What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

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Abortion when I was 27 that was the best decision for me and only two friends and the guy know. My current Dh does not know and he does not need to know. Most women who are alraedy well adjusted do not regret their choices and move on just fine.


“Well adjusted”? Wtf, no.

You can have made that choice and still have regret. Glad it was straightforward for you but it’s not for many and it has nothing to do with them being “well adjusted.”

+1000000 It has nothing to do with being well-adjusted. I would hope than any woman recognizes that it is a major decision and feeling conflicted is normal. if you are so well-adjusted and fine with it, why doesn't your DH know?

It's only a major decision because religious and patriarchal types have hyped it up as murder. There's no such thing as a soul, and a blastocyst isn't a child. I don't know if being conflicted over the issue has anything to do with being "well-adjusted." But it has a lot to do with the overwrought fictions created and promoted by social conservatives.

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It's only a major decision because religious and patriarchal types have hyped it up as murder. There's no such thing as a soul, and a blastocyst isn't a child. I don't know if being conflicted over the issue has anything to do with being "well-adjusted." But it has a lot to do with the overwrought fictions created and promoted by social conservatives.

You sound like a nut job. People like you give all women a bad name.

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That up until recently i was in a deep depression because i wanted to have a child but couldn't, But then i got custody of my nephew so i got the child i wanted.

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Many things, but namely that:

I have had three abortions + one miscarriage.

That my three children have different Fathers.

That I just recently got out of a very abusive relationship.
I covered my bruises, rug burns, etc. so no one will ask me any questions.

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I was an au pair for two years and had an affair with the “host Dad.” The wife travelled for work often so he was lonely and i was too. He encouraged her to take trips with the family to see her parents who lived overseas and I would often pretend that I was staying with a friend. We. would share weeks together. I fell head over heels for him. I eventually had to leave the home but stayed in the US and am now married. We sometimes go over for dinner with the family.

Hoping this is fake news, but if it isn't wondering if you have a conscience or any morals. Obviously you have not told your spouse this or he wouldn't go visiting that family, so if your story is true sounds like you are a compulsive liar.

I haven't told a soul and I never will. I am close to the kids who are teens now. I was young and dumb and thought I was in love. And truthfully, she wasn't very kind to me and at that time I felt justified.

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Anonymous wrote:I slept with my boss's daughter.

This was about 5 years ago. She was 20 and I was 25. Yes, I'm still employed at the same company. No, my boss doesn't know.

This is worthy of a letter to Penthouse

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Anonymous wrote:I slept with my boss's daughter.

This was about 5 years ago. She was 20 and I was 25. Yes, I'm still employed at the same company. No, my boss doesn't know.

This is worthy of a letter to Penthouse

This is unbelievable

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I once called ICE on someone who bragged that he went to Mexico and had sex with underage girls.

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Anonymous wrote:I covered up sexual assault that occurred on a cruise line my wife’s family’s company owns. I had their cousin shred tons of documents related to it.

That is wrong, putting profits in front of women’s safety/the truth.

This person missed the joke….

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Anonymous wrote:I once called ICE on someone who bragged that he went to Mexico and had sex with underage girls.

Niiiiiiiice

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Anonymous wrote:Abortion when I had kids who were elementary age. I don’t regret it at all. My sisters who are my best friends don’t even know. I kind of want to scream it from the roof tops given how backward this country has become about women’s body autonomy.

Then why are you keeping it as a secret? Go scream about it.

You know, now that a stranger on the Internet had given me permission, maybe I will 🙄🙄🙄

Why keep it a secret if you don't regret it though?

Not PP, but I don’t broadcast mine because people are judgmental f*CJ’s and some people would actually believe me a murderer.

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Anonymous wrote:My estranged father committed suicide 30 years ago when I was in college. I say “he died in a car accident”. Only my mother (who was abused by him when they were married) and my 2 siblings know.

I am severely depressed. I am so tired, have zero friends, and no hobbies. I am on anti depressant but stopped therapy when we moved during Covid (because it wasn’t really working). I am coping by distracting myself with Netflix and podcasts. My DH is so caught up in his career that he doesnt seem to notice. Or he thinks I’m lazy. I am fake and mask it well enough.

Although I don’t have a reason to want to live, I know I will never harm myself; because I don’t want to do that to my kids - high school junior and college freshman. I don’t know what I’m going to do when my youngest graduates next year. We are very well off 7 figure HHI but “money doesnt buy happiness”. I think my DH deserves someone better - happier and more active for the retirement years. I sometimes don’t want to try.

My 2 secrets are probably related.

My dear phone friend, your dad did not “commit” anything; he died from depression, which is sometimes deadly. You have inherited the illness that killed him. There is a chance it could be treatable for you, and you might en able to see life VERY differently and find purpose and joy in the years you have left.

I’m
So sorry you lost your dad and so glad that your depression is not so severe right now that you can’t see how much it could hurt your kids. You are a good mom.

You have $$$$, so PLEASE: try ketamine infusions. They are legal. They improve symptoms of suicidality in over 80% of patients including those with treatment resistant depression and complex trauma.

When I tried ketamine, the results were nearly instantaneous, and the next morning I woke up with my black depression nearly entirely lifted. Gone. it was like I could look up and around for the first time in decades. And when I realized how clearly I could feel and that I was still here with a functioning brain under all those years of blackness, I wept.

I wept mostly because I was so sad and angry that so many people who I loved did not know this relief was available. Especially my brother, who died by suicide just a few years earlier. Er had a lot of trauma in childhood.

For me, the ketamine did not keep working forever…treatments were $450 each and I don’t make enough ad a teacher to afford them when they weren’t as efficacious as the first year I had them every 3 weeks or so, but my baseline is way higher now than it was before I tried ketamine. Because now I know that my depression is not ME. I’m still here. And someday they’ll find something else that will work. I have hope again.

You have money, please please please try it. Please. You deserve it.

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Anonymous wrote:I took my very elderly parent to a lawyer to have their will written and made sure I was the executor. When they died about a year or so later, I made my siblings think they were all getting their fair share of our parent’s estate, which they somewhat are, but in reality, I’m getting more than my siblings.

I’ve been surprised at how easy it has been to hide various small amounts of money that add up to me getting thousands more than my siblings. One sibling has been sniffing around a bit and asking questions, but I think she’s too dumb to figure it out. Bonus points for getting to stick it to my one really annoying sibling.

Is this just greed on your part or do you feel you deserve more, for example, for taking care of them?

My sibling who is very annoying married a man who allows her to stay home and “take care” of their kids. She does absolutely nothing in terms of work, even though my parents spent tons of money sending her to a private college and grad school. I’m divorced with kids, work hard, and have been fired twice in the last few years. I need the money way more than she does. She’s getting plenty and there’s no need for her to know that there’s more that I’m keeping for myself.

That was your parents’ call not yours.

You are a thief.

+100 you are an envious thief. I hope the money you stole was worth the karma that's coming for you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I slept with my boss's daughter.

This was about 5 years ago. She was 20 and I was 25. Yes, I'm still employed at the same company. No, my boss doesn't know.

This is worthy of a letter to Penthouse

That is really wrong - how could you sleep with the bosses daughter?

[Anonymous]

Voted for Trump. Twice.