Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Exercise (aerobic and strength)
Lose weight (90% of American women should)
Dress well (and age appropriate)
Look after your hair and skin
Don't smoke
Don't get sloppy drunk in public
Don't be dumb (unless you can lean into it)
Don't be in a weird substrata (religious/trumpers/cults)
Don't be weird (in a bad way - needy etc. good to be quirky)
Don't live beyond means/ confuse style for "brands"
Have a life with meaning/purpose so "searching for a man" isn't your main defining characteristic....

Thank you for your advice, Mr. Do*che. .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don’t get fat
Don’t get fake boobs, fake hair, fake nails, fake lashes, fake tans, fake butts. Fake lips,
Don’t drink
Don’t smoke
Don’t be politically stuck on one side or one issue that you aren’t open to new perspectives
Don’t waste my money buying junk
Don’t wear lots of makeup
Wear clothes that fit
Cook homemade food
Clean the house
Don’t hire someone else to raise our children
Don’t complain
Dont envy others
Shave your legs and pits and wax your moustache
Don’t take forever to get ready
Remember you aren’t always right
Learn to drive
Learn to shut your mouth
Stop being desperate
Lose the cheap perfume
Stop looking like everyone else
Breastfeed our child

Incels be trolling.

[Anonymous]

Did any men actually answer this? Besides the guy with a top 100 list.
And if that guy would post what he does to stay attractive to women that’d be great.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If women have any gray hair - keep it colored.

Nothing screams “I do not care how bad I look now - I am just O-L-D!!” than a woman who is letting her gray roots grow in or has that dull, gray dishwater colored hair.

Keeping your grays properly colored (even if it has to be done every ten days or so) shows a man that you care.
It keeps you looking polished and shows that you are not ready yet to let your old age take over you.

However after 65+, you can let your grays show.
Because at that stage of life, everyone and their Mother know that you likely are 💯% gray and that even if you color your mane, your skin will contradict it.

Said no man, ever.

This is written by a woman, as, I suspect, most of these comments.

[Anonymous]

Every response is going to be different because men have different preferences, but for me, the simplest hack is to keep your hair a good length.

[Anonymous]

I went out last Friday and men were coming up to me like I was honey. I wore black and white wrap unlined dress, nude flat sandals, just a little mascara, no jewelry, no bag. I did have my phone in my hand.
Where I'm from less is more. Finally men seemed to agree or they are desperate after staying home for so long during covid. So glad less is in again even if it only seems like it.

[Anonymous]

I’m a woman but I need to say this:

Do not try to change for the dating scene. Men always complain that women change after getting married and having kids, and some of that is due to women trying to be somebody they are not when they were dating. Having kids saps you of so much energy and it’s going to be almost impossible to keep up with how much you authentically want to act and groom. The fake stuff you add to catch a man is unsustainable.

By the way the same goes for men and romantic overtures during dating. Be authentic. If you’re inherently a flowers man, great, if you think it’s stupid but you’re doing it just to trap a woman, you’re just setting her up for disappointment.

[Anonymous]

I think that the reason why men don’t recommend too much makeup is because many American women don’t know how to do the make-up in the right (classy, feminine) way. Sometimes make-up makes women look angry if not done right. This is just my humble opinion (I am not an expert in this, just my observation). If you don’t agree, that’s fine. This is just one man’s opinion. For example, ladies in other countries do the make-up in a way that’s subtle (doesn’t look like make-up) but enhance overall attractiveness. Look up how South Korean ladies do their make-up. I am not advocating more make-up as I personally don’t like too much make-up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think that the reason why men don’t recommend too much makeup is because many American women don’t know how to do the make-up in the right (classy, feminine) way. Sometimes make-up makes women look angry if not done right. This is just my humble opinion (I am not an expert in this, just my observation). If you don’t agree, that’s fine. This is just one man’s opinion. For example, ladies in other countries do the make-up in a way that’s subtle (doesn’t look like make-up) but enhance overall attractiveness. Look up how South Korean ladies do their make-up. I am not advocating more make-up as I personally don’t like too much make-up.

Well Mr. Man, different areas of the world have different makeup styles. Women in America are not trying to make themselves look like white South Korean. You can just look up East v. West makeup.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Exercise (aerobic and strength)
Lose weight (90% of American women should)
Dress well (and age appropriate)
Look after your hair and skin
Don't smoke
Don't get sloppy drunk in public
Don't be dumb (unless you can lean into it)
Don't be in a weird substrata (religious/trumpers/cults)
Don't be weird (in a bad way - needy etc. good to be quirky)
Don't live beyond means/ confuse style for "brands"
Have a life with meaning/purpose so "searching for a man" isn't your main defining characteristic....

Thank you for your advice, Mr. Do*che. .

DP here. Woman. This is actually true. I have seen plenty of divorced women who are on the prowl, and desperate to marry money. It is sad, for all of us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Remove all those fake, long, claw nails and fake hair extensions please.

This.

+1

Woman here. WHY do some women think "cheap" looks "good"? Spending all this money on fake hair, fake nails, fake eyelashes, fake cheeks (those implants) ,fake everything - so nothing is real. Makes you look cheap and desperate, like you have your priorities all wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Exercise (aerobic and strength)
Lose weight (90% of American women should)
Dress well (and age appropriate)
Look after your hair and skin
Don't smoke
Don't get sloppy drunk in public
Don't be dumb (unless you can lean into it)
Don't be in a weird substrata (religious/trumpers/cults)
Don't be weird (in a bad way - needy etc. good to be quirky)
Don't live beyond means/ confuse style for "brands"
Have a life with meaning/purpose so "searching for a man" isn't your main defining characteristic....

Don’t be dumb unless you can lean into it LMAO what does that mean? Just a straight-up bimbo vibe?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If women have any gray hair - keep it colored.

Nothing screams “I do not care how bad I look now - I am just O-L-D!!” than a woman who is letting her gray roots grow in or has that dull, gray dishwater colored hair.

Keeping your grays properly colored (even if it has to be done every ten days or so) shows a man that you care.
It keeps you looking polished and shows that you are not ready yet to let your old age take over you.

However after 65+, you can let your grays show.
Because at that stage of life, everyone and their Mother know that you likely are 💯% gray and that even if you color your mane, your skin will contradict it.

Said no man, ever.

This is written by a woman, as, I suspect, most of these comments.

I doubt it. I'm a man, and I agree with it. Gray hair is how women over 35 say, "I've given up".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If women have any gray hair - keep it colored.

Nothing screams “I do not care how bad I look now - I am just O-L-D!!” than a woman who is letting her gray roots grow in or has that dull, gray dishwater colored hair.

Keeping your grays properly colored (even if it has to be done every ten days or so) shows a man that you care.
It keeps you looking polished and shows that you are not ready yet to let your old age take over you.

However after 65+, you can let your grays show.
Because at that stage of life, everyone and their Mother know that you likely are 💯% gray and that even if you color your mane, your skin will contradict it.

Said no man, ever.

This is written by a woman, as, I suspect, most of these comments.

I doubt it. I'm a man, and I agree with it. Gray hair is how women over 35 say, "I've given up".

No that’s frizzy hair in a bun or a pony tail and ill-fitting jeans. I should know, I’ve given up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman but I need to say this:

Do not try to change for the dating scene. Men always complain that women change after getting married and having kids, and some of that is due to women trying to be somebody they are not when they were dating. Having kids saps you of so much energy and it’s going to be almost impossible to keep up with how much you authentically want to act and groom. The fake stuff you add to catch a man is unsustainable.

Many women agree with you, as one can tell from their dating app profile pics that clearly say, "I'm not even trying".