Bro...they reached out to me when my kid was 10. F----ing 10. I thought it was psychotic. I did not ask for any of this. You said the same thing 100 pages ago with hater energy because your kid did not have the same requests. For the record, it does not mean s---- to have these requests early. I am actually humble in this process and understand it means nothing. Puberty is undefeated. If I blindly just went with the clubs like many of you, my kid would fully be in the MLS system and be relegated to the MLS rules and it suppressive pay structure which keeps the MLS profitable. I respect their business acumen while deploring it as a parent of a kid in the system For a family who cannot afford $10k-$20k annually to properly train, MLS Academy is a viable pathway and they should choose it. I am fortunate to make a little bit of coin so I can afford to pay $10k - $20k in training annually for my kid to develop and then afford a visa into Europe when he hits 15-16. I only became aware of this pathway courtesy of this little anonymous message board. I have been able to verify the information on this board in real life and find the real people who execute it in real life. My kid has not even had their first crush yet and I am supposed to leave town for a team before puberty.
Maybe I am a little too rationale. I don't find missing out on a high school life or family life for virtual school out of town to end up at Old Dominion for D1 soccer an appealing pathway for my child. No knock to ODU in this example but all of my kids are on a high academic track and if my kid is not going pro, I would rather them go D3 at NYU or Ivy than D1 at any old school. Unless something changes at DCU, we will bide our time here locally until U15/U16, go against the grain and local culture and play P2P, and then I will start a business in Europe and we will see how my kid fares there. Whether he succeeds or not, I did my parental job of maximizing his chances on something with 1 in 100,000 odds. Despite what ya'll think, if you actually read between the lines and toxicity, this forum is 100% gold for real information. We are not alone in not getting information from the MLS academies. Many of the parents in other markets have the same gripes outside of the DMV. We are fortunate to have this forum which allows people to share and express without retribution. I know I share genuine information for other parents. My kid only benefits when others in his age group get better. A rising tide lifts all boats. |
Hell hath no fury like a man scorned When did they cut your son? Why can't you move on? |
What is this person talking about? |
DCU kids and Philly Union kids gonna all end up same places College With less than .5% making it to a professional career |
Same at Bayern Munich's academy. But it's just as good as DCU. 😂 |
They are saying they are not a robot like most other parents in the DMV, following everyone else and doing what everyone else is doing and have recognized that DCU and the MLS pathway is not all that it seems it is. There are better pathways if you know how to chart them l. Especially better pathways than DCU |
Like I told you many many posts ago. My kids are grown and I'm retired. I have no dog in this fight at DCU other than to give parents information that can help them make the best choices for their son. If they choose DCU that's ok. Just know what it is and what it isn't. I've seen too many parents make mistakes with their kids and ruin their enjoyment and opportunities in the sport with poor decisions just from not knowing any better. |
Less than 1 percent of ALL players in ALL academies WORLDWIDE turn pro. So they are all bad I guess using your logic. Dumb... |
Apparently you are the dog and the one doing all the aggressive barking at the moon fighting yourself Admitting you're obsessed with an entity where neither you nor yours have a stake makes you and your motives even more questionable and unstable Not a single soul with a professional academy quality player is taking advice from an angry toxic ghost on a hidden identity forum If they got their kid to academy quality before your gibberish, they sure don't need it. |
The logic of the PP is that you people chasing all over the country with your young kids and disrupting your families trying to get into MLS clubs everywhere is ridiculous since the odds are they will be in the same bucket when it's all over, as history shows. |
Thanks for posting this, because it's an interesting take and I'm curious about this pathway. Where to start. So, you say that your son caught the scout's eye when they were 10. But you resisted and are part of the P2P system here. MLS Next or ECNL? Just curious. What caught my eye was the visa part and going to Europe to play. That's great that you are able to secure a Euro visa for your family and your son. You say visa and not passport right? Because I think that's two different things. Passports can be difficult and are easier said than done having investigated this myself for myself and children. My child plays at a high level and one of their aspirational goals was to play for their grandparents' home country national team. It looks less and less likely as time goes on as we have investigated pathways to secure entry into Europe. Back to your child's path. What drives your thinking that you will be able to relocate to Europe, start a business and have your son catch on at a Euro academy when they are 15/16 years old? Have they had interest from European scouts at a younger age and you have demonstrated to them that you can secure a Euro visa so it simplifies the situation for them? I find it difficult to fathom that your son would be able to show up at a European club at 15/16 as an unknown commodity and walk into their program. My godson is in the middle of doing this as an older kid, but in order to play hockey in some of the euro leagues. He was able to begin the process of securing a Slovak passport due to his familial ties to the country. He's also had conversation with some of their Tier 2 hockey clubs after having played junior hockey here in the US. I'm just curious because this pathway seems like an even bigger risk and less likely of succeeding than playing here in the US and going to a highly regarded D3 or Ivy and playing. I realize that some of my questions are pretty pointed and personal, so please understand I'm just trying to figure some of this out myself. And look, while your child's goal is not playing D1 soccer at ODU, my son has a HS friend playing there and having a blast doing it. Sure, the Sun Belt might not be your kid's dream, but it is someone else's. To each his own, right? Thanks for entertaining my questions. |
Who's comparing Bayern Munich to MLS? |
You're OBVIOUSLY responding to yourself Just quit dude |
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[last doing it. Sure, the Sun Belt might not be your kid's dream, but it is someone else's. To each his own, right? Thanks for entertaining my questions.
You're OBVIOUSLY responding to yourself Just quit dude 😂😂😂😂 |