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Anonymous wrote:This reminds me of how irritating it is that Dove Cameron from “Descendants” announced that she is bisexual, and is now co-opting the “queer” label while actually just dating guys like she always has.
What is the correct ratio of men vs women to date to qualify as legitimately bisexual?
You can date zero same gender people and still be bisexual. It's the attraction itself that makes you bisexual. Someone that 99.9% straight and .1% bisexual is still bisexual even if it's only one in one thousand.
Most people are literally 100/0 or 0/100.
I don't think this is true. I consider myself straight but out of 100 people I'm attracted to, it would be like 90/10. But I choose to only have relationships (or sex at all) with the opposite sex, men. I always knew I wanted to get married and have kids, and that made hetero relationships easier. I think if I'd ever met the right woman, I might have at least dated her, but I never did.
But I think it would be inauthentic to call myself bi because I've never had a same sex relationship.
I think there are a lot more people than you think who are attracted to at least one person of the same sex, even if they only ever have hetero relationships. I also think a decent number of gay people have the very occasional attraction to someone of the opposite sex. Especially when you considered der the broad range of gender expression.