10 year old has breast bud but refused to wear cami or soft sport bra

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What on earth? Who really cares? I'm a b cup who occasionally goes braless. Why is this even a big deal?

Because men

Oh please. No one is looking or caring whether your 10 yr old has a bra on.

Don't we wish that was the world we lived in.

And so? No one is hurting you bc they looked at you. I’m a woman and I have two daughters. I don’t notice or care about leering.

Right? That's a him problem, not a me problem.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What on earth? Who really cares? I'm a b cup who occasionally goes braless. Why is this even a big deal?

Because men

Oh please. No one is looking or caring whether your 10 yr old has a bra on.

I hope you don’t have a daughter because you are negligently naive if you believe that.

My daughter didn’t start wearing a bra until 12, despite breast buds. She just didn’t want to and was comfortable without. It was no big deal.

[Anonymous]

She has to. At high school the boys would stare at my nipples

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She has to. At high school the boys would stare at my nipples

There is a lot of time between 10 and high school. Besides, who cares? Not everyone feels uncomfortable and self conscious because someone looks at them. Maybe she doesn’t care. Plenty of women and teens don’t wear a bra and don’t care if men or anyone look.

[Anonymous]

It’s gross for a woman to go without a bra in public. She’s flopping around and we see nipples. I’m not going to have my daughter be one of those women.

[Anonymous]

This will sort itself out. My dd at 10 refused to talk to me about it, but I kept casually mentioning it. Then one day I just bought 3 different bralettes and sports bras from target along with other clothes and pretended it was no big deal, like “hey I got you new socks.” I did make her try them on for size. Then left it alone, but for telling her no flipping around and upside down 1) without one or 2) without her shirt firmly tucked in and why. By a few months later she started occasionally wearing them and now at 11.5 wears one all the time.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What on earth? Who really cares? I'm a b cup who occasionally goes braless. Why is this even a big deal?

Because men

Oh please. No one is looking or caring whether your 10 yr old has a bra on.

Don't we wish that was the world we lived in.

And so? No one is hurting you bc they looked at you. I’m a woman and I have two daughters. I don’t notice or care about leering.

Right? That's a him problem, not a me problem.

I have a feeling that there are a lot of social mores you don’t notice or care about. Not all of us aspire to your relaxed level of insouciance.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What on earth? Who really cares? I'm a b cup who occasionally goes braless. Why is this even a big deal?

Because men

Oh please. No one is looking or caring whether your 10 yr old has a bra on.

Don't we wish that was the world we lived in.

And so? No one is hurting you bc they looked at you. I’m a woman and I have two daughters. I don’t notice or care about leering.

Right? That's a him problem, not a me problem.

I have a feeling that there are a lot of social mores you don’t notice or care about. Not all of us aspire to your relaxed level of insouciance.

Look at you, shaking like a little prisoner over what other people might think of you. What a sad, pathetic creature you are.