I am a parent of a current upper schooler and I find your post laughable. Be real. The parents may not outright say they want an Ivy for their son but they absolutely do. Sure they would be happy with top 25 but you have your head in the sand if you think half of the people paying 60k year for the “quality education” are not hoping for an Ivy. No one wants to say it because they don’t want to look bad when it doesn’t happen. The reality is a very small number of these boys will get into a top 5 university, that’s not how the world works anymore. |
Sure, many STA parents would like an Ivy school for their sons. However, the reality is that $60K is not a lot of money for many STA parents. Ivy-obsession is different than thinking oh an Ivy would be cool. The Ivy-obsessed are generally not coming from wealthy families. They mostly already have generational legacy status. IME the Ivy-obsessed are two-income professional families who are UMC but not wealthy, for whom the STA tuition is a lot of money. They make up maybe 1/3 of the school. |
May I pour you another glass of Kool-Aid? PS. It’s “freshman” year, not “freshmen” year. |
Actually, it’s Form III. |
Ultimate annoying STA parent quote. If you think a school where 2/3 got in via Beauvoir in K is filled to the brim with kids taking "college level" courses due to their genius...I know of several kids there: they are just normal kids getting a good education. Their college results (outside of U of Chicago) are just like any other private in the area. |
Forms? Trying to emulate Harrow? Why stop there? How about Boater hats for the boys. |
Exactly. |
Well, you’re not an STA parent and would not know what level of education the kids are getting, would you? The fact that they entered Beauvoir at K has no bearing on the kids’ intelligence or on STA’s rigor. For some classes, there can be significant attrition and by 9th, less than half of the boys who enter are from Beauvoir. The boys who stay at STA are bright, some exceptionally so, even if they can from Beauvoir. Beauvoir parents are generally privileged, intelligent, and well-off. Why would anyone assume that children of parents who graduated themselves from Ivies and other prestigious institutions who give their children the best grounding money can buy would have children who are uniformly dumb? True, some of the parents are dimwitted trophies but most are not. |
We go out of our way to name our Forms just to irritate you. |
Nope. They are better. |
It’s “fewer than half the boys,” not “less than.” |
Not really. NCS often outshines STA when comparing college placements. Sidwell as well and even GDS. |
Almost never is someone kicked out. I know one kid who said the worst word you can say and was not suspended. The attrition is largely people sending kids to boarding schools. You really think in the Beauvoir admissions process they are sorting for intelligence? If it makes you feel better, OK. I know lots of kids and lots of stories, including from the summer. |
Literally strip out Chicago and what is different? Still same group struggling to get into Clemson and Syracuse. |
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I am a parent of a current upper schooler and I find your post laughable. Be real. The parents may not outright say they want an Ivy for their son but they absolutely do. Sure they would be happy with top 25 but you have your head in the sand if you think half of the people paying 60k year for the “quality education” are not hoping for an Ivy. No one wants to say it because they don’t want to look bad when it doesn’t happen. The reality is a very small number of these boys will get into a top 5 university, that’s not how the world works anymore.
Agree with this |