Has anyone tried Revenge Cheating?

[Anonymous]

It's on your wife to hold the relationship together. If you want to cheat, then that's the environment she created. She needs to figure out how to keep you.

There are plenty of fish in the sea. Go test the waters.

[Anonymous]

I would also like to add that cheating isn't going to affect the outcome of the divorce settlement.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's on your wife to hold the relationship together. If you want to cheat, then that's the environment she created. She needs to figure out how to keep you.

There are plenty of fish in the sea. Go test the waters.

I strongly agree. There is no reason to be faithful to her now. Let her prove she wants to fix this marriage and win you back.

[Anonymous]

OP you're as messed up as she is. I feel sorry for your kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why throw away your own integrity just because someone else ruined theirs? Also, completely unfair to use another person like this.

+1 to this.

Amazing how the OP assumes he's going to walk out his front door and magically find an affair partner, or even a one night stand. I'm sure he'll rush back to claim he has honeys lined up who would jump into the sack with him if he just snaps his fingers. Sure, buddy, sure. Pro tip! Be sure to tell your revenge cheating woman that it's just a revenge screw! She'll get so revved up by that--so hot, so sexy, she'll feel so very desired.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why throw away your own integrity just because someone else ruined theirs? Also, completely unfair to use another person like this.

+1 to this.

Amazing how the OP assumes he's going to walk out his front door and magically find an affair partner, or even a one night stand. I'm sure he'll rush back to claim he has honeys lined up who would jump into the sack with him if he just snaps his fingers. Sure, buddy, sure. Pro tip! Be sure to tell your revenge cheating woman that it's just a revenge screw! She'll get so revved up by that--so hot, so sexy, she'll feel so very desired.

Obviously you know nothing about that whole world. I've lived it. It's not hard to find an affair partner at all with a bit of work. They don't tend to care why you are cheating as they have their own reasons and revenge for any number of things is a common one that women often use themselves. It's touching that you are concerned about him in this way but, he'll be alright if he chooses that path. .

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why throw away your own integrity just because someone else ruined theirs? Also, completely unfair to use another person like this.

+1 to this.

Amazing how the OP assumes he's going to walk out his front door and magically find an affair partner, or even a one night stand. I'm sure he'll rush back to claim he has honeys lined up who would jump into the sack with him if he just snaps his fingers. Sure, buddy, sure. Pro tip! Be sure to tell your revenge cheating woman that it's just a revenge screw! She'll get so revved up by that--so hot, so sexy, she'll feel so very desired.

Obviously you know nothing about that whole world. I've lived it. It's not hard to find an affair partner at all with a bit of work. They don't tend to care why you are cheating as they have their own reasons and revenge for any number of things is a common one that women often use themselves. It's touching that you are concerned about him in this way but, he'll be alright if he chooses that path. .

Please tell me about that world. Where are people finding APs so easily?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why throw away your own integrity just because someone else ruined theirs? Also, completely unfair to use another person like this.

+1 to this.

Amazing how the OP assumes he's going to walk out his front door and magically find an affair partner, or even a one night stand. I'm sure he'll rush back to claim he has honeys lined up who would jump into the sack with him if he just snaps his fingers. Sure, buddy, sure. Pro tip! Be sure to tell your revenge cheating woman that it's just a revenge screw! She'll get so revved up by that--so hot, so sexy, she'll feel so very desired.

Obviously you know nothing about that whole world. I've lived it. It's not hard to find an affair partner at all with a bit of work. They don't tend to care why you are cheating as they have their own reasons and revenge for any number of things is a common one that women often use themselves. It's touching that you are concerned about him in this way but, he'll be alright if he chooses that path. .

Please tell me about that world. Where are people finding APs so easily?

One where millions of people are on married-but-looking dating sites, their own discussion boards, and also meeting generically. Just like my gay friends can all spot each other, cheaters have some tells also. I don't run in those circles anymore but when I did, NSA sex with a woman-and half them were not even married-was not to difficult to find at all. It took a little work and devotion of time, same as regular dating but it wasn't difficult.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why throw away your own integrity just because someone else ruined theirs? Also, completely unfair to use another person like this.

+1 to this.

Amazing how the OP assumes he's going to walk out his front door and magically find an affair partner, or even a one night stand. I'm sure he'll rush back to claim he has honeys lined up who would jump into the sack with him if he just snaps his fingers. Sure, buddy, sure. Pro tip! Be sure to tell your revenge cheating woman that it's just a revenge screw! She'll get so revved up by that--so hot, so sexy, she'll feel so very desired.

Obviously you know nothing about that whole world. I've lived it. It's not hard to find an affair partner at all with a bit of work. They don't tend to care why you are cheating as they have their own reasons and revenge for any number of things is a common one that women often use themselves. It's touching that you are concerned about him in this way but, he'll be alright if he chooses that path. .

Please tell me about that world. Where are people finding APs so easily?

One where millions of people are on married-but-looking dating sites, their own discussion boards, and also meeting generically. Just like my gay friends can all spot each other, cheaters have some tells also. I don't run in those circles anymore but when I did, NSA sex with a woman-and half them were not even married-was not to difficult to find at all. It took a little work and devotion of time, same as regular dating but it wasn't difficult.

DP. Your experience may be different from most. I’ve been doing all the above for over a year with only one nibble and even that one didn’t work out. For some people like the OP he might have no opportunity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Divorce, but slowly and carefully. Move those assets out of the marriage. Document what a great dad you are, and what a lousy mom she is.

I have a prenup. So she won't get a thing according to my lawyer.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why throw away your own integrity just because someone else ruined theirs? Also, completely unfair to use another person like this.

+1 to this.

Amazing how the OP assumes he's going to walk out his front door and magically find an affair partner, or even a one night stand. I'm sure he'll rush back to claim he has honeys lined up who would jump into the sack with him if he just snaps his fingers. Sure, buddy, sure. Pro tip! Be sure to tell your revenge cheating woman that it's just a revenge screw! She'll get so revved up by that--so hot, so sexy, she'll feel so very desired.

Obviously you know nothing about that whole world. I've lived it. It's not hard to find an affair partner at all with a bit of work. They don't tend to care why you are cheating as they have their own reasons and revenge for any number of things is a common one that women often use themselves. It's touching that you are concerned about him in this way but, he'll be alright if he chooses that path. .

Please tell me about that world. Where are people finding APs so easily?

One where millions of people are on married-but-looking dating sites, their own discussion boards, and also meeting generically. Just like my gay friends can all spot each other, cheaters have some tells also. I don't run in those circles anymore but when I did, NSA sex with a woman-and half them were not even married-was not to difficult to find at all. It took a little work and devotion of time, same as regular dating but it wasn't difficult.

DP. Your experience may be different from most. I’ve been doing all the above for over a year with only one nibble and even that one didn’t work out. For some people like the OP he might have no opportunity.

The main problem is, people who have been married for say, a few decades, have no game at all. You haven't dated in all that time and may not have dated much before you were married. You have to figure it out.

[Anonymous]

Seeking

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Anonymous wrote:Why throw away your own integrity just because someone else ruined theirs? Also, completely unfair to use another person like this.

+1 to this.

Amazing how the OP assumes he's going to walk out his front door and magically find an affair partner, or even a one night stand. I'm sure he'll rush back to claim he has honeys lined up who would jump into the sack with him if he just snaps his fingers. Sure, buddy, sure. Pro tip! Be sure to tell your revenge cheating woman that it's just a revenge screw! She'll get so revved up by that--so hot, so sexy, she'll feel so very desired.

Obviously you know nothing about that whole world. I've lived it. It's not hard to find an affair partner at all with a bit of work. They don't tend to care why you are cheating as they have their own reasons and revenge for any number of things is a common one that women often use themselves. It's touching that you are concerned about him in this way but, he'll be alright if he chooses that path. .

Please tell me about that world. Where are people finding APs so easily?

[Anonymous]

What if you still look good and are wealthy, like me?

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Anonymous wrote:Why throw away your own integrity just because someone else ruined theirs? Also, completely unfair to use another person like this.

+1 to this.

Amazing how the OP assumes he's going to walk out his front door and magically find an affair partner, or even a one night stand. I'm sure he'll rush back to claim he has honeys lined up who would jump into the sack with him if he just snaps his fingers. Sure, buddy, sure. Pro tip! Be sure to tell your revenge cheating woman that it's just a revenge screw! She'll get so revved up by that--so hot, so sexy, she'll feel so very desired.

Obviously you know nothing about that whole world. I've lived it. It's not hard to find an affair partner at all with a bit of work. They don't tend to care why you are cheating as they have their own reasons and revenge for any number of things is a common one that women often use themselves. It's touching that you are concerned about him in this way but, he'll be alright if he chooses that path. .

Please tell me about that world. Where are people finding APs so easily?

One where millions of people are on married-but-looking dating sites, their own discussion boards, and also meeting generically. Just like my gay friends can all spot each other, cheaters have some tells also. I don't run in those circles anymore but when I did, NSA sex with a woman-and half them were not even married-was not to difficult to find at all. It took a little work and devotion of time, same as regular dating but it wasn't difficult.

DP. Your experience may be different from most. I’ve been doing all the above for over a year with only one nibble and even that one didn’t work out. For some people like the OP he might have no opportunity.

The main problem is, people who have been married for say, a few decades, have no game at all. You haven't dated in all that time and may not have dated much before you were married. You have to figure it out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m thinking about having a fling to get back at my wife for her affair…divorce is not viable given my attachment to the kids.

If anyone has had a clandestine fling to even the score, how did it work out?

I did. It was worth it.

Honestly, it took the mystery out of an affair.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m thinking about having a fling to get back at my wife for her affair…divorce is not viable given my attachment to the kids.

If anyone has had a clandestine fling to even the score, how did it work out?

I did. It was worth it.

Honestly, it took the mystery out of an affair.

I’m considering a revenge affair. Did you stay married? Split up?