In what ways would you be considered trashy?

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Anonymous wrote:I've lived in a mobile home.

The boyfriend did not have indoor plumbing in his house until he was in 9th grade. Prior to that the family used the outhouse. He is first gen graduate of college from The Ohio State.

Is he running for Ohio senate by chance?

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Anonymous wrote:I've lived in a mobile home.

The boyfriend did not have indoor plumbing in his house until he was in 9th grade. Prior to that the family used the outhouse. He is first gen graduate of college from The Ohio State.

Is he running for Ohio senate by chance?

California.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have an AAS degree, that’s it

+1 and I only make 100K a year.

You’ve bested me. By a year of community college and 40k

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Anonymous wrote:Serious question; can somebody please explain to me how drinking soda out a can makes you trashy? Are you suppose to drink it out of a champagne glass?

Or going to Costco? You get good deals there. I don't go to Costco personally but would never pass judgement on somebody who does. Or calling somebody trashy for mowing their own lawn. Have people lost their minds from Covid?

Either a lot of people here have demented notions of what it means to be trashy or I'm way out of touch.

That's the way it is in the alternate universe of the DMV.

No one has explained how drinking a soda out of its container is somehow a sign of low class.

If you have to ask, don't worry about it. NBD.

I'm not worried about it. I'm just curious as to why people have an issue with drinking out of the can. No one seems to have any explanation.

+1
There really isn't one like pretty much this entire thread. People's definition of trashy here are so random. And don't get me started on the "anything remotely not associated with UMC/wealthy is trashy" sentiment found throughout this thread. Some DCUMers have a huge inferiority complex about social class and they don't realize it makes them look desperate vs. classy.
BTW, From a random google search, the definition of trashy:adjective. tastelessly showy. synonyms: brassy, cheap, flash, flashy, garish, gaudy, gimcrack, loud, meretricious, tacky, tatty, tawdry tasteless.

A lot of people on DCUM seem to have petite bourgeoisie tendencies. From this thread, there seems to be a lot of "My God, what will the neighbors think?!!!" (to which the answer should be, who cares what the neighbors think?). For a supposedly educated and well-traveled group of people, there is a surprising tendency of provincialism and parochialism.

I mean, there are people here who are scandalized by two piece bikinis at the pool, and tattoos on people. But the disapproval about drinking out of a soda can is head-scratching to me.

What if the well travelled and educated group of people are 300lbs?

Morbid obesity is trashy.

This is why I rarely leave the house anymore. I'm losing weight but if I was trashy to you at 270 lbs, I'm really not interested in hanging out with you if I lose 100+. You've shown your true colors, and they aren't kind.

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Anonymous wrote:Serious question; can somebody please explain to me how drinking soda out a can makes you trashy? Are you suppose to drink it out of a champagne glass?

Or going to Costco? You get good deals there. I don't go to Costco personally but would never pass judgement on somebody who does. Or calling somebody trashy for mowing their own lawn. Have people lost their minds from Covid?

Either a lot of people here have demented notions of what it means to be trashy or I'm way out of touch.

That's the way it is in the alternate universe of the DMV.

No one has explained how drinking a soda out of its container is somehow a sign of low class.

If you have to ask, don't worry about it. NBD.

I'm not worried about it. I'm just curious as to why people have an issue with drinking out of the can. No one seems to have any explanation.

+1
There really isn't one like pretty much this entire thread. People's definition of trashy here are so random. And don't get me started on the "anything remotely not associated with UMC/wealthy is trashy" sentiment found throughout this thread. Some DCUMers have a huge inferiority complex about social class and they don't realize it makes them look desperate vs. classy.
BTW, From a random google search, the definition of trashy:adjective. tastelessly showy. synonyms: brassy, cheap, flash, flashy, garish, gaudy, gimcrack, loud, meretricious, tacky, tatty, tawdry tasteless.

A lot of people on DCUM seem to have petite bourgeoisie tendencies. From this thread, there seems to be a lot of "My God, what will the neighbors think?!!!" (to which the answer should be, who cares what the neighbors think?). For a supposedly educated and well-traveled group of people, there is a surprising tendency of provincialism and parochialism.

I mean, there are people here who are scandalized by two piece bikinis at the pool, and tattoos on people. But the disapproval about drinking out of a soda can is head-scratching to me.

What if the well travelled and educated group of people are 300lbs?

Morbid obesity is trashy.

This is why I rarely leave the house anymore. I'm losing weight but if I was trashy to you at 270 lbs, I'm really not interested in hanging out with you if I lose 100+. You've shown your true colors, and they aren't kind.

If you don’t like others not being kind, then you should be kind yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've lived in a mobile home.

The boyfriend did not have indoor plumbing in his house until he was in 9th grade. Prior to that the family used the outhouse. He is first gen graduate of college from The Ohio State.

Is he running for Ohio senate by chance?

California.

Darn.

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Anonymous wrote:Serious question; can somebody please explain to me how drinking soda out a can makes you trashy? Are you suppose to drink it out of a champagne glass?

Or going to Costco? You get good deals there. I don't go to Costco personally but would never pass judgement on somebody who does. Or calling somebody trashy for mowing their own lawn. Have people lost their minds from Covid?

Either a lot of people here have demented notions of what it means to be trashy or I'm way out of touch.

That's the way it is in the alternate universe of the DMV.

No one has explained how drinking a soda out of its container is somehow a sign of low class.

If you have to ask, don't worry about it. NBD.

I'm not worried about it. I'm just curious as to why people have an issue with drinking out of the can. No one seems to have any explanation.

+1
There really isn't one like pretty much this entire thread. People's definition of trashy here are so random. And don't get me started on the "anything remotely not associated with UMC/wealthy is trashy" sentiment found throughout this thread. Some DCUMers have a huge inferiority complex about social class and they don't realize it makes them look desperate vs. classy.
BTW, From a random google search, the definition of trashy:adjective. tastelessly showy. synonyms: brassy, cheap, flash, flashy, garish, gaudy, gimcrack, loud, meretricious, tacky, tatty, tawdry tasteless.

A lot of people on DCUM seem to have petite bourgeoisie tendencies. From this thread, there seems to be a lot of "My God, what will the neighbors think?!!!" (to which the answer should be, who cares what the neighbors think?). For a supposedly educated and well-traveled group of people, there is a surprising tendency of provincialism and parochialism.

I mean, there are people here who are scandalized by two piece bikinis at the pool, and tattoos on people. But the disapproval about drinking out of a soda can is head-scratching to me.

What if the well travelled and educated group of people are 300lbs?

Morbid obesity is trashy.

This is why I rarely leave the house anymore. I'm losing weight but if I was trashy to you at 270 lbs, I'm really not interested in hanging out with you if I lose 100+. You've shown your true colors, and they aren't kind.

If you don’t like others not being kind, then you should be kind yourself.

How was PP unkind?

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Anonymous wrote:Serious question; can somebody please explain to me how drinking soda out a can makes you trashy? Are you suppose to drink it out of a champagne glass?

Or going to Costco? You get good deals there. I don't go to Costco personally but would never pass judgement on somebody who does. Or calling somebody trashy for mowing their own lawn. Have people lost their minds from Covid?

Either a lot of people here have demented notions of what it means to be trashy or I'm way out of touch.

That's the way it is in the alternate universe of the DMV.

No one has explained how drinking a soda out of its container is somehow a sign of low class.

If you have to ask, don't worry about it. NBD.

I'm not worried about it. I'm just curious as to why people have an issue with drinking out of the can. No one seems to have any explanation.

+1
There really isn't one like pretty much this entire thread. People's definition of trashy here are so random. And don't get me started on the "anything remotely not associated with UMC/wealthy is trashy" sentiment found throughout this thread. Some DCUMers have a huge inferiority complex about social class and they don't realize it makes them look desperate vs. classy.
BTW, From a random google search, the definition of trashy:adjective. tastelessly showy. synonyms: brassy, cheap, flash, flashy, garish, gaudy, gimcrack, loud, meretricious, tacky, tatty, tawdry tasteless.

A lot of people on DCUM seem to have petite bourgeoisie tendencies. From this thread, there seems to be a lot of "My God, what will the neighbors think?!!!" (to which the answer should be, who cares what the neighbors think?). For a supposedly educated and well-traveled group of people, there is a surprising tendency of provincialism and parochialism.

I mean, there are people here who are scandalized by two piece bikinis at the pool, and tattoos on people. But the disapproval about drinking out of a soda can is head-scratching to me.

What if the well travelled and educated group of people are 300lbs?

Morbid obesity is trashy.

This is why I rarely leave the house anymore. I'm losing weight but if I was trashy to you at 270 lbs, I'm really not interested in hanging out with you if I lose 100+. You've shown your true colors, and they aren't kind.

If you don’t like others not being kind, then you should be kind yourself.

How was PP unkind?

Really?

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Anonymous wrote:Serious question; can somebody please explain to me how drinking soda out a can makes you trashy? Are you suppose to drink it out of a champagne glass?

Or going to Costco? You get good deals there. I don't go to Costco personally but would never pass judgement on somebody who does. Or calling somebody trashy for mowing their own lawn. Have people lost their minds from Covid?

Either a lot of people here have demented notions of what it means to be trashy or I'm way out of touch.

That's the way it is in the alternate universe of the DMV.

No one has explained how drinking a soda out of its container is somehow a sign of low class.

If you have to ask, don't worry about it. NBD.

I'm not worried about it. I'm just curious as to why people have an issue with drinking out of the can. No one seems to have any explanation.

+1
There really isn't one like pretty much this entire thread. People's definition of trashy here are so random. And don't get me started on the "anything remotely not associated with UMC/wealthy is trashy" sentiment found throughout this thread. Some DCUMers have a huge inferiority complex about social class and they don't realize it makes them look desperate vs. classy.
BTW, From a random google search, the definition of trashy:adjective. tastelessly showy. synonyms: brassy, cheap, flash, flashy, garish, gaudy, gimcrack, loud, meretricious, tacky, tatty, tawdry tasteless.

A lot of people on DCUM seem to have petite bourgeoisie tendencies. From this thread, there seems to be a lot of "My God, what will the neighbors think?!!!" (to which the answer should be, who cares what the neighbors think?). For a supposedly educated and well-traveled group of people, there is a surprising tendency of provincialism and parochialism.

I mean, there are people here who are scandalized by two piece bikinis at the pool, and tattoos on people. But the disapproval about drinking out of a soda can is head-scratching to me.

What if the well travelled and educated group of people are 300lbs?

Morbid obesity is trashy.

This is why I rarely leave the house anymore. I'm losing weight but if I was trashy to you at 270 lbs, I'm really not interested in hanging out with you if I lose 100+. You've shown your true colors, and they aren't kind.

If you don’t like others not being kind, then you should be kind yourself.

How was PP unkind?

Really?

Yes, really. Are you seriously calling out the person saying “if you call me trashy because I’m fat, I have no interest in hanging out with you” as being “unkind”?

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Anonymous wrote:I wear a two-piece at the community pool. And I'm not rail thin.

Bless your heart you have confidence few people have anymore.

I for one has my nipples pierced at age 48, and don’t often wear a bra,
the piercing clearly visible under many of my outfits including swimwear.
I prefer to drive my Subaru Outback to your BMW. Our other car is a Jeep Wrangler
Panties are no longer my thing, commando is far more comfortable.
DH and I sleep naked.
We have a hot tub in our yard and don’t allow bathing suits to be worn in it.

People can think what they want about us, but we are happy and will continue
to do our own thing, whether you or others think it’s trashy or not!!

You force your guests to be naked in your hot tub? How very rapey of you.

Understandably the homeowners don't want the detergents/chemicals/oils/chlorine from the swimsuit fabric in
their hot tub - it has nothing to do with being 'rapey' is that even a word?

We have a similar rule for hot tub use in our home. It has nothing to do with sex, its about cleanliness. Have you
ever maintained a hot tub? Unless cared for properly and the water treated, a hot tub is the breeding ground for a
multitude of bacteria and organisms. Those bubbles you see floating on the surface of a hot tub are body oils, lotions,
and other chemicals/detergents that are carried into the bubbling hot water. A showered "naked" person is cleaner
than a person wearing a swimsuit. We have a shower near the hot tub for people to use.

Guests in our home understand our hot tub use policy, and if they feel differently, they are under no
obligation to get in the hot tub. They are welcome to enjoy the pool and sauna wearing their swimsuits.We have
no children living in our home, and 99.9% of our guests are child free as well. This is about adults being adults.

We empty, scrub clean, and put the chemicals in ours regularly. Why wouldn't you?

We use our hot tub as a fully clothed family, only - very rarely do guests want to use it - but if they do - swimsuits only!

What in the world is going on at your house?

To answer your question, we are living life outside the comfort zone of our neighbors and many people on DCUM.

Our hot tub is drained regularly and cleaned. Our water treatment protocols are stringent and documented. Just cause we prefer to hot tub naked is our preference - our home, our rules.

[Anonymous]

I sleep naked, every night. I enjoy to sleep naked in hotel beds, and friends homes too!

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I wear Harley Davidson attire.

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Anonymous wrote:I wear a two-piece at the community pool. And I'm not rail thin.

Bless your heart you have confidence few people have anymore.

I for one has my nipples pierced at age 48, and don’t often wear a bra,
the piercing clearly visible under many of my outfits including swimwear.
I prefer to drive my Subaru Outback to your BMW. Our other car is a Jeep Wrangler
Panties are no longer my thing, commando is far more comfortable.
DH and I sleep naked.
We have a hot tub in our yard and don’t allow bathing suits to be worn in it.

People can think what they want about us, but we are happy and will continue
to do our own thing, whether you or others think it’s trashy or not!!

You force your guests to be naked in your hot tub? How very rapey of you.

Understandably the homeowners don't want the detergents/chemicals/oils/chlorine from the swimsuit fabric in
their hot tub - it has nothing to do with being 'rapey' is that even a word?

We have a similar rule for hot tub use in our home. It has nothing to do with sex, its about cleanliness. Have you
ever maintained a hot tub? Unless cared for properly and the water treated, a hot tub is the breeding ground for a
multitude of bacteria and organisms. Those bubbles you see floating on the surface of a hot tub are body oils, lotions,
and other chemicals/detergents that are carried into the bubbling hot water. A showered "naked" person is cleaner
than a person wearing a swimsuit. We have a shower near the hot tub for people to use.

Guests in our home understand our hot tub use policy, and if they feel differently, they are under no
obligation to get in the hot tub. They are welcome to enjoy the pool and sauna wearing their swimsuits.We have
no children living in our home, and 99.9% of our guests are child free as well. This is about adults being adults.

We empty, scrub clean, and put the chemicals in ours regularly. Why wouldn't you?

We use our hot tub as a fully clothed family, only - very rarely do guests want to use it - but if they do - swimsuits only!

What in the world is going on at your house?

To answer your question, we are living life outside the comfort zone of our neighbors and many people on DCUM.

Our hot tub is drained regularly and cleaned. Our water treatment protocols are stringent and documented. Just cause we prefer to hot tub naked is our preference - our home, our rules.

My goal is to retire on a nudist commune.

[Anonymous]

Things that I’m keeping post pandemic that I think could be construed as trashy:
Going out in public with no makeup
Going out in public braless
Home spun haircut

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Anonymous wrote:I wear a two-piece at the community pool. And I'm not rail thin.

Bless your heart you have confidence few people have anymore.

I for one has my nipples pierced at age 48, and don’t often wear a bra,
the piercing clearly visible under many of my outfits including swimwear.
I prefer to drive my Subaru Outback to your BMW. Our other car is a Jeep Wrangler
Panties are no longer my thing, commando is far more comfortable.
DH and I sleep naked.
We have a hot tub in our yard and don’t allow bathing suits to be worn in it.

People can think what they want about us, but we are happy and will continue
to do our own thing, whether you or others think it’s trashy or not!!

You force your guests to be naked in your hot tub? How very rapey of you.

Understandably the homeowners don't want the detergents/chemicals/oils/chlorine from the swimsuit fabric in
their hot tub - it has nothing to do with being 'rapey' is that even a word?

We have a similar rule for hot tub use in our home. It has nothing to do with sex, its about cleanliness. Have you
ever maintained a hot tub? Unless cared for properly and the water treated, a hot tub is the breeding ground for a
multitude of bacteria and organisms. Those bubbles you see floating on the surface of a hot tub are body oils, lotions,
and other chemicals/detergents that are carried into the bubbling hot water. A showered "naked" person is cleaner
than a person wearing a swimsuit. We have a shower near the hot tub for people to use.

Guests in our home understand our hot tub use policy, and if they feel differently, they are under no
obligation to get in the hot tub. They are welcome to enjoy the pool and sauna wearing their swimsuits.We have
no children living in our home, and 99.9% of our guests are child free as well. This is about adults being adults.

We empty, scrub clean, and put the chemicals in ours regularly. Why wouldn't you?

We use our hot tub as a fully clothed family, only - very rarely do guests want to use it - but if they do - swimsuits only!

What in the world is going on at your house?

To answer your question, we are living life outside the comfort zone of our neighbors and many people on DCUM.

Our hot tub is drained regularly and cleaned. Our water treatment protocols are stringent and documented. Just cause we prefer to hot tub naked is our preference - our home, our rules.

Do you have a privacy fence?