| They’re hot, yes. Problem is they usually want nothing to do with sex |
Usually? How many pregnant women have you tried to have sex with? I had an even higher libido than usual when I was pregnant and wanted sex almost daily until the very end of my pregnancy. |
Complete opposite. |
| Attractive women who take care of themselves tend to be attractive (differently so) while pregnant. My DH loved the extra boobs. |
Plenty of pregnant women want sex, just not with you. I’d be seriously creeped out if a random dude wanted to sleep with me while pregnant. I’m married, and STDs can kill a baby. |
| Pregnant women who are actually showing are not attractive sexually. They can have nice hair and look healthy, but they are already knocked up so I have no biological attraction to them. |
Speak for yourself. They are beyond sexually attractive. |
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Yes! says the man who finds pregnant women attractive.
No! says the man who doesn't find pregnant women attractive. What a stupid question. Why would you ask if all men find something attractive. Are you really expecting to get a definitive answer? or are you just bored? |
| I would be so uncomfortable if I were pregnant and someone called me a "hot mama," especially in front of men who all started adding commentary. I guess if it were just my closest girlfriends I wouldn't be bothered but IDK, something about men all chiming in really bothers me. |
Why? What about it makes you feel uncomfortable? Would or do you feel the same, not pregnant and someone called you “hot mama”? How would you feel if they called you the opposite of “hot mama”? |
Is this a serious question? Yes, PP, what about your body being discussed sexually by your friends and their husbands makes you uncomfortable? |
Pp: "I think I would be uncomfortable if someone commented on my changing body in mixed company." You: "OH SO YOU WOULD RATHER THEY CALL YOU UGLY MAMA?!" |
For one it sounds like a teenage regressed boy. Also, don't ever address someone you don't know with unwanted comments. It's creepy, and inappropriate. Remember that when addressing your co-workers as well. It's surprising how many men don't know how to act around women. Not to mention why would I care if some rando finds me attractive or not. My self esteem isn't derived from any man finding me attractive. |
In short...your body changes or what isn't anyone business. Certainly not unwanted elicit comments. A compliment from a close friend or spouse is another thing entirely. |
+1 This sounds really weird to me, too. |