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‘She lived here full-time with her family until she went to university.’ |
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I barely knew anything about this woman before other than some fleeting info on a celebrity news piece...I am familiar with the Baldwin brothers just through the years, and, lately, his SNL impressions of Trump (which I liked!) Anyway, I'm a youngish boomer, about Alec's age) so I'm looking at this maybe from a different perspective. I just do not see a story here and I feel that the original tweet and subsequent investigation created a story where there was none. Intrigued and not currently working, and bored from not doing my usual things, I delved into the pieces and "video evidence."
I don't think this woman, Hilaria, conned anyone. The Spanish culture lives largely in her home, very similarly to a lot of my family and friends who are Jewish. Why isn't this the same thing? We all grew up speaking two or three languages, English, Hebrew, and Yiddish- yet most of us have had never been to Israel until adults or at all. My family has a mild accent, and family members in New York really do, yet do not live in Israel. My family calls me by a different name, and many of my friends, who are not Israeli, and not Eastern European, had full-on Jewish weddings with food and drink and language and dress and custom. They've named their kids Hebrew names. They have Judaica artwork all over their houses. Some have visited Israel, some have not. Some have friends and family who live there, some do not. Additionally, I know many families who have grandparents and great grandparents from Quebec. They also have French names, call their elders Mame and Pepe, and pepper their speech with various French words, and lot of art and food, despite NEVER HAVING LIVED THERE. Have you watch any television in the last 20 years? What about Italians? RHONJ? I watched one season. For people who never lived in Italy, they sure spoke a lot of Italian, discussed Italian food, family culture and mannerisms, and had houses filled with marble flooring and Tuscan kitchens. I went to college with Greek friends who lived an exact lifestyle depicted in My Big Fat Greek wedding with only having great grandparents, or further down the line- great great grandparents, as the only people ever having lived in Greece. On the one hand, people claim to want to embrace open borders, globalization, and the proverbial melting pot, but when people do, they are called out for cultural appropriation. Why? Being Spanish isn't a race. It doesn't even have to be an ethnicity. It's a country, and a language, with a culture. Isn't that what we are going for? Look at their wedding. They both embraced a Spanish theme with both of their families there. If she were trying to convey a lie, (and what is the lie anyway?)would she be able to do that in front of her whole family? The wedding announcement had zero info that is untrue. Nothing was ever misappropriated. This family has embraced a Spanish culture for a lot of reasons pertaining to what she's embraced, or chosen, as a member of her family, looking at her father's resume and academic background, and that's that. Her parents felt comfortable enough to actually move there as young retirees. That didn't happen on a whim. Hilaria's Spanish is on par with native speakers. Their kids have Spanish names. Nothing wrong with it. DNA doesn't inform culture. Nothing this Hilaria/Hillary has been featured in insinuates any lying, and I've taken a good look at the requisite videos, Hola article, her Mom's clip, everything. It seems that various people took out of context items and crocheted them into something that isn't with a pretty accusatory outcome...and it looks like online bullying, unfortunately, which is something I do know about having taught middle and high school. This is nothing less than that and it's very alarming. Furthermore, there seems to be years worth of bullying regarding her supposed "gold digging " and motives for marrying. I guess that goes with the territory of marrying a celebrity. I'm pretty sure their days look no different than yours, they just have more money to handle it. Sorry! If I were a gold digger, I doubt I would proceed to have 5 kids with a man 25+ years my senior. She loves him. I also notice that her high school friends speak highly of her, no one is calling her out. They are only clarifying questions. Come on. Find something else to hate- maybe that she looks that good after baby#5. I will never look that good, and it's been 35 years since I had a baby. In summary, stop this "meshuga" bull$#!++, says this woman who can speak Yiddish fairly well, yet holds 0% DNA in anything allowing me to. I wish this family well. Move on. |
For the record I still believe them to be dimwits. And easily riled. Hilaria Baldwin (I don’t support or defend her choices, or think she needs to be drawn and quartered ) aside this has been a disgusting display of mean girl mixed with some legitimate concern. Mostly bored mean girls. There is no more fire in this story. It’s stale and beating a dead horse at this point. |
Lying and saying you are from Spain, pretending that Spanish is your native language when it is not, carrying this facade for a decade, then saying it's everyone's fault but your own that everything about you references that you are from Spain when you are caught in lie, and the whole rest of this mess, is a con. Where most are from, lying is wrong. |
RHONJ- the parents are Italian immigrants and barely spoke English. The kids were raised in that culture and speaking the language . They are ethincally Italian. You don't see the difference? |
Trump fans think it's super mean girl to constantly pick on Trump for his lying and frauds too. But okay, it's just super mean when it's a woman lying/conning. You are right, the story is tired, Hillary's exhausted everyone and will go back to being boring. |
And, yet, everyone does it. Everyone tells lies from time to time. From little white lies to big old whoppers. Unless you were a duped Instagram fan of hers I can't imagine why you are taking this so personally. |
“Move on,” says the person who just wrote a novella about this “non-story” |
| I think his PR folks started all this because the original Hilary wasn’t exciting enough or pretty enough to match Kim Basinger. The mystique was created to bolster his career and not to appear that his leading man status was diminishing. |
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Seriously, do you people know what bullying is? I'm genuinely asking. Because calling someone out on their lies is not bullying.
I made the mistake of letting it be known that I liked a boy and he and his friends tormented me every single day until they graduated. I was shoved face-first into a locker door every day my freshman year of high school while other kids moo'd at me, knocked my books out of my arms, and kicked them down the halls. I had prank calls, nasty notes, my car keyed, and on and on and on. Getting called out on your lies is not the same thing. |
C'mon. There's a difference between me clinging to/admiring/enjoying/reliving with my elders aspects of my inherited culture and pretending I lived half time in Ireland and have an Irish accent. How do you Yanks say "Liar" again? |
Everyone does not make up a fake persona and lies about it for a decade, then tries to defend it blaming everyone, wrong. Comparing this to a teeny white lie that everyone does is ridiculous. You can feel it is okay and be fine with con artists, other people can find it to be wrong. But, saying "everyone does it" is silly. No, everyone does not. |
This is really not fair. A novella would be interesting to read. |
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Wow, Hillary had white privilege like you read about!
- she grew up in a 100-year-old $4million house in the heart of the most desirable district in Boston called Beacon Hill - Cambridge School of Weston — where annual tuition costs $52,400 for day students and $64,900 for boarders https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9098971/Hilaria-Baldwin-grew-4M-home-heart-Bostons-upscale-district.html |
Hilaria. |