I am not following what you’re saying |
| Our hs won some big title for rowing and the coach said some of those kids didnt even start until that year. |
Well that is a no brainer |
| Easy ones for boys to start in 7th grade are wrestling, volleyball and any martial art. Some of my son’s friends started jiu jitsu in middle school. |
That tennis is a sport a kid can pick up and be proficient at pretty quickly. |
Gosh, maybe ground strokes but the serve takes some mastery and skill |
What do you mean by "proficient?" My son is 13 and has been playing tennis since he was 10. He does a weekly private and two group lessons. He can play with other kids, or may adults, and have a good time. However, he would likely not do well in a competitive tennis tournament. |
Ok guy. I guarantee if you start in middle school you will not play high level collegiate tennis |
Well John Isner didn't start tennis until he was 12 years old. Isn't that middle school? Isner ended up playing tennis for U. of Georgia and had a very successful professional career. I guess you're WRONG. |
That is false. He started when he was 8 and he grew into a giant freak of nature. Maybe your son will be 7 feet as well. I guess you are wrong |
I don't define proficient as being able to play high level collegiate tennis, just will they be able to fit in as the original poster was asking. I've seen guys pretty new playing JV tennis in a middle school league, and even some varsity. |
| Rock climbing if you live near a gym |
| OP, my DS is a but younger but has a similar story ( attention issues, not competitive, other much better than him). He joined swim team this summer and had a good time because of friends. He is not a great swimmer and almost always placed at the bottom. Others had been swimming since they were 7. He’s doing year around swim after summer. His fitness and confidence has soared. Others are still better than him but he loves it. My recommendation is to have him find something that he likes but in a smaller setting. I9 is great for this. |
| Don’t worry so much, OP. Our kids have done soccer, gymnastics, baseball, swimming K-5 and they will not continue any of those in MS because they have only done Rec and even Rec teams travel more at the older age groups and and are too time-consuming to continue. They will be focusing on cross country and maybe trying out for track. |
| There are leagues that very developmental. We are in falls church and have used i9 sports and every kid seems pretty new at playing (playing basketball now). |