Are you putting all your friends through a political-purity test right now?

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Anonymous wrote:It’s amazing to me because the Trump voters just are so excited to see the hate, just like Trump when somebody doesn’t wanna invite them to their birthday party. They love to turn it around that Democrats aren’t being open minded.

The reality is, I don’t invite rapists to my birthday party. If you’re gonna turn that around and say I’m not open minded because I didn’t invite a rapist to my birthday party you really gotta think about your moral stance on reality.


The hate in this thread and the name calling is vastly on your side sweetie. The evidence is right in front of us. The thread is about a Democrat breaking up a relationship because they like Elon Musk...there are about 1000 other posts just like this from other Democrats. Find me a post with a Trump supporter posting about ending relationships over voting blue. I am waiting...

Y'all have all lost your minds and really need to tone it down. You sound absolutely ridiculous and none of it follows any logic.

I think having self awareness is the first step to understanding that you may have taken things a bit too far.
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Anonymous wrote:It’s amazing to me because the Trump voters just are so excited to see the hate, just like Trump when somebody doesn’t wanna invite them to their birthday party. They love to turn it around that Democrats aren’t being open minded.

The reality is, I don’t invite rapists to my birthday party. If you’re gonna turn that around and say I’m not open minded because I didn’t invite a rapist to my birthday party you really gotta think about your moral stance on reality.


The hate in this thread and the name calling is vastly on your side sweetie. The evidence is right in front of us. The thread is about a Democrat breaking up a relationship because they like Elon Musk...there are about 1000 other posts just like this from other Democrats. Find me a post with a Trump supporter posting about ending relationships over voting blue. I am waiting...

Y'all have all lost your minds and really need to tone it down. You sound absolutely ridiculous and none of it follows any logic.

I think having self awareness is the first step to understanding that you may have taken things a bit too far.


Also, if you don't like rapists you are going to be absolutely stunned when your favorite democratic celebrity and politicians all get named. It's all coming to light. Please do your own research, but most of the Diddy list all endorsed Kamala 🤔
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Anonymous wrote:It’s amazing to me because the Trump voters just are so excited to see the hate, just like Trump when somebody doesn’t wanna invite them to their birthday party. They love to turn it around that Democrats aren’t being open minded.

The reality is, I don’t invite rapists to my birthday party. If you’re gonna turn that around and say I’m not open minded because I didn’t invite a rapist to my birthday party you really gotta think about your moral stance on reality.


The hate in this thread and the name calling is vastly on your side sweetie. The evidence is right in front of us. The thread is about a Democrat breaking up a relationship because they like Elon Musk...there are about 1000 other posts just like this from other Democrats. Find me a post with a Trump supporter posting about ending relationships over voting blue. I am waiting...

Y'all have all lost your minds and really need to tone it down. You sound absolutely ridiculous and none of it follows any logic.

I think having self awareness is the first step to understanding that you may have taken things a bit too far.


No one voted for Diddy,idiot.

Also, if you don't like rapists you are going to be absolutely stunned when your favorite democratic celebrity and politicians all get named. It's all coming to light. Please do your own research, but most of the Diddy list all endorsed Kamala 🤔
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Anonymous wrote:This thread is scary. No longer can people have political differences but rather only want to live in an echo chamber. News flash is that a lot of people saying that they voted for Harris probably voted for Trump but say so just to keep the peace.


Yes. I am one of those people. I am a closet MAGA supporter in DC. Lots of us I suspect.


If that keeps you warm at night, continue the delusion.
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Anonymous wrote:It’s amazing to me because the Trump voters just are so excited to see the hate, just like Trump when somebody doesn’t wanna invite them to their birthday party. They love to turn it around that Democrats aren’t being open minded.

The reality is, I don’t invite rapists to my birthday party. If you’re gonna turn that around and say I’m not open minded because I didn’t invite a rapist to my birthday party you really gotta think about your moral stance on reality.


The hate in this thread and the name calling is vastly on your side sweetie. The evidence is right in front of us. The thread is about a Democrat breaking up a relationship because they like Elon Musk...there are about 1000 other posts just like this from other Democrats. Find me a post with a Trump supporter posting about ending relationships over voting blue. I am waiting...

Y'all have all lost your minds and really need to tone it down. You sound absolutely ridiculous and none of it follows any logic.

I think having self awareness is the first step to understanding that you may have taken things a bit too far.


No one voted for Diddy,idiot.

Also, if you don't like rapists you are going to be absolutely stunned when your favorite democratic celebrity and politicians all get named. It's all coming to light. Please do your own research, but most of the Diddy list all endorsed Kamala 🤔


Yeah that dog won’t hunt, dude. Your man was literally besties w Epstein, not to mention his own assaults
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Anonymous wrote:NO this is not "political purity" unless it is MAGA taking oaths to a con man and his Nazi leader.

No one is an American if they want the constitution to be ignored or gone.


Nobody wants your constitution gone sweetheart! We want to stop paying $50 million for condoms sent to Gaza.


Well, since that never happened, can you try to articulate your position with real information?

https://www.snopes.com/news/2025/01/29/evidence-us-govt-50m-condoms-gaza/

This is a big part of what makes it difficult to endure conversations with some of the people I know who say they are "elated" right now. They don't actually know what's going on, and they believe things that aren't true. It's exhausting.


It’s even better than that. The likely game of telephone that created the lie is that there is a grant for STD and AIDS prevention in Gaza Province, Mozambique. Numbers don’t entirely add up but they’re close. This is what happens when you only skim the headlines in an accounts payable system.


Still not something I want to fund
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Anonymous wrote:It’s amazing to me because the Trump voters just are so excited to see the hate, just like Trump when somebody doesn’t wanna invite them to their birthday party. They love to turn it around that Democrats aren’t being open minded.

The reality is, I don’t invite rapists to my birthday party. If you’re gonna turn that around and say I’m not open minded because I didn’t invite a rapist to my birthday party you really gotta think about your moral stance on reality.


The hate in this thread and the name calling is vastly on your side sweetie. The evidence is right in front of us. The thread is about a Democrat breaking up a relationship because they like Elon Musk...there are about 1000 other posts just like this from other Democrats. Find me a post with a Trump supporter posting about ending relationships over voting blue. I am waiting...

Y'all have all lost your minds and really need to tone it down. You sound absolutely ridiculous and none of it follows any logic.

I think having self awareness is the first step to understanding that you may have taken things a bit too far.


Also, if you don't like rapists you are going to be absolutely stunned when your favorite democratic celebrity and politicians all get named. It's all coming to light. Please do your own research, but most of the Diddy list all endorsed Kamala 🤔


Ds are better at holding other Ds accountable. Remember Al Franken?
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Anonymous wrote:It’s amazing to me because the Trump voters just are so excited to see the hate, just like Trump when somebody doesn’t wanna invite them to their birthday party. They love to turn it around that Democrats aren’t being open minded.

The reality is, I don’t invite rapists to my birthday party. If you’re gonna turn that around and say I’m not open minded because I didn’t invite a rapist to my birthday party you really gotta think about your moral stance on reality.


The hate in this thread and the name calling is vastly on your side sweetie. The evidence is right in front of us. The thread is about a Democrat breaking up a relationship because they like Elon Musk...there are about 1000 other posts just like this from other Democrats. Find me a post with a Trump supporter posting about ending relationships over voting blue. I am waiting...

Y'all have all lost your minds and really need to tone it down. You sound absolutely ridiculous and none of it follows any logic.

I think having self awareness is the first step to understanding that you may have taken things a bit too far.


Why would they? There is no deep moral issue voting for Ds. You may not like their policies but they aren’t corrupt AF and trying to destroy our country after enriching all of their billionaire buddies.

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is scary. No longer can people have political differences but rather only want to live in an echo chamber. News flash is that a lot of people saying that they voted for Harris probably voted for Trump but say so just to keep the peace.


Yes. I am one of those people. I am a closet MAGA supporter in DC. Lots of us I suspect.


Are you going to come out of the closet and live your truth?
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Anonymous wrote:If you are cutting off relatives and long time friends based on who they voted for then you are the extremist.


+1000


No, we’re cutting off relatives because they’re racist and drug addicts.


Then why didn't you cut them off BEFORE the election?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It’s amazing to me because the Trump voters just are so excited to see the hate, just like Trump when somebody doesn’t wanna invite them to their birthday party. They love to turn it around that Democrats aren’t being open minded.

The reality is, I don’t invite rapists to my birthday party. If you’re gonna turn that around and say I’m not open minded because I didn’t invite a rapist to my birthday party you really gotta think about your moral stance on reality.


So people who voted for Trump are...rapists?

I didn't vote for him, I abhor him. But your analogy makes sense only to say that you wouldn't invite Trump to your birthday party.
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Anonymous wrote:No, I value my friendship even my friend supports current president. We have been friends for over 30 years. I can’t convince my friend not to. It is very sad. However, we are great friend & I avoid to talk about politics.


This is why we are in this mess

You are friends with racist unamerican shit

They have no values

They have no morals

They are unintelligent

How exactly are they your friend when they are ok with women and minorities losing all rights? Children dying? Consumer protection gone? Etc?

Admit it you are as stupid as they are.

They support Mr Nazi taking over the US a king who hates all but white Christian men and only wants your beholden to him,

By the way we did not elect musk as king. You are friends with someone who doesn’t want you to have a right to vote. Project 2026 or medical care for you or your kids.


My dog snoozing, a nice cup of coffee and the posts like this make for a nice Sunday morning. Normalcy is coming back, leadership that wants secure boarders, more efficient government, doctors to not mutilate children and liberals melting down. Aaaaah, refreshing.


I know some people who are Trump voters who have always been blatantly racist and hateful to the lgbt community. My in laws, who I can’t cut out of my life, know where I stand and if they say anything awful I just leave the room. What I don’t know what to do with are people like this PP who claim to believe things that are so out of touch with reality. I don’t understand how they can reconcile their views with the obvious disregard for rule of law, blatant racism, and extraordinary levels of hatefulness from this administration. My strategy is to try to politely avoid them. If someone is so blind to reality, I don’t think I have any hope of persuading them. None of my close friend voted for Trump so that makes things much easier.


I think you'd be surprised. We know better than to talk about it around you because you're such a basket case on this issue.

But, we've been friends for a long time, so we overlook your myopia.


+ 1 Exactly! We have been friends for years and I bet you think I didn't vote for Trump. I did vote for him and I am glad. I know better than to talk about my love for MAGA. I will go to my grave with know one knowing where I stand. NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS!

It's amazing, I have not lost a single friend or family member because there is not a shred of evidence anywhere about what I believe or don't believe. I don't use my online accounts to soap box and I have the social graces to not discuss politics in public, and when it does come up, I am well versed in how to talk around the topic with no real commitment. It has served me well. My friendships are rock solid because their not built upon a political sandbox.

You are an extremist mentally if you can't handle 2 side to a coin. Get a grip!


So you just stroke fantasies and whisper about whiteness and religion and such to yourself at night before you fall asleep?


No. I have a life outside of a political identity. I know that must be shocking to you. Please venture outside of the DC echo chamber and take a big deep breath. It is going to be all okay.


Do you see how saying that two-Fed households right now is really tone deaf and rude? I'm asking genuinely. I have a friend whose husband lost his job because his agency no longer exists. And the head of her agency has resigned and that ship seems to be sinking. They could both be out of jobs within a month. Do you understand how telling them that it is all going to be okay maybe isn't the nicest thing to do right now?
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Anonymous wrote:No, but admittedly last night was rough because one couple we are friends with did vote for Trump and they and their kids cheered when he came on the screen and the rest of us sort of froze. We knew they voted for him. We argued about stuff during COVID. But honestly we had kind of left it alone recently because we have had bigger fish to fry with other issues and things going on in our lives. They know none of us voted for him. They know we all disagree with them on pretty much everything. So it was just uncomfortable for a minute and then we moved on. But I thought about it this morning when I woke up for some reason. I think it makes me feel gross but at the end of the day they are good people and good friends and we do enjoy their company so I think, for me, I am going to continue to not discuss it and not let it affect our friendship. If they were more outspoken or obnoxious about it I would probably feel different, but last night was the first time other than an Instagram post on Inauguration Day that I was reminded that they voted for him, and I don't believe that cutting them off as friends is going to change anything about the sh!t show that is currently happening.

Good people vote to take away human rights from you and your children? Good people vote for rapists and people who are actively trying to harm everyone except white males?
Okay...


I'm so sick of people like you. I'm the PP, and I abhor Trump but I'm not such a small-minded moron that I can't see past who some people voted for. Yes, they're good people. The fact that they voted for Trump doesn't erase everything else they've ever done in their lives. Of course I'm uncomfortable and unhappy with their politics, but that doesn't mean I want to erase years and years of good friendship.

I bet you have people you are friends with who voted for Trump but would never tell you. Your insistence that you wouldn't ever engage with a Trumper is ridiculous - I bet you do all the time and you either ignore it because the relationship benefits you or you have no idea because they don't feel like arguing with you. Do you ask your car mechanic who they voted for? Your dry cleaner? Your cleaning company? Your boss and all your co-workers? Are you going to ask all the teachers at your kids' school? Of course not. But keep on spewing your ridiculousness on an anonymous board I guess. I hate that I'm aligned with people like you. We are not the same even if we voted for the same person.


NP. That poster is quite direct, but the questions are worth asking. If you were to sit down with those friends and ask them point blank to explain to you why they felt it was OK to vote for someone who was hell bent on taking rights away from people and ignoring our constitutional framework of governing, wouldn't that feel fundamental to how someone is as a person? I get it, I have friends who are traditional Republicans, and I have some who I thought were friends who are full on Trumpers. I've been posing questions such as these to them, and they are unwilling to engage - I don't pound it over their heads, I'll ask once, if they're unwilling I drop it. And them. Because if they don't have the courage of their convictions, I simply no longer respect them. They won't even try to explain it? That means they're cowards. Why should I sweep that under the rug? That's how we got here - too many of us normalized really abnormal and harmful behavior. I do in fact have the courage of my convictions, as friends with disabilities have literally cried to me that they're being blamed for a frickin' plane crash, and Black friends who literally said they feel they are less than human to this administration. I can't voluntarily spend time with someone who is part of why that is true, and glad about it.


Laken Riley,and others like her, no longer have rights. They do not live in luxury hotels on the taxpayer dime
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Anonymous wrote:It’s amazing to me because the Trump voters just are so excited to see the hate, just like Trump when somebody doesn’t wanna invite them to their birthday party. They love to turn it around that Democrats aren’t being open minded.

The reality is, I don’t invite rapists to my birthday party. If you’re gonna turn that around and say I’m not open minded because I didn’t invite a rapist to my birthday party you really gotta think about your moral stance on reality.


The hate in this thread and the name calling is vastly on your side sweetie. The evidence is right in front of us. The thread is about a Democrat breaking up a relationship because they like Elon Musk...there are about 1000 other posts just like this from other Democrats. Find me a post with a Trump supporter posting about ending relationships over voting blue. I am waiting...

Y'all have all lost your minds and really need to tone it down. You sound absolutely ridiculous and none of it follows any logic.

I think having self awareness is the first step to understanding that you may have taken things a bit too far.


I understand your stance because we actually had a rapist in our family, and our immediate family decided that they weren’t gonna hang out at family events if the rapist was invited and guess what… The rest of the family continues to hang out with the rapist.

The other part of the family blames us for breaking up the family, just like you’re blaming the Democrats.

A family therapist told us that if we took his stance against the rapist that the rest of the family was gonna act like we were taking a stance against the family. When really we just didn’t want to go to a party with the rapist and little children..

I understand where you come from, because you’re exactly our family who continues that parties with a rapist and categorize us as the ones breaking up the family.

I still think you’re crazy though
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Anonymous wrote:No, but admittedly last night was rough because one couple we are friends with did vote for Trump and they and their kids cheered when he came on the screen and the rest of us sort of froze. We knew they voted for him. We argued about stuff during COVID. But honestly we had kind of left it alone recently because we have had bigger fish to fry with other issues and things going on in our lives. They know none of us voted for him. They know we all disagree with them on pretty much everything. So it was just uncomfortable for a minute and then we moved on. But I thought about it this morning when I woke up for some reason. I think it makes me feel gross but at the end of the day they are good people and good friends and we do enjoy their company so I think, for me, I am going to continue to not discuss it and not let it affect our friendship. If they were more outspoken or obnoxious about it I would probably feel different, but last night was the first time other than an Instagram post on Inauguration Day that I was reminded that they voted for him, and I don't believe that cutting them off as friends is going to change anything about the sh!t show that is currently happening.

Good people vote to take away human rights from you and your children? Good people vote for rapists and people who are actively trying to harm everyone except white males?
Okay...


I'm so sick of people like you. I'm the PP, and I abhor Trump but I'm not such a small-minded moron that I can't see past who some people voted for. Yes, they're good people. The fact that they voted for Trump doesn't erase everything else they've ever done in their lives. Of course I'm uncomfortable and unhappy with their politics, but that doesn't mean I want to erase years and years of good friendship.

I bet you have people you are friends with who voted for Trump but would never tell you. Your insistence that you wouldn't ever engage with a Trumper is ridiculous - I bet you do all the time and you either ignore it because the relationship benefits you or you have no idea because they don't feel like arguing with you. Do you ask your car mechanic who they voted for? Your dry cleaner? Your cleaning company? Your boss and all your co-workers? Are you going to ask all the teachers at your kids' school? Of course not. But keep on spewing your ridiculousness on an anonymous board I guess. I hate that I'm aligned with people like you. We are not the same even if we voted for the same person.


NP. That poster is quite direct, but the questions are worth asking. If you were to sit down with those friends and ask them point blank to explain to you why they felt it was OK to vote for someone who was hell bent on taking rights away from people and ignoring our constitutional framework of governing, wouldn't that feel fundamental to how someone is as a person? I get it, I have friends who are traditional Republicans, and I have some who I thought were friends who are full on Trumpers. I've been posing questions such as these to them, and they are unwilling to engage - I don't pound it over their heads, I'll ask once, if they're unwilling I drop it. And them. Because if they don't have the courage of their convictions, I simply no longer respect them. They won't even try to explain it? That means they're cowards. Why should I sweep that under the rug? That's how we got here - too many of us normalized really abnormal and harmful behavior. I do in fact have the courage of my convictions, as friends with disabilities have literally cried to me that they're being blamed for a frickin' plane crash, and Black friends who literally said they feel they are less than human to this administration. I can't voluntarily spend time with someone who is part of why that is true, and glad about it.


Laken Riley,and others like her, no longer have rights. They do not live in luxury hotels on the taxpayer dime


But rapist still like Trump. They still have rights and they live on the taxpayers dime.
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