So your DH has been working in Private Equity for over a decade. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/04/28/opinion/private-equity.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb So after sucking the marrow out of America’s bones, he wants to saddle up with the plan to work as little as possible just to collect his taxpayer provided salary? |
This. There is nothing wrong with wanting to limit work hours to 40 hours a week to focus on family. Work/life balance is important. But looking to make 200k as a lawyer while not wanting to go over 40 hrs a week -- good %$#ing luck with that attitude. I'm a lawyer who has done their fair share of hiring, and would avoid hiring someone like this like the plague. I'm not saying there is no lawyer out there who makes this and works 40 hours a week -- but it is rare and generally only doable with many years of practice, specialized know-how, and the right kind of job. Straight out of law school? No way. Straight out of law school you get hired at a Biglaw firm (if you can) and make 200k and work your ass off. Or you make less at a less well-paying job and work your ass off. Or you make less at a less well-paying job and don't work your ass off and get let go or put on a PIP. There are in-house jobs like you seem to be dreaming of, but they don't tend to hire new law grads. There are gov jobs kinda like this, but you will start as a GS-11 as an HP hire in DC which is about 80k and as mentioned before here it takes years to get to GS-15, if you get the 15 at all, and right now even a GS-15 at the highest step level in the DC area is just under 200k. And there is a lot of competition for HP positions (ask me how I know ... going through that many applications to figure out who to interview is a nightmare). If reducing work hours down to 40 hours a week is the priority, law is not the best idea. And with the way you are prioritizing high pay, you will need to factor in lost opportunity costs while in school, and the cost of tuition. So, yeah, probably a really bad idea unless DH just really wants to be a lawyer (which might also be dumb, but I digress). (I'm a lawyer) |
*gov lawyer stands up and applauds* |
| I know two lawyers with excellent big firm partner experience in that age range who have been looking for a change for a year now. His problem isn't his field, it's age discrimination. |
In fact, I can't think of a single company that would hire a new law grad with zero experience (unless it was a board members nephew. lol). They typically don't have the bandwidth or desire to train you. |
Yeah, I used the word "most" because of what you said that I bolded, lol. Never say never, but yeah those aren't normal hires. |
I’m in house and manage our hiring. We typically require at least four years experience with a top firm. |
| The only possible way to make this work is to kick ass at UMD then score a Circuit-level federal clerkship (3 yrs no pay plus 2 years of low pay) then score HP at DOJ (good luck) then work 3-5 years to hit GS15. |
| I doubt that someone, like OP's husband, who has earned several million dollars over a decade will want to start over and do grunt work. |
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Another lawyer here - non traditional.
Highly unlikely your husband will be able to do this. The $200K salaries with work/life balance are generally only available to lawyers who have extensive, specialized experience - mostly because they need it to be able to get the work done in 40 hours. Honestly, it’s unlikely he’d get hired at a Big Law firm even where he could make more than that in exchange for 50-60 hrs a week. Unless there was something that his background made him well suited for - no one wants to manage and train a 40 year old first year attorney. |
No, it's not age discrimination in the legal world. Lawyers don't really hit their stride until their 40s. The issue for partners looking to exit is that they're looking for pretty rare jobs - senior level in house roles or senior level government roles. In both cases, they prefer to hire internally or want experience that the partners don't have (ie, prior in house experience or government experience). I'm certain they would have few issues exiting if they were willing to take an IC-level job at a client. |
I'm financially independent having made $40k max in DC the last 27 years. You just don't see what you don't see. I have a great work life balance since there's no work. You talking about 'millions of dollars' and him needing to make $200k got you both good. Putting too much into house-not good. Putting too much into retirement accounts also not good. Not investing hands on inside Roth or traditional IRA, not good. 529-trash. 401k, maybe ok up to the match. How was he not successful with his own finances the last 10-15 years? One has to try really hard to miss all the opportunities we have had. There are more coming and he will be at school. |
| No one will hire him in gov in middle age and he’ll have all those debts. So no. |
Well, yes and no. Not many Maryland Law grads get federal clerkships. A huge number of Maryland Law grads get state court (circuit and appellate) clerkships. Unfortunately, for what OP’s husband wants, he’d need a federal clerkship. Which means he would absolutely need to CRUSH IT at Maryland Law. And then it would be several years in the government working up the pay scales. |
I did HP hiring for my litigating division at DOJ. Getting through the number of HP applications we received was almost impossible. A fed appellate clerkship did put people at the top of the stack. But even then, as you point out, it would be years before a trial attorney hits gs-15, which even at the highest step doesn’t quite hit 200k. My DH is over 200k (we met at work) but he is SES. Oh, and even with a DC Circuit clerkship if I were to get a whiff of “I went to law school looking to work 40 hours”—that would have been an easy “no” for me. |