Divorced 2 years still not enthusiastic about dating

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Anonymous wrote:I’m not PP but I’m a woman and my partners tend to be younger. I don’t hook up randomly. When I find someone I want to be exclusive with we both test. I go to la core for a full panel. Pp was incorrect they test for hsv 1 and 2 and you should be tested. I don’t like condoms so proceed unsheathed once we share results.

Just because I won’t marry and take younger lover don’t assume I’m a slut.

I hope you've gotten the HPV vax

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Anonymous wrote:Who are all you people who are managing to find FWBs 15-20 years younger? How do you even manage that?

...you probably still have all your hair, don't you?

I am a woman and look much younger. Not hard. Very easy. Tons of people are interested. I say no a lot. But I have had a few.

Do you make them do std test for HSV2? Or always condoms ? They are np exclusive with you right ?

Most doctors won’t do a test for HSV2. Mine won’t. I do talk about STDs. I use condoms. Yes, they have been exclusive unless lying. I am not dating now though. It’s not worth my time even though I can get hot and young options. When I see someone, it usually lasts about eight months to a year and then I end it. I have been divorced 4.5 years.

As I see so you probably have HSV2 yourself and don’t care. You can get a test for $40 with online labcorp referral not that expensive or hard. Usually those who don’t do it have breakouts

No, I don't have HSV2. I asked my OB for a test. She says results are complicated and she would never test anyone who did not have sores. She sais HSV2 tests don't indicate whether the virus is in your gentials or oral (HSV2 can also be oral in addition to HSV1). She said you could have HSV2 and never have an outbreak. She does not recommend the test. It is not a simple test like other tests.

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Anonymous wrote:Who are all you people who are managing to find FWBs 15-20 years younger? How do you even manage that?

...you probably still have all your hair, don't you?

I am a woman and look much younger. Not hard. Very easy. Tons of people are interested. I say no a lot. But I have had a few.

Do you make them do std test for HSV2? Or always condoms ? They are np exclusive with you right ?

Most doctors won’t do a test for HSV2. Mine won’t. I do talk about STDs. I use condoms. Yes, they have been exclusive unless lying. I am not dating now though. It’s not worth my time even though I can get hot and young options. When I see someone, it usually lasts about eight months to a year and then I end it. I have been divorced 4.5 years.

As I see so you probably have HSV2 yourself and don’t care. You can get a test for $40 with online labcorp referral not that expensive or hard. Usually those who don’t do it have breakouts

No, I don't have HSV2. I asked my OB for a test. She says results are complicated and she would never test anyone who did not have sores. She sais HSV2 tests don't indicate whether the virus is in your gentials or oral (HSV2 can also be oral in addition to HSV1). She said you could have HSV2 and never have an outbreak. She does not recommend the test. It is not a simple test like other tests.

How do you know then you don't have it, if it's that complicated? There are standard tests for that, Cigna covers it as part of STD panel twice a year. CVS has over the counter test that's rather precise. Never had an OBGYN decline testing for it. It's helpful to know if I can infect someone or if they can infect me and make decisions in relation to my body accordingly.

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Anonymous wrote:Who are all you people who are managing to find FWBs 15-20 years younger? How do you even manage that?

...you probably still have all your hair, don't you?

I am a woman and look much younger. Not hard. Very easy. Tons of people are interested. I say no a lot. But I have had a few.

Do you make them do std test for HSV2? Or always condoms ? They are np exclusive with you right ?

Most doctors won’t do a test for HSV2. Mine won’t. I do talk about STDs. I use condoms. Yes, they have been exclusive unless lying. I am not dating now though. It’s not worth my time even though I can get hot and young options. When I see someone, it usually lasts about eight months to a year and then I end it. I have been divorced 4.5 years.

As I see so you probably have HSV2 yourself and don’t care. You can get a test for $40 with online labcorp referral not that expensive or hard. Usually those who don’t do it have breakouts

No, I don't have HSV2. I asked my OB for a test. She says results are complicated and she would never test anyone who did not have sores. She sais HSV2 tests don't indicate whether the virus is in your gentials or oral (HSV2 can also be oral in addition to HSV1). She said you could have HSV2 and never have an outbreak. She does not recommend the test. It is not a simple test like other tests.

How do you know then you don't have it, if it's that complicated? There are standard tests for that, Cigna covers it as part of STD panel twice a year. CVS has over the counter test that's rather precise. Never had an OBGYN decline testing for it. It's helpful to know if I can infect someone or if they can infect me and make decisions in relation to my body accordingly.

You are not a doctor. I get tested four times a year. I’ve asked her for it twice and she’s told me unless you have a sore there’s absolutely no reason to test for it because even if you have it, it doesn’t mean you really have you’ll ever actually have an outbreak, and she can’t tell you where it is in your body.

[Anonymous]

The CDC also does not recommend herpes tests without symptoms.

https://www.cdc.gov/herpes/testing/index.html#:~:text=CDC%20does%20not%20recommend%20herpes,at%20low%20risk%20of%20infection.