Every marry someone and realize they are completely different than who you thought they were?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:After 24 years, I've seen my DH go from fun-loving, spontaneous, and flexible, to anxious, rigid, and controlling.

Great father to young kids, to a not-great father to teens and young adults (see "anxious, rigid, and controlling").

The first 15 years were amazing. The last 9 years have gone downhill and now teetering on a cliff.

I could've written this!! You are not alone, sister.