Well said. This thread should just be closed with the above post being all that shows when you click on the title. |
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After watching their parents behavior at Cannon Cup this makes more sense. Never have I seen a group of “adults” openly and frequently swearing at and criticizing kids (on both teams) refs and coaches … At a u9 game.
Didn’t have a dog in the fight - stopped just to watch the championship before we left and was appalled. Thankfully loudoun beat them, I cannot imagine what might have happened if they won.
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From VSA parents? Nooo way!
I’m shocked! /sarcasm
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That is such BS - you know full well there is a sliding scale of behavior allowed based on how skilled the kid is. I'm sure the coach makes an example out of the last kid on the bench hoping everyone else falls in line, but just look at a typical youth soccer match and the coach you mention must either be a unicorn or part of a very weak team. |
| So, stay away from bringing your kid to this club if you know anything about soccer and don’t wanna deal with parents screaming “cmon ref.” Did I get that? |
This is every soccer club in northern virginia. |
Nope. But keep thinking your behavior isn't directly effecting your kid if you'd like. Coaches hate parents like you. They complain about parents like you amongst each other, trust me. I've heard it personally at social events. Sorry to burst your bubble. Coaches don't want to deal with headache annoying parents unless your kid is Messi jr... Which 99.999% off our kids are not. |
I don’t know about club, I think that is starting to change, but based on what I’ve seen with high school soccer, yes I think a young Luka modric would have been quite likely relegated to the bench. |
| We joined the 09B team and are leaving after 1 year. The team sucks and the culture there is garbage. |
Go watch a high school game with the local players - Gainesville, Battlefield, etc - it's total kickball from the defense and slow passing or flat passes from attacking positions. |
Thanks George Jefferson - go back to the dry cleaners. |
Winning and playing good ball are two very different things. We can thank the US for that. I really hope IFAB makes some changes to stop this garbage. |
We were at Cannon Cup and saw this as well. The VSA parents were the exact reason most tournaments ban alcohol on the premises during and between games. Standing directly behind a 9 or 10 year old goalie and drinking your (4th or 5th) beer while hurling obscenity after obscenity at him and the other team was pretty disgusting behavior. Not a fan of most Loudoun parents, but they actually kept their cool in a situation that most may not have. Hopefully the refs moved their fans back to a sideline after we left, but the setup at Long Park isn’t overly conducive to that either, especially during tournaments. Regardless, it seemed like the VSA parents took something that should have been fun for their kids and instead ended up likely only embarrassing their kids through their own alcohol fueled behavior. |
| Just stopping by to say the VSA 2015g teams’ parents were very considerate so there are some examples there of good behavior. The Prince William parents though were absolute trash… I’ll generalize them all day long. |
That's a top to bottom adjustment that's going to need to happen. What you speak of has happened at the highest level and continues to occur at the youth level. |