They're in denial because they don't want to move, don't have a better option, and don't want to admit to themselves that they made the wrong choice. It's stunning how little incoming preschool parents research the upper elementary grades. And how blatantly people will lie to preschool parents about what their school is really like. People will tell the truth anonymously, but not in person within their own community unless they really, really trust the person they're talking with. |
| I feel pretty helpless as a MV parent (not OP). Parents made heartbreaking appeals for basic safety at the MV public comment board meeting, and the response at the most recent board meeting was to emphasize the board’s primary responsibility in ensuring fiduciary responsibility. They take absolutely no responsibility for ensuring proper leadership, student safety, or student learning. They do not even acknowledge written comments by parents, let alone respond meaningfully. There is also not a real parent organization. MV works to prevent meaningful organization my parents under the guise of “equity.” There is really nowhere to turn. |
It’s not so simple. Most schools are great for early years so parents will speak highly of their school. It’s also confusing when you don’t know what it should be like, having never had a child in school before, and doubly so when COVID hit and everything became very opaque. It takes a lot to tank a school in local public opinion. Think SSMA. Most of the time you’ll hear local parents in upper grades speak both positively and negatively of a school. It isn’t like hiding the truth but different experiences. Our experience at LAMB has been mixed and that’s what I often tell people as well. I wouldn’t sugar coat it. Most neighbors speaking one ok one are blatantly honest, I’ve found, and the good bad and ugly. What we don’t tend to have are a lot of other options. |
| Last year (or the year before?), I got into a “discussion” with a parent on DCUM that was justifying choosing Mundo Verde over Bruce Monroe. I read threads like these and sometimes wonder how that parent is feeling now. You still around, MV booster who was worried about the school lunches and TVs in the classrooms? |
This is all true of most charters (maybe dcps too I wouldn’t know). If you can’t get the ear of your leadership, you have no recourse. Some PTOs try to be more activist and usually get shut down. You learn quickly that it doesn’t work. |
It's hard because older-kid parents have some credibility with incoming parents, but their review of the preschool program isn't going to be up-to-date. There are schools that are improving for now (see Langley, Garrison), but that emphatically does not mean that all schools are improving or changing very fast-- Mundo isn't, at least not in a good way. Preschool parents tend to be pretty clueless and think "Well, these aged 3rd and 4th grade parents are raising concerns, but my child won't reach those grades for 5 more years so surely things will improve". But things don't. |
In DCPS sometimes the principals *choose* to be more responsive to the parents and the PTO, especially if they have a mandate to grow the school and improve test scores. Other times that's not the case, it just depends. Charters are sometimes responsive if parents really put the fear into them about retention, but it's hard for parents because the only way to really motivate change is to go on a donation strike or publicly blow the whistle, which is basically sabotaging your school. It might be the right thing in the long run, but it's a very hard thing for a parent to do, because it's harmful to the kids and it burns bridges socially. |
+1 I wouldn’t say they are going to OA, but they are going to some school WOTP. Op is not going to her IB DCPS, even when people here think that her experience would have been much better at their Title 1 DCPS. |
Is there a video or transcript of this anywhere? |
Yep, yep. +100 |
This is true at MV as well. We are a MV family and so far the school has worked great for our kids. These issues are very classroom specific. So some people are having a great experience and some other people, like Op, are not. The school has to work on these issues. The board members are parents from MV, so it’s in their best interest to have a good school. |
| I think MV has always had these problems. Right now the pandemic made everything difficult and plenty of people just moved away. Plus we're seeing the effects of no longer offering a DCI guarantee-- I think that was a lot of why people used to stick it out at MV. And Langley, Seaton, and Garrison have become strong enough that people aren't desperate to leave even in 1st and 2nd grade. And of course the second MV campus spreads the existing demand quite a bit thinner. It's all of those things at once. |
+1. Our DC at MV is doing great and above grade level on all subjects except Spanish which is on grade level. We have been with the campus since it opened and DC has had great teachers in the past. There wasn’t much teacher turnover that I know of until this year with the pandemic. It’s been a tough year back for teachers everywhere and higher turnover in general. Anyway, I agree with PP that it’s classroom specific. I’m not saying the school doesn’t have issues that they can improve upon. It’s unfortunate what OP is experiencing but I don’t think OP’s experience is representative of the majority of families at the school. |
I have no clue how you read what I posted and interpreted it as an indictment of charters specifically. You really ought to try and get your anti-charter bias under control. All schools engage in marketing at open houses. They are putting their best foot forward and trying their best to mask issues and weaknesses. The responsibility falls on parents to be discerning consumers. |
They have access to boards, most of whom serve only one or two schools (KIPP excepted). Whether or not the boards listen and are responsive is no more or less a certainty than an IS. The truth may not be what you want to hear but it is still the reality nonetheless. This "accountability" argument does not hold up to reason or rationality. |