Dad walking "daughter" down the aisle

[Anonymous]

My dad practically raised his common law wife's daughter as his own and I'm a little uncomfortable with him walking her down the aisle on her wedding day. She just got engaged last month, so this will probably happen within a year or two. Is it wrong if I ask him not to? I feel that I should be the first one he walks down the aisle. I'm really bothered by this, but don't want to make a big deal out of it.

[Anonymous]

Get married first and he will walk you down the aisle first.

It is absolutely wrong to ask him not to do this. You need to be an adult. Let this go.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's wrong if you ask him not to.

No, you don't get to decide who your father walks down the aisle, or in what order your father walks his other daughter and you down the aisle (other than getting married before her, I suppose).

I sort of hope you're a troll because I can't imagine someone actually being this petty

[Anonymous]

Honestly, you can't ask this without sounding petty and jealous. Love is not subtractive - because he loves her does not mean he loves you less.

Treat her as an individual and you as an individual. When/if he walks you down the aisle, it will be your first time and his first time walking you.

[Anonymous]

Get the fuck over yourself.

[Anonymous]

This thread is not going to go well for you.

[Anonymous]

Fake

[Anonymous]

This seems like that outdated tradition of the younger sister not being allowed to get married until the oldest does. You are just jealous. Stop! It's not about you.

[Anonymous]

OP, I understand your feelings, but don't ask him.

[Anonymous]

Let me guess, you are older and single.

[Anonymous]

Get over it. How can you ask him to not walk down a girl who is like a second daughter to him?

[Anonymous]

You are entitled to your feelings, but you should not share them with your family. How lovely that your dad has been a father figure to this other woman. It's'just as well that she's getting married first since it sounds like you still have some growing up to do.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be surprised if this is really the mom of the daughter who isn't getting married. This sounds like a bitter ex or "baby momma" who has underlying issues with the father's other family. I agree with the others, this is petty and ridiculous! Move on and buy the newlyweds a gift!!!

[Anonymous]

You sound like a bitter bitch. You are probably the bitter baby mom writing this thread pretending to be the daughter. Smh. Grow up no one likes you.

[Anonymous]

It would be wrong to ask, and extremely selfish. The fact that he walked someone else down the aisle previously does not make it any less special when he walks you down. After all, if you had a full-blood sister and she got married first, I don't imagine you would think it negated the meaning at your wedding.