for the magnet kids. |
Assignments aren't graded often regularly and you don't get them back. So, yes, they want more. |
You resent kids because their two parents could and would pay for private and you didn't? |
+100 - rarely get anything back and if so, weeks later. It is woefully inadequate. Every elementary classroom should have a paraeducator + main teacher at minimum to help with class control, attention to student needs, and work/life balance of the teachers! |
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My DD is a senior at a W school. Took 9 APs and has gotten straight As throughout high school. I cannot think of one time she was stressed about too much work or gave up any leisure activities to study.
I am not telling you this to brag, quite the opposite: her first shot on the SAT was 1080. That should tell you all there is to know. |