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OK, I'm pulling up the cnn link you posted.
OK, that sounds bad. Was 2021 worse for high schoolers experiencing those bad events than 2020 or 2019 or 2018? Here's the actual study: https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/71/wr/mm7141a2.htm?s_cid=mm7141a2_w It says doesn't have data from prepandemic to compare with, unfortunately. But it does have estimates:
in 2021, sexual violence or "teen dating violence" seemed to be the biggest risk factor for depression and suicidal behavior:
So, I'm not sure the trauma students are experiencing in 2021 or now in 2022, is particularly related to having lived through a pandemic. But it really sounds like sexual violence and "teen dating violence" need to be addressed. Is this something that people think our high schools should do better with? Do kids need date rape prevention strategies? |
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Thoughts:
1) parents need to responsible for DC. While you can’t kick them out for behavior issue you should be able to come up with a contract and schools should be able to suspend where behavior is egregious. There al have to be consequences for extreme behavioral issues. 2) Decrease administrative tasks that teachers need to complete 3) offer tutoring before and after school - make appointments for DC that are below grade level automatic 4) take out 75% of crap that is not educational 5) the 25% that is kept should focus on community activities that create a social construction of belonging for students among a few other things. 6) fund more ancillary activities at the school - robotics, arts, sports, scouts, anything else that will create communication and engagement when kids are finished school 7) extra practice should be available for time out of school -IXL type programs |
Both those things would help. Also, speak up at PTA meetings. Too often, those meetings generate additional duties for teachers to do that must come out of planning time. Challenge waste of time ideas that do not serve student needs. |
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Parents can start with themselves, the old adage Let it Begin With Me. Meaning don't be a privileged information gatekeeper. Be inclusive.
Start a conversation with a parent who is not your mom bud. Don't look down on parents who aren't "thriving." Try to include them in dialogues, invites, chat groups, etc. about school topics. |
ok, but many of them aren't. it's fun (and easy) to see the world in what people SHOULD do but the reality is that many parents, for various reasons, aren't being the parents that their kids need. and then that carries over to the schools. so...what now? saying "well, people should do this or that" is not a solution. |
How would kids get to/from school for those special tutoring sessions? Special bus routes? |
If 90% of the budget already goes to teachers, then any significant increase in teacher compensation is going to lead to a huge increase in spending. Maybe I’m missing your point, but you seem to be demonstrating that increased pay isn’t really practical. |
| Depressingly, I think the only thing that will work is to rebuild trust. And I don’t know how to do that. God knows I don’t trust educators any more, not after watching the gaslighting that went on (my kid has severe dyslexia, and will probably have lifelong impact from the closures). I don’t see how kids learn from educators they don’t trust. And many of them do not trust educators at all now. |
At one PTA meeting, a woman from PEP came and did a parenting class and it was so good. I wish schools offered more things like that. I wanted to take more but PEP is far away and the classes aren’t cheap. |
What? How would the school closures affect kids' trust with their current teachers? Because their parents have been badmouthing teachers this entire time? Sounds like a home/parenting problem. |
We need systematic change. Here's what my teacher's union is asking for: https://actionnetwork.org/petitions/reduce-crushing-educator-workloads |
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Laying blame at parents/parenting is not addressing the underlying root cause of the problem: Poverty and addiction.
You have children coming to school hungry, from overcrowded housing with multiple families (remember kids keeping cameras off because they were in the bathroom, the only place they could have quiet from younger siblings?), with no heat in the winter and no AC in the summer, perhaps from families with addiction and abuse and worried about paying the rent and providing food, etc., etc. How exactly are these children expected to learn? They have way to much else on their minds. And teachers, with way too many students in their classrooms, and covering so many other classrooms, and no planning time, and no money for manipulatives and classroom materials, and watching out for those hungry students, those abused students, and meetings and committees and IEPs and 504s and make sure you are ready for lock down drills, shelter in place, etc. And then there's the other problem: entitled parents. No further description needed. Smaller class sizes and less demands on individual teachers would be a great start. Of course payroll/benefits is the largest line item in the budget etc, you have to pay the teachers, paraeducators, food and building service workers, etc. who make up MCPS. Charters and vouchers are a red herring. Schools have been underfunded for years, despite the person screaming about the 3 billion dollar budget for mcps. They've been underfunded in it for Capital projects, underfunded for salaries, etc. It's been by design. Now you can point to the schools, say they're failing, and demand vouchers. By the way, this pulls more money out of the schools, helping them to fail even faster. |
I don't know what the solution is, it's not my problem to fix on a macro level. I know that adding more to an educator's plate seems ridiculous, based on the long hours/low pay they are already facing. They are educators, not counselors, parents, nutritionists (etc etc etc). What's your solution? |
Because parents throw loud, ongoing fits if their “brilliant” kid isn’t in the top class, let alone is placed in the remedial class. |
They don’t need to “earn” autonomy, and intelligent parents already support increased pay. |