All the hate on husbands today!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women will never ever be fully satisfied with what their bfs, husbands etc are doing. It is an endless stream of asking for more and more and more and more forever.

Peeing all over the toilet seat and floor every night at 3am is truly a nice touch!

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Anonymous wrote:Men have it hard. I mean, they are the armpit of the family, and now DCUM is dumping on them bigtime. But they take out the trash, pick up dead animals, talk to the plumber, clean the hair out of drains, make dinner, put kids to bed, and generally do a lot of that gross sh!t around the house that I don't want to do. I honestly wonder what I bring to this marriage. And for all that I can handle his hating the pool, being socially awkward, having atrocious handwriting, not ever putting his keys on their designated hook.

Huh? Mine is batting 5% of what you listed above. And nothing to sub in.

And you do 95 obviously. Very DCUM women like

And she still has time to post constantly on DCUM!

Come in now, who has time to communicate verbally or in writing or self reflect. Not me. I’m too busy working, napping or watching tv passed out on the couch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men have it hard. I mean, they are the armpit of the family, and now DCUM is dumping on them bigtime. But they take out the trash, pick up dead animals, talk to the plumber, clean the hair out of drains, make dinner, put kids to bed, and generally do a lot of that gross sh!t around the house that I don't want to do. I honestly wonder what I bring to this marriage. And for all that I can handle his hating the pool, being socially awkward, having atrocious handwriting, not ever putting his keys on their designated hook.

I did a lot more than that when I was married and my w*fe still complained constantly.

I've been here for 10 years and the man hatred has been never ending. I tell all young men contemplating marriage to come here for a week to read the threads before they get married.

[Anonymous]

Me too. I did everything I was aware of.

[Anonymous]

I also did the handful of stuff I was aware of. Done and done.

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Anonymous wrote:I mean, I hate my husband as much as anybody else, but he's kind of a rock here in this family.

+1

We are on vacation right now and he was playing with our son in the ocean this morning. When he got out of the water he had that scruffy summer hair look, and definitely the best body on the beach. Now I can’t wait till DS goes to bed tonight.

Desiring my husband and wanted to have sex with him if gross? I didn’t post lewd details.


Gross. Nobody wants to hear that.

[Anonymous]

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Desiring my husband and wanted to have sex with him if gross? I didn’t post lewd details.

The one thing DCUM harpies hate more than their husbands is the thought of SEX (... with their husbands).

[Anonymous]

It is very trendy right now to hate men and blame them for everything and assume negative intentions / malice. I am also on a British board and it is the same there.

I guess it is a reactive pendulum swing and hopefully will settle back in the middle as it isn't great for boys or girls growing up with the current social cultural norms they are being taught about men.

Eventually it will balance and the masses will figure out you can empower women without trashing and kicking and hating and blaming and disrespecting men.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s fascinating to me that women think it’s appropriate behavior to dish about their husbands’ character flaws either anonymously on internet sites or in person with mere acquaintances, but it’s boorish of men to comment on women’s physical attributes (or lack thereof), when even in that case they probably aren’t criticizing their own spouses.

Men generally think criticizing their spouses reflects poorly on them for having settled down with a fat/flat/dumb/whiny woman, but most women seem to have no such filter or inhibitions.

You have got to be kidding. Men criticize women all over the internet. There are more women on here because it's a mommy board. If they are complaining about their men it's because of their men and their way of dealing with them. What is wrong with anonymous? They might not be in the right, but why come on here if you think it's all fake? Why don't you get this basic fact about this website? Go watch some red pill advice if you want to watch men giving bad advice to men and not think like you are describing. Your boy Andrew Tate and all of them never think anything about a woman reflects bad on them. Just on the woman. In fact you seem to agree as well. Woman complains about Man. Woman's fault only. That seems to be your line of thinking.

You’re tedious and whiny but if you were my spouse (you aren’t) I’d still suck it up.

How deliciously fun would it be if this did actually turn out to be dw&dh going at each other anonymously?! 🤣

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I mean, I hate my husband as much as anybody else, but he's kind of a rock here in this family.

Check out the rock post that sat alone and said nothing to his family and friends all 4th of July!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can take care of clogged drains, dead animals and opening jars all by myself.

But there’s so many to stay on top of! Unlike having to wash the dishes several times a weekend, the dead animals and clogged drains are like hourly things to monitor and clean. What a guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is very trendy right now to hate men and blame them for everything and assume negative intentions / malice. I am also on a British board and it is the same there.

I guess it is a reactive pendulum swing and hopefully will settle back in the middle as it isn't great for boys or girls growing up with the current social cultural norms they are being taught about men.

Eventually it will balance and the masses will figure out you can empower women without trashing and kicking and hating and blaming and disrespecting men.

OP here. Thanks for this thoughtful post. I think itis trendy to hate men, and blame then for everything. I don't like it, honestly. I also don't like the way our culture has pushed aside their feelings and needs - resulting in men with no or few friends and a reliance on their wives and girlfriends to socialize. I don't see this in my parents' generation. My dad socializes with his friends, organizes get-togethers with his group apart from my mother (he is early 80s if that matters, and she late 70s).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men have it hard. I mean, they are the armpit of the family, and now DCUM is dumping on them bigtime. But they take out the trash, pick up dead animals, talk to the plumber, clean the hair out of drains, make dinner, put kids to bed, and generally do a lot of that gross sh!t around the house that I don't want to do. I honestly wonder what I bring to this marriage. And for all that I can handle his hating the pool, being socially awkward, having atrocious handwriting, not ever putting his keys on their designated hook.

Well you got a good one. Mine doesn't do these things. Won't talk to repair people or anything.

[Anonymous]

We need an outlet. With that being said I haven't trashed my husband here as of yet...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It is very trendy right now to hate men and blame them for everything and assume negative intentions / malice. I am also on a British board and it is the same there.

I guess it is a reactive pendulum swing and hopefully will settle back in the middle as it isn't great for boys or girls growing up with the current social cultural norms they are being taught about men.

Eventually it will balance and the masses will figure out you can empower women without trashing and kicking and hating and blaming and disrespecting men.

OP here. Thanks for this thoughtful post. I think itis trendy to hate men, and blame then for everything. I don't like it, honestly. I also don't like the way our culture has pushed aside their feelings and needs - resulting in men with no or few friends and a reliance on their wives and girlfriends to socialize. I don't see this in my parents' generation. My dad socializes with his friends, organizes get-togethers with his group apart from my mother (he is early 80s if that matters, and she late 70s).

My dad and brothers do too!

But my husband does not.

That’s a big part of why the difference stands out so much.