DH has any and all traits of MIL that are annoying

[Anonymous]

Which are getting worse as he ages. God help us. That is all.

[Anonymous]

And you married him anyway. Good job you!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And you married him anyway. Good job you!

I was going to ask the same q. Why??

[Anonymous]

The traits in others that annoy us the most are usually traits that we have ourselves. Chew on that one awhile...maybe he "married his mother."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The traits in others that annoy us the most are usually traits that we have ourselves. Chew on that one awhile...maybe he "married his mother."

Nice try. We are so opposite, we could not have less in common.

DH's psychologist says that MIL thinks she is rejected, by DH choosing me so opposite not just physically, but mentally, emotionally, professionally...) which is what started MIL's ill behaviors (it's all about her, especially when it is someone else's day, for example).

Nice hearing from the MIL's though

[Anonymous]

Huh? So the issue is your MIL and not DH?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The traits in others that annoy us the most are usually traits that we have ourselves. Chew on that one awhile...maybe he "married his mother."

Nice try. We are so opposite, we could not have less in common.

DH's psychologist says that MIL thinks she is rejected, by DH choosing me so opposite not just physically, but mentally, emotionally, professionally...) which is what started MIL's ill behaviors (it's all about her, especially when it is someone else's day, for example).

Nice hearing from the MIL's though

Question is why did you marry someone with such extreme unresolved mommy issues.

[Anonymous]

OP, I'm sure you're not perfect either. You don't think you have any negative traits that are grating on your DH?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Which are getting worse as he ages. God help us. That is all.

I know what you are saying and commiserate. I married him because I was young and he was very pushy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Which are getting worse as he ages. God help us. That is all.

I know what you are saying and commiserate. I married him because I was young and he was very pushy.

OMG - a perfect reason to get married!

[Anonymous]

Yep, my dh too. My relationship with my inlaws turned sour very fast. Now I am at the point that I I want out of the marriage, because I. Just can't deal with them anymore. We are working on our marriage but sometimes I see their traits in him. Drives me mad. Sometimes creates tension when he has done nothing wrong.

Best advice try to let it go. Easier said than done. GL.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Which are getting worse as he ages. God help us. That is all.

I know what you are saying and commiserate. I married him because I was young and he was very pushy.

OMG - a perfect reason to get married!

NP here - glad to see you've never made a mistake in your life! Be careful because the fall off of that high horse is bound to hurt!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Which are getting worse as he ages. God help us. That is all.

I know what you are saying and commiserate. I married him because I was young and he was very pushy.

OMG - a perfect reason to get married!

Yes, it really sounded like PP was advocating that approach.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I'm sure you're not perfect either. You don't think you have any negative traits that are grating on your DH?

Is that what was said? You might want to reread the original post, MIL.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Which are getting worse as he ages. God help us. That is all.

I know what you are saying and commiserate. I married him because I was young and he was very pushy.

OMG - a perfect reason to get married!

NP here - glad to see you've never made a mistake in your life! Be careful because the fall off of that high horse is bound to hurt!

NP - made a lot of mistakes just never marrying a person who is pushy and irritating.

Get a divorce! Since it's only getting worse according to you!