Can 50 YO Men Be "Hot"?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Ok grandpa

You need a comma after the "ok."

You are likely older than I am, and very likely have much, much more mileage.

I might be ugly and old and wrinkly and bad in bed and rude and lame but I correct people’s grammar… that’s my super power

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

It wasn’t really a question though. Learn to read the room.

It was a poor attempt at sarcasm by a very poor writer.

You need to learn to write. Your ignorance is showing more with every post.

I keep responding because you don’t seem to have anybody rise to talk to and I’m into charity

[Anonymous]

I am beginning to see why you’re so angry about no one wanting to f you.

I am not angry. I am sad for you.

I see you, quite clearly.

You are promiscuous because you think it makes you popular. However, it also makes you lonely because men do not want to stick around afterward.

You deserve pity, not anger.

[Anonymous]

I keep responding because you don’t seem to have anybody rise to talk to and I’m into charity.

Your post does not make sense. You should not write when you are angry.

I still pity you.

[Anonymous]

Back to the question at hand, I am 49 and divorced and I think the answer is yes, although definitely fewer now than when we were younger, but also, the really hot ones get gobbled up by younger, hotter women, so our definitions need to change a little. I won’t tolerate dad bod (rules out a lot of men my age), but I don’t mind bald, gray hair or aging skin, and I find the confidence of successful older men (less swagger than the young peacocks, well dressed and maintained, etc), very sexy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Back to the question at hand, I am 49 and divorced and I think the answer is yes, although definitely fewer now than when we were younger, but also, the really hot ones get gobbled up by younger, hotter women, so our definitions need to change a little. I won’t tolerate dad bod (rules out a lot of men my age), but I don’t mind bald, gray hair or aging skin, and I find the confidence of successful older men (less swagger than the young peacocks, well dressed and maintained, etc), very sexy.

OK, what do YOU look like?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I am beginning to see why you’re so angry about no one wanting to f you.

I am not angry. I am sad for you.

I see you, quite clearly.

You are promiscuous because you think it makes you popular. However, it also makes you lonely because men do not want to stick around afterward.

You deserve pity, not anger.

I’d much rather be promiscuous and happy than miserable and unfu$&-le like you.

[Anonymous]

Yea, a man of any age can be hot. There is a man in my office who is late 50s or early 60s who is absolutely hot. He just has that certain quality. It doesn’t go away as you age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Back to the question at hand, I am 49 and divorced and I think the answer is yes, although definitely fewer now than when we were younger, but also, the really hot ones get gobbled up by younger, hotter women, so our definitions need to change a little. I won’t tolerate dad bod (rules out a lot of men my age), but I don’t mind bald, gray hair or aging skin, and I find the confidence of successful older men (less swagger than the young peacocks, well dressed and maintained, etc), very sexy.

OK, what do YOU look like?

Not sure why it matters, since I’m not the one complaining, but I’m basically a female version of this. No mom bod - work out a lot, am thin, have a 6-pack and no belly pooch or saggy boobs. Dye my hair and dress well, but don’t do Botox or fillers. I look like I’m in my 40s, no delusions (people usually guess early 40s), but a well preserved version. I am also confident and know what I want. Which is basically what I find sexy in men my age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She is right. Even if they are “in shape” they are wrinkly.

So is the OPs 48yo sister so 🤷‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yea, a man of any age can be hot. There is a man in my office who is late 50s or early 60s who is absolutely hot. He just has that certain quality. It doesn’t go away as you age.

What quality?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m at a western ski resort right now and the answer is omg yes.

Omg no.

It’s pretty much crawling with attractive guys in their 50s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m at a western ski resort right now and the answer is omg yes.

Omg no.

It’s pretty much crawling with attractive guys in their 50s.

^ Like that guy. Can't you see how attractive he is?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yea, a man of any age can be hot. There is a man in my office who is late 50s or early 60s who is absolutely hot. He just has that certain quality. It doesn’t go away as you age.

What quality?

He just has that quiet confidence, the ability to make you feel like the only person in the world when he is talking to you. Not pompous at all. He always smiles just a little too. It’s hard to describe but it’s intoxicating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are some very hot older dudes. But there aren't many of them, just as the number of really hot 50+ women is relatively small too.

That's the truth. There are some sexy 50 yo men but the are few and far between.