What can American women learn from foreign women?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Sure, poor ones who want you to marry them and take them back to the US. Honestly, how stupid are men?

How's cat lady life treating you?

[Anonymous]

Foreign women tend to be DTF anytime. American women seemingly require an appointment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Foreign women tend to be DTF anytime. American women seemingly require an appointment.

What is DTF?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some observations:

First, for both genders, the foreign-born people you meet in cosmopolitan and urban social circles are HIGHLY accomplished. It is HARD to come to the US. They either have money or highly advanced skills in something.
That’s for people who came here as adults. For those who came as children, or of immigrant families, they have likely faced more adversities than Americans of similar social standing. This doesn’t just make for an interesting life story, it makes for a resilience and strength that typical Americans, especially white Americans, don’t have.

Another stereotype that is true, foreigners come to America to major in STEM (engineering or medicine) or business. They are not pursuing humanities degrees, taking out student loans, and having existential crises about it.

Attributes of foreign women have already been discussed. More secure in their femininity seems to encompass it. They also aren’t constantly trying on identities and be something else. And perhaps the hardest to hear for American women is that foreign women eat less. Yes, some American women can be more into fitness and in better shape, but this doesn’t always appeal to men(sometimes it does). As said above, the slender European woman is attractive because that look is rare here. And you don’t get there by living in a gym - a lot of it is genetics (Scandinavian and Eastern European women have longer legs and leaner figures than Brits or Anglo-Americans) you get it by eating less. They don’t eat heavy meals constantly. They do eat sweets on occasion but not every day. They will eat one substantive meal a day and the rest is tea/coffee and a salad.

Generally, foreign women are less likely to be offended or outraged by political incorrectness or bluntness.

They are also less obsessed with politics. They usually think Trump is dumb but don’t really talk about it.

DP - but this post needs to be bumped up to be internalized if you are truly curious about some of the main differences.

Just take coffee for example. compare how umc american/canadian women take their coffee vs women from almost anywhere else on the planet.

that in and of itself is a massive calorie delta.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Foreign women tend to be DTF anytime. American women seemingly require an appointment.

What is DTF?

Down To F**k

They know that if they don't perform, the man will stray. Tons more opportunities for guys in other countries as opposed to the US.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some observations:

First, for both genders, the foreign-born people you meet in cosmopolitan and urban social circles are HIGHLY accomplished. It is HARD to come to the US. They either have money or highly advanced skills in something.
That’s for people who came here as adults. For those who came as children, or of immigrant families, they have likely faced more adversities than Americans of similar social standing. This doesn’t just make for an interesting life story, it makes for a resilience and strength that typical Americans, especially white Americans, don’t have.

Another stereotype that is true, foreigners come to America to major in STEM (engineering or medicine) or business. They are not pursuing humanities degrees, taking out student loans, and having existential crises about it.

Attributes of foreign women have already been discussed. More secure in their femininity seems to encompass it. They also aren’t constantly trying on identities and be something else. And perhaps the hardest to hear for American women is that foreign women eat less. Yes, some American women can be more into fitness and in better shape, but this doesn’t always appeal to men(sometimes it does). As said above, the slender European woman is attractive because that look is rare here. And you don’t get there by living in a gym - a lot of it is genetics (Scandinavian and Eastern European women have longer legs and leaner figures than Brits or Anglo-Americans) you get it by eating less. They don’t eat heavy meals constantly. They do eat sweets on occasion but not every day. They will eat one substantive meal a day and the rest is tea/coffee and a salad.

Generally, foreign women are less likely to be offended or outraged by political incorrectness or bluntness.

They are also less obsessed with politics. They usually think Trump is dumb but don’t really talk about it.

DP - but this post needs to be bumped up to be internalized if you are truly curious about some of the main differences.

Just take coffee for example. compare how umc american/canadian women take their coffee vs women from almost anywhere else on the planet.

that in and of itself is a massive calorie delta.

Wow. Bumping the post on disordered eating. All women have to do is eat one meal a day and drink black coffee. You forgot to mention smoke to kill your appetite since you’re starving yourself. A new low for DCUM.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some observations:

First, for both genders, the foreign-born people you meet in cosmopolitan and urban social circles are HIGHLY accomplished. It is HARD to come to the US. They either have money or highly advanced skills in something.
That’s for people who came here as adults. For those who came as children, or of immigrant families, they have likely faced more adversities than Americans of similar social standing. This doesn’t just make for an interesting life story, it makes for a resilience and strength that typical Americans, especially white Americans, don’t have.

Another stereotype that is true, foreigners come to America to major in STEM (engineering or medicine) or business. They are not pursuing humanities degrees, taking out student loans, and having existential crises about it.

Attributes of foreign women have already been discussed. More secure in their femininity seems to encompass it. They also aren’t constantly trying on identities and be something else. And perhaps the hardest to hear for American women is that foreign women eat less. Yes, some American women can be more into fitness and in better shape, but this doesn’t always appeal to men(sometimes it does). As said above, the slender European woman is attractive because that look is rare here. And you don’t get there by living in a gym - a lot of it is genetics (Scandinavian and Eastern European women have longer legs and leaner figures than Brits or Anglo-Americans) you get it by eating less. They don’t eat heavy meals constantly. They do eat sweets on occasion but not every day. They will eat one substantive meal a day and the rest is tea/coffee and a salad.

Generally, foreign women are less likely to be offended or outraged by political incorrectness or bluntness.

They are also less obsessed with politics. They usually think Trump is dumb but don’t really talk about it.

DP - but this post needs to be bumped up to be internalized if you are truly curious about some of the main differences.

Just take coffee for example. compare how umc american/canadian women take their coffee vs women from almost anywhere else on the planet.

that in and of itself is a massive calorie delta.

Wow. Bumping the post on disordered eating. All women have to do is eat one meal a day and drink black coffee. You forgot to mention smoke to kill your appetite since you’re starving yourself. A new low for DCUM.

Eating in moderation is simply about personal responsibility. No need to blame your flabby body on hormones, bad genetics, food deserts, or a bad reaction to drugs when you take responsibility for yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some observations:

First, for both genders, the foreign-born people you meet in cosmopolitan and urban social circles are HIGHLY accomplished. It is HARD to come to the US. They either have money or highly advanced skills in something.
That’s for people who came here as adults. For those who came as children, or of immigrant families, they have likely faced more adversities than Americans of similar social standing. This doesn’t just make for an interesting life story, it makes for a resilience and strength that typical Americans, especially white Americans, don’t have.

Another stereotype that is true, foreigners come to America to major in STEM (engineering or medicine) or business. They are not pursuing humanities degrees, taking out student loans, and having existential crises about it.

Attributes of foreign women have already been discussed. More secure in their femininity seems to encompass it. They also aren’t constantly trying on identities and be something else. And perhaps the hardest to hear for American women is that foreign women eat less. Yes, some American women can be more into fitness and in better shape, but this doesn’t always appeal to men(sometimes it does). As said above, the slender European woman is attractive because that look is rare here. And you don’t get there by living in a gym - a lot of it is genetics (Scandinavian and Eastern European women have longer legs and leaner figures than Brits or Anglo-Americans) you get it by eating less. They don’t eat heavy meals constantly. They do eat sweets on occasion but not every day. They will eat one substantive meal a day and the rest is tea/coffee and a salad.

Generally, foreign women are less likely to be offended or outraged by political incorrectness or bluntness.

They are also less obsessed with politics. They usually think Trump is dumb but don’t really talk about it.

DP - but this post needs to be bumped up to be internalized if you are truly curious about some of the main differences.

Just take coffee for example. compare how umc american/canadian women take their coffee vs women from almost anywhere else on the planet.

that in and of itself is a massive calorie delta.

I assume by "foreign" most people here mean women from Paris or Madrid, basically, but another point of difference from the US is the amount of walking and cycling people do in those cities. I am American but it is a bit off-putting how often people around here feel the need to drive half a mile to the grocery store vs. walking. That adds up to a healthier lifestyle if you walk everywhere.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I haven’t read this whole thread but I’m an American women and I think men just prefer foreign women because they are skinnier than we are and have sexy accents.

Because they are more attractive, are more feminine and are less lucky to say garbage like "I'll never marry an American man because I don't want to have another child to clean up after."

Latin American women RULE.

You like them because that culture is misogynistic. Big surprise.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Foreign women tend to be DTF anytime. American women seemingly require an appointment.

What is DTF?

Down To F**k

They know that if they don't perform, the man will stray. Tons more opportunities for guys in other countries as opposed to the US.

Women are shamed much more for being sexual in the US than anywhere else I’ve ever lived (7 countries in total).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some observations:

First, for both genders, the foreign-born people you meet in cosmopolitan and urban social circles are HIGHLY accomplished. It is HARD to come to the US. They either have money or highly advanced skills in something.
That’s for people who came here as adults. For those who came as children, or of immigrant families, they have likely faced more adversities than Americans of similar social standing. This doesn’t just make for an interesting life story, it makes for a resilience and strength that typical Americans, especially white Americans, don’t have.

Another stereotype that is true, foreigners come to America to major in STEM (engineering or medicine) or business. They are not pursuing humanities degrees, taking out student loans, and having existential crises about it.

Attributes of foreign women have already been discussed. More secure in their femininity seems to encompass it. They also aren’t constantly trying on identities and be something else. And perhaps the hardest to hear for American women is that foreign women eat less. Yes, some American women can be more into fitness and in better shape, but this doesn’t always appeal to men(sometimes it does). As said above, the slender European woman is attractive because that look is rare here. And you don’t get there by living in a gym - a lot of it is genetics (Scandinavian and Eastern European women have longer legs and leaner figures than Brits or Anglo-Americans) you get it by eating less. They don’t eat heavy meals constantly. They do eat sweets on occasion but not every day. They will eat one substantive meal a day and the rest is tea/coffee and a salad.

Generally, foreign women are less likely to be offended or outraged by political incorrectness or bluntness.

They are also less obsessed with politics. They usually think Trump is dumb but don’t really talk about it.

DP - but this post needs to be bumped up to be internalized if you are truly curious about some of the main differences.

Just take coffee for example. compare how umc american/canadian women take their coffee vs women from almost anywhere else on the planet.

that in and of itself is a massive calorie delta.

I assume by "foreign" most people here mean women from Paris or Madrid, basically, but another point of difference from the US is the amount of walking and cycling people do in those cities. I am American but it is a bit off-putting how often people around here feel the need to drive half a mile to the grocery store vs. walking. That adds up to a healthier lifestyle if you walk everywhere.

Japanese women do not drink coffee bombs

Slavic women don’t unless they have been Americanized

Turkish women don’t

Indian women don’t

Korean women

Chinese women

Persian women

I mean on this specific issue, it’s pretty much North America vs the entire rest of the world

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Foreign women tend to be DTF anytime. American women seemingly require an appointment.

What is DTF?

Down To F**k

They know that if they don't perform, the man will stray. Tons more opportunities for guys in other countries as opposed to the US.

Women are shamed much more for being sexual in the US than anywhere else I’ve ever lived (7 countries in total).

Ignore pp - he’s a troll

The food pp’s aren’t trolls tho

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I haven’t read this whole thread but I’m an American women and I think men just prefer foreign women because they are skinnier than we are and have sexy accents.

Because they are more attractive, are more feminine and are less lucky to say garbage like "I'll never marry an American man because I don't want to have another child to clean up after."

Latin American women RULE.

You like them because that culture is misogynistic. Big surprise.

You're a perfect example of why guys prefer Latin women.Nobody wants to hear lame feminist buzzwords when they can hang out with someone who is fun, healthy, and actually enjoys life.

[Anonymous]

My husband is a South Asian immigrant. I knew I wanted to work part-time or SAHM and culturally it's very typical. We married right after I finished undergrad. He was beginning a PhD. My family was very strict growing up I.e. Not wearing shorts, dating, etc. Even though we come from different cultures it worked. We've been married for 12 years. I was a sahm for 5 years and now I work part time. Honestly, I think what drew me to my husband was that he is traditional about being the provider. A lot of my friends thought I was crazy to marry him 1 year after dating. Some of them are fine but others are single and want kids but they are 35ish.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband is a South Asian immigrant. I knew I wanted to work part-time or SAHM and culturally it's very typical. We married right after I finished undergrad. He was beginning a PhD. My family was very strict growing up I.e. Not wearing shorts, dating, etc. Even though we come from different cultures it worked. We've been married for 12 years. I was a sahm for 5 years and now I work part time. Honestly, I think what drew me to my husband was that he is traditional about being the provider. A lot of my friends thought I was crazy to marry him 1 year after dating. Some of them are fine but others are single and want kids but they are 35ish.

So op maybe look for a foreign guy. People marry for all kinds of reasons. I have always been attracted to other races.