| I watched reacher with my husband and mine has been Alan Ritchson recently |
Good guess. A year older. |
| Song Kang? If you’re watching My Demon I completely understand. |
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UPDATE.
It’s been about 2 weeks, and the crush has lessened in intensity but still there. Sometimes I can get over it when I remember 1. He’s not that into me, a random mom 2. We don’t share values 3. Sometimes has been shady. I cannot get over the heat. Dayum so hot. He knows it. It’s gotten him into some trouble. But he has an amazing personality too. Playboy, rich, powerful. Cannot get over how hot, but also the troubling psychological stuff that comes along with it. Today in the evolution of this crush (note, he doesn’t have active social media currently), I actually found one. It is for real. Should I follow? What would you think of you married friend following a hot celeb online? Presuming at some point one of my friends will see that I follow?? Thoughts? |
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OP, you've crossed a line of relatable fantasy crush into connecting said-crush IRL, even if only through an account follow.
Find something to occupy yourself that is fun but mentally healthy. Something you wouldn't be embarrassed to tell a friend about. |
| Pp here, I meant this nicely. Find something better than this guy to fill some time. |
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I haven’t followed. Don’t think I will.
Talking myself down. He’s so out of my league. This guy is in designer clothes on the regular—not just on awards nights. And really? Like I’m going to step out? My DH is amazing as a middle class DH goes. Reliable, awesome, hasn’t gotten a huge beer belly, thoughtful. Matches my own middle class-ness. This guy for sure makes me want to be a better person. More traveled, more interesting. Maybe it will be long term inspiration for when I’m a merry widow and I’m the only person still attracted to the old man actor. Thanks for listening you all. |
| is it harry styles |
No |
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Op back. He’s single. I’m not. I guess he should be followed by and hanging out with the singles. His body count is probably 1K (gross). He’s very open-minded, well-traveled, a natural flirt. I think that probably carries over to love.
I’m going to do as PP suggested and fill my time. Thanks, PP |
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Op again, I keep updating because I don’t talk about this elsewhere. During my treadmill workout this afternoon, I perused his newly activated social. I tell ya it was not there a few days ago, and indeed he had a break in photos, and 2 new ones from this weekend. So he did newly activate this old account.
Without following I checked it out, He has 8.5M followers, he follows 1K or so. So, I was like, what does he follow? This helped me get over it. Very artistic stuff, awesome, fun. But you know.. also all the models and creative girls who post their travel and bikinis etc etc. Ok, this definitely helps me separate the admiration and hot feelings from IRL crushing. That’s the kind of girl he’s after and has access to, knows IRL. I’ll be interested in news about him, might even be interested in hot abs every once in a while. But, it’s cool, it’s cool. I can walk away from the intensity. |
| Ansel Elgert? |
Oh this is definitely bad bunny lol |
Wait only 8.5? okay not bad bunny lol. I guess Ansel definitely fits |
Yes- recently and on Cillian Murphy!!😅 |