You can get crabs from a couch. |
Tractor seats are also a medium of transmission of STIs. |
BV is not an STD |
Also a UTI is not an STD |
I’m sorry, OP. Ignore the DCUM people giving bad advice about staying with him for your child. If he wants to be an involved parent, he can be an involved divorced parent. You deserve better.
I would probably sit on the information for a day or two, then tell him about it and that in no uncertain terms, the marriage is over. I don't know the legalities of asking him to move, but I would suggest it to him and consult with a divorce attorney ASAP. Also, if you don't already have a therapist, I would encourage you to get one. |
What do you mean bringing in? Into the house? ! |
Are you divorcing? |
You have obviously never been betrayed like this. Stop giving advice where you don’t have experience. |
Yes. Get your own counsel from someone you select before moving forward. He deosn't need to know you know, until he needs to know it. By then, your ducks already should be in a row. |
No, but both can happen when someone introduces a new partner’s germs. Gross. |
The std test might show up on medical insurance records. He might already know that you know. |
It can also happen if he doesn't shower after working out and uses a dirty towel |
We’re there any red flags now that you remember? |
Microbiomes. Another person’s microbiome can certainly create issues in an unsuspecting spouse. Some of these things aren’t just STIs.
Although BV is not yet considered a sexually transmitted infection, it is more common in people who have multiple sex partners, in people whose sex partner also has BV, and in people who do not use condoms. BV can be spread through sharing of sex toys, oral-genital contact, and fingers. And sex sometimes leads to BV if your partner's natural genital chemistry changes the balance in your vagina and causes bacteria to grow. This can happen if he has a new different partner. |
So what does dh say op? |