Are women in their 40s auto ugly to people on this sub?

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Anonymous wrote:Because you are in the minority, and in a few years you'll be part of the majority.

I'm Asian. In late August, I dropped off my 9th grader for a tour of her new high school, and as I was leaving, one of the tour guides asked me to step inside to join the tour as it was leaving. The tour was student-only. I had to explain I was the parent. It was embarrassing. Maybe that guide needed glasses, but it's not the first time this has happened. I got yelled at for being late to my other teen's choir practice years ago, until the manager recognized me as a parent and not a student. Again, embarrassing.

But I know that in a year or two, all that will be finished and I'll be visibly middle-aged.

So enjoy it, OP, it won't last.

Cool stories but they don’t really answer the question. All you’re saying is that you look young. Young does not equate beauty as there are a lot of unattractive young women out there.

This. Lots of braggadocio in that post. She claims that she was mistaken for a 14 year old. Okayyy, but how does that make you a raving beauty?

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I am recently divorced man I am 46. If I can get a woman between 40 and 47 to date me I will be ecstatic. Unfortunately women in their 40s still have a lot options it seems and overlook many us guys in our 40s. It's understandable because I'll be honest men under 40 are more pleasant to deal with lol.

Anyways women over 40 are fine. They are still pretty, sexy and beautiful. But they can be stubborn though. That's what led to my divorce anyways I don't want to get started with that.

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Sorry, but some of us Italian, Greek, and other Mediterranean women age very well too. Nothing compares to Mediterranean skin.

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Anonymous wrote:Seems like they get bashed a lot on here for being ugly or fat or miserable but I'm pretty happy and look to be in my 20s. I'd post pictures unfiltered here if I could stay anon for proof but I do pass for 20s and I am dating a few very hot guys old with no sex in their 30s. Frequently hit on by guys in their 20s too but no. So why the hate for women in their 40s by both men and women?

If you were doing that well you wouldn't be here chasing more male attention.

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Anonymous wrote:How utterly pathetic that anyone would ask you to guess their age.

See, I don’t know what some of you think….that women are running around going “Can you guess how old I am?” and the hapless person says something to make them feel better. People legitimately eff my age up all the time and it’s not from some guessing game.

I just think a lot of you making snarky remarks regret your sun worship in your youth and are paying the price now.

How often are strangers mentioning your age? Seems sus.

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Anonymous wrote:How utterly pathetic that anyone would ask you to guess their age.

See, I don’t know what some of you think….that women are running around going “Can you guess how old I am?” and the hapless person says something to make them feel better. People legitimately eff my age up all the time and it’s not from some guessing game.

I just think a lot of you making snarky remarks regret your sun worship in your youth and are paying the price now.

How often are strangers mentioning your age? Seems sus.

I realize that many on DCUM don’t have many friends to speak of but I have a large group of friends and more casual friends and I assure you it comes up more often then you would think.

Also use of the word sus doesn’t make you sound younger.

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Anonymous wrote:When I'm buying beer or wine at Safeway at the self checkout I like to plat a game where I ask the attendant to guess my birth year before scanning my license. Yesterady the guy guessed 1988. I was born in '71

I truly don’t mean to be mean, but…he was being polite. Whenever someone asks me how old I think they are, I subtract 7 years from my actual guess. I am a woman.

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Who cares what people in this sub think?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How utterly pathetic that anyone would ask you to guess their age.

See, I don’t know what some of you think….that women are running around going “Can you guess how old I am?” and the hapless person says something to make them feel better. People legitimately eff my age up all the time and it’s not from some guessing game.

I just think a lot of you making snarky remarks regret your sun worship in your youth and are paying the price now.

How often are strangers mentioning your age? Seems sus.

I realize that many on DCUM don’t have many friends to speak of but I have a large group of friends and more casual friends and I assure you it comes up more often then you would think.

Also use of the word sus doesn’t make you sound younger.

DP, Are all your friends new or something? You guys must not really pay attention to each other or have boring conversations. I still don’t get how age comes up so often and gets screwed up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sorry, but some of us Italian, Greek, and other Mediterranean women age very well too. Nothing compares to Mediterranean skin.

Really cool ,😎

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:When I'm buying beer or wine at Safeway at the self checkout I like to plat a game where I ask the attendant to guess my birth year before scanning my license. Yesterady the guy guessed 1988. I was born in '71

I truly don’t mean to be mean, but…he was being polite. Whenever someone asks me how old I think they are, I subtract 7 years from my actual guess. I am a woman.

Woman here too and im always honest about it. Why would you be "nice" in guessing their real age? They're asking for an honest opinion if they're asking you.

[Anonymous]

Online - yes

In person - no, if they have spent their life committed to fitness, sleep, hydration, and wellness

What you look like at 40 is reflective of the decisions you made in all those prior decades

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I'm buying beer or wine at Safeway at the self checkout I like to plat a game where I ask the attendant to guess my birth year before scanning my license. Yesterady the guy guessed 1988. I was born in '71

I truly don’t mean to be mean, but…he was being polite. Whenever someone asks me how old I think they are, I subtract 7 years from my actual guess. I am a woman.

Woman here too and im always honest about it. Why would you be "nice" in guessing their real age? They're asking for an honest opinion if they're asking you.

DP, I’ve never met anyone who wants an honest opinion on how old they look. They ask because they are insecure and want flattery.

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Anonymous wrote:When I'm buying beer or wine at Safeway at the self checkout I like to plat a game where I ask the attendant to guess my birth year before scanning my license. Yesterady the guy guessed 1988. I was born in '71

Weird, don’t do that! And if the guy was under 30, remember these kids have no idea how to do math. 1988 sounds like a million years ago to young people.

So true. My teen refers to anyone over 35 as a "Boomer."

+2. I remember when I was 18, older women I worked with asked me to guess their age. Literally everybody over 30 looked the same to me, and I didn’t want to offend them, so I regularly told women in their 40s and 50s they looked 28.

Also, today I was talking to a 19 year old about his YouTube channel and he said “yea I get clips from old TV shows. But not OLD old like from the 90s”. 90s are OLD old now.

Exactly this. You get people always guess way under when put in that position as they don’t want to offend. Or people will tell others they look younger to be flattering. It is what it is.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I'm buying beer or wine at Safeway at the self checkout I like to plat a game where I ask the attendant to guess my birth year before scanning my license. Yesterady the guy guessed 1988. I was born in '71

I truly don’t mean to be mean, but…he was being polite. Whenever someone asks me how old I think they are, I subtract 7 years from my actual guess. I am a woman.

Woman here too and im always honest about it. Why would you be "nice" in guessing their real age? They're asking for an honest opinion if they're asking you.

DP, I’ve never met anyone who wants an honest opinion on how old they look. They ask because they are insecure and want flattery.

I am a brutally honest person so if they look 90 they look 90. Often though I got younger peoples ages wrong and they were really 30 when I guessed them to be in their mid 40s.