Is this a red flag or a dealbreaker
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Anonymous
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A single 38 year old woman who has been married and divorced 3 times.
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Anonymous
| Red flag, but maybe, maybe there's a good reason? |
Anonymous
Damaged goods. Move on. |
Anonymous
| does she put out? If so milk it for what it is worth. |
Anonymous
| OP here. I forgot to add. The shortest marriage was 6 months the longest was 2 years. Has a child too. |
Anonymous
| D-R-A-M-Ahhhh |
Anonymous
| Why does she say the marriages ended? |
Anonymous
| Save yourself and move on NOW. |
Anonymous
Put out? Are you going to a sock hop later? |
Anonymous
| Not necessarily. |
Anonymous
| Marriage just doesn't sound like her thing. |
Anonymous
| Deal breaker |
Anonymous
| Wow, those are short marriages. Yes, a red flag...but it's worth listening to what she has to say about them. |
Anonymous
| Bigger question, given her obvious history of choosing guys she doesn't end up staying married to, is whether you are consistent with the psychological pattern? How similar are you to the other three, and what has she learned about herself to change that pattern of attraction? |
Anonymous
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OP:
1st: Was too old. She didn't fit in his social circle, he didn't have the same values. Changed after marriage. 2nd: Became super weird after marriage. Was immature. 3rd: Had BPD. Started on their honeymoon. Threatened to leave during honeymoon. Drained her checking account, CCs etc. |