DP, but I would presume the common bond shared amongst two people that cohabitated for many years and moved together multiple times across state lines..... would be this thing called love. But you do you. |
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This. OP don’t make his widow’s grief all about you and your imaginary love affair that correctly ended 30 years ago except in your immature mind. “Thank her for loving him?” Are you crazy. I would hate anyone with the nerve to say that to me about my freshly deceased partner. |