SMH. |
| I did a degree at an Oxbridge school, and my classmates there thought my stories about my legacy undergrad roommate at my Ivy were funny. She went to an elite boarding school, and had a very rich family but had about a 2.7 GPA which is very difficult to do at an Ivy where most people get a 3.0 without trying just because of the ways grading curves are structured. My roommate was not the sharpest tool in the shed, but she was a legacy and she got in. These Oxbridge students who wore gowns and coattails regularly and bowed to the Queen and were part of a 1000 year old college thought it was ridiculously backwards that an American student might get into college with a big boost because their parents had attended the same college before them. |
Yes, according to this logic farmers couldn't be able to hire family members or people they know. Or any business. Federal funding is given to schools because they produce value for society (educated workforce, research, culture), but the schools are financially supported by their private endowments. Federal funding is given to a lot of private companies that produce value for society too--tax breaks, loans, credits etc. |
Sure, remember last year when teachers could just assess A levels and boarding school students where all qualified to attend schools they weren't remotely qualified to attend? |
Was your kid academically unqualified? Are they struggling with the academics at their “high college”? If so, why did you play the game? If not, then why don’t you have new insight that kids other than those who focus exclusively on academics through HS can be successful at top schools. Do you feel jealous that your kid had an easier path than yours, or do you simply dislike your kid? |
They say this, but there is no way to prove it. Trust me, big donor legacy kids are getting into MIT, Amherst, and JHU. |
100% I mean, how can you complain about 14% legacy, which is very likely 99.99% full-pay, which is then funding the 51% POC and first gen. There is just nothing to complain about. That legacy admission is making AA and first gen admissions much more possible. It's great for the university and for the student ocmmunity. Just get over it. |
Cool story. But I DGAF about what Oxbridge students think about America |
What if the choice is between two equal candidates, one is a legacy, the other first Gen? |
Legacies are competing against other legacies. |
And how do kids earn those spots? By hard work? A lot of the time. But genetics and what they were born with plays a role there, too. My kid works harder than anybody he knows--seriously. He goes to an incredibly rigorous private school here in DC and works his butt off. He's a nice, active member of his school, and takes his classes seriously. But, he was born with some serious ADHD, slow processing, and executive function deficit. He is brilliantly ingelligent, but high school is hard because of the other issues. He will do great things in this world, once he just gets through high school. Why does somebody, who doesn't work as hard, but wasn't born this way, deserve a spot at some of these schools and he doesn't? Truly, they are not more "deserving." You simply have to stop being so one-dimensional in your thinking and understand that there is and should be a range of "deserving." And entry to good colleges doesn't, nor shouldn't, go to just one kind of student--the neurotypical, GPA-chasing striver. Let it go. These schools want a community--not an army of nerds. |
| Harvard and Yale will never not take federal money. These institutions are businesses first and foremost. |
I don't know how much impact it had for my kids, but when they applied to my alma mater - Williams College - they didn't get in, notwithstanding that their "stats" were in top quarter of applicants. Obviously the college saw things in (enough) other kids, that their legacy status didn't matter in the end. I don't think it made much of a difference for them at all. To be fair, neither applied Early Decision, and I have been told that legacy status doesn't matter much outside ED. |
Great question. Yes, they are. |
Yet college is a choice, food is not...pick something else. |