| That’s why our kids will go to a state school we can afford. Simple. |
At that income we could easily do it. However the expectation is to save starting at birth. We saved enough for a state school and graduate school. We live in a tiny fixer upper in a lower cost area. We trarely vacation, shop clearance, etc. |
None of the Ivys have AC. Columbia had 8 rooms with it in 2018. That was the most. https://medium.com/@sammyhthomas/ivy-league-schools-are-worth-billions-but-often-dont-have-ac-with-global-warming-that-s-an-8873321da4dd |
Facts. |
yes at that income, most are able to save if they truly feel the need to send their kids to an "elite" school. You start saving at birth. It's not a lack of empathy--it's a lack of understanding on your part that you somehow seem "entitled" to a luxury good if you haven't made the effort to save. Your kid can still get an excellent education, and it would be smartest if they attend somewhere you can afford (ie don't go into major debt). If you have saved even for $40-50K/year, with a 300K income, you could cash flow while they are in college if it's that important to you. IMO, I wouldn't recommend that, I'd find somewhere that is only 40-50K and spend wisely. If you can't afford something, you don't do it. But making 300K puts you in the top 2-4% of the country. We began saving for our kids education when we only made $125K and we prepared before having kids so we had paid off our own student loans and had 20% for a mortgage and bought a house we could actually afford (ie. still continue to save $$$ for retirement, vacations, future college, cars, etc). Our kids were 5-8 before we made more than $200K, yet we were well on track for "elite" colleges should we choose to do that. |
+1 I just did the abbreviated NPC for UIUC this week and for an in-state kid, Grainger Engineering, the full cost was $40k, no financial aid for a middle class family of 3. |
So if you have not been able to save enough, there is NIU that has engineering/CS and tuition is almost 10K less. It's up to your family to decide which is better. There are options that are more affordable. |
Which is dramatically less prestigious than UIUC. Nothing meritocratic about that paradigm whatsoever, but the facade of it is funny. |
obviously UIUC is "more prestigious". If you deem that prestige worth the extra $10K (in loans or out of your pocket so that you are not saving that for retirement during the college years), then you are free to pay it. That is your choice. But you are making it seem like there are not affordable options for kids, and that is incorrect. They exist, you just want a "luxury" product that you cannot afford. Which is a bit silly, since for CS/Engineering, it does not really matter where you go for undergrad. If you maintain a good GPA and finish the degree, your kid will find a good job. So you can decide if spending that extra $10K per year is worth it or not. If it is, you can sign for parental loans and put your kid thru UIUC. |
Old schools old buildings. No, there is no central air conditioning at the Columbia dorms. The new-ish Barnard dorm does feature it. The old McKim Mead White buildings are beautiful outside but poky to live in. There are a few dorms on campus with painted cinderblock interior built pre-1990. The clerical unions at these colleges are strong, and the number of admins is ridiculous. Yale has more administrative staff and faculty than students. |
| NYU freshmen mostly live in triples. |
The reality is that it is embarrassing for families to send their kids to Northern Illinois University or similar. I am NOT saying that feeling is valid, but it exists. It’s hard to show up for college t-shirt day on 5/1 wearing a shirt of a college that “dumb” kids go to. Again I’m just stating what my students have told me over the years. I’m not really sure how to change these perceptions. |
It stops when people stop having the government pay a lot of the bill. |
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Almost all the privates?? |
For publics, the government “pays a lot of the bill,” I’m assuming you mean in the form of student loans, because states have stopped properly funding their universities. So, loans it is for a lot of people. Either way, the government is footing the bill. |