What's the best quality in a husband?

[Anonymous]

You can only name one and it has to be a quality you can be sure of before living together or getting married.

[Anonymous]

Kindness

[Anonymous]

Kindness (but this is true of either spouse, or person in general)

[Anonymous]

Integrity

[Anonymous]

True appreciation for who you are and what you bring to the relationship, in spite of your faults.

[Anonymous]

Hard working.

[Anonymous]

Kindness

[Anonymous]

They love animals. You get that (and it's easy to see/prove) you get a host of other good qualities.

[Anonymous]

Follows through with things. For instance, not backing out on plans. Finishing a project he started.

[Anonymous]

Empathy.

[Anonymous]

I think they should be alive and ambulatory.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They love animals. You get that (and it's easy to see/prove) you get a host of other good qualities.

My DH dislikes animals and is a fabulous husband and father.

I too say kindness.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Kindness

This. Without question.

[Anonymous]

character

[Anonymous]

Ability and willingness to do emotional work (eg admit he is wrong).