This is where you lost me. It's really difficult to see that other kids are "amazing" when you don't live with them like your own kid. And your "pretty work products" is dismissive of the kind of thinking it takes to organize and represent ideas visually and spatially--sure handwriting shouldn't get you into AAP--but there is intelligence, organization and discipline that is involved in creating work that communicates effectively. Over the years, I've seen kids with terrible handwriting on their products--including one of my kids in the center. It doesn't seem to have stopped their admission, but I don't know if there's a bias against it in admissions. Since kids' fine motor skills develop at different paces I don't think any kid should be dinged for bad handwriting, but I worry about your dismissive attitude that kids that create attractive work probably aren't that "amazing." This is a common way to dismiss girls' intelligence btw--suspecting they got in on their obedience, their pretty work products etc. I ask that you're careful not to don't feed into it. My AAP daughter has high scores AND really gets into visual design and spatial thinking in work products. Her work looks far more composed than her brothers. Her scores are nearly identical as her brother's who fit the more stereotypical "genius" with terrible handwriting, technical vocabulary, complicated ideas but he gets WAY more attention for being super-smart where she gets praised for being good and "talented" even though as her parent I see their nearly identical scores (she's a tad higher actually) similar levels of driving curiosity, intelligence and creativity in both. |