Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^^ Meant to add that we know grades because the kids compare scores and show their papers. Or the teacher will tell the kids that generally the class did not do well or how scores broke down and my kid is usually way higher - most of the kids get Cs, one or two As (usually my kid) and a couple of Ds. And this is consistently. I wish it wasn’t this way because I would just leave him there until graduation but it is hard to justify when no one seems to care.
Our child reported something similar from our school, but we nicely inquired further and DD’s sense of her class’s performance was not accurate. She is a pretty reliable narrator generally and wasn’t making things up, but the filter through which she was reporting things just didn’t measure up to the correct full picture. So you might want to pose the issue to school and get a reality check. Even reliable kids” sense of these kind of things can be wildly off without them making things up.