Just saw that DH has Tinder app on his phone.

[Anonymous]

He gave me his phone to look at some pics and when i closed the app I saw Tinder. I didn't go through it and he waved it off and said it's just for fun to see what it was about. Thoughts? Seems sketchy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He gave me his phone to look at some pics and when i closed the app I saw Tinder. I didn't go through it and he waved it off and said it's just for fun to see what it was about. Thoughts? Seems sketchy.

Put it on your phone to "try it out". Or better yet, use his phone. Then perhaps you can see what he was looking at?

I do not put up w cheating or anything that would suggest cheating.

[Anonymous]

Yes, definitely sketchy to have a hook up app on his phone

[Anonymous]

Trust your gut, not the internet.

[Anonymous]

Seriously? Dude forgot he had it on there and he's cheating or hoping to.

[Anonymous]

Very sketchy.

[Anonymous]

He is looking for a hookup.

Install it on your phone ans start searching for men in his age range within 10 miles of where he is at the time. You'll probably find his profile.

[Anonymous]

Or better yet. Create a fake facebook profile with a woman's picture you know he'd find attractive. Like his profile. See where he takes it.

[Anonymous]

Oh, I don't know. Maybe it is too Pollyanna of a view but he could be telling the truth. You know him best, is he usually curious about things, is it in his nature to research or check out new ideas? Honestly, I may download it now just to see what it is. That said, you should download it & see if he has a profile set up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh, I don't know. Maybe it is too Pollyanna of a view but he could be telling the truth. You know him best, is he usually curious about things, is it in his nature to research or check out new ideas? Honestly, I may download it now just to see what it is. That said, you should download it & see if he has a profile set up.

If you want to know what it is, google it and you'll find out. No need to actually download the app. Hell just read the description in the App Store. You'll see it is a dating app. And why would a married (Or in a LTR) man/woman be curious about a dating app?

Plus you can't really do anything with Tinder until you set up a profile.

Dude is being sketchy. Period.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh, I don't know. Maybe it is too Pollyanna of a view but he could be telling the truth. You know him best, is he usually curious about things, is it in his nature to research or check out new ideas? Honestly, I may download it now just to see what it is. That said, you should download it & see if he has a profile set up.

If you want to know what it is, google it and you'll find out. No need to actually download the app. Hell just read the description in the App Store. You'll see it is a dating app. And why would a married (Or in a LTR) man/woman be curious about a dating app?

Nonsense. I'm a dude, very happily married, no intention/desire to cheat and - especially after I read about it on the internet - I want to check out Tinder. I want to see what the people on there look like, and what their profiles look like. I've heard that you will definitely see people you know, married and single. I'm curious.

I did not download and install it, precisely because I'm afraid it would be taken the wrong way and because I don't lock my phone, I let my wife (though she seldom does) pick up my phone and go through it whenever she wants. I'd download it to check it out if I knew I could completely and reliably delete the entire app, but I don't really trust that I can. I'm also afraid someone I know would see me and tell her.

But that doesn't mean I'm not curious...just not (completely) stupid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh, I don't know. Maybe it is too Pollyanna of a view but he could be telling the truth. You know him best, is he usually curious about things, is it in his nature to research or check out new ideas? Honestly, I may download it now just to see what it is. That said, you should download it & see if he has a profile set up.

If you want to know what it is, google it and you'll find out. No need to actually download the app. Hell just read the description in the App Store. You'll see it is a dating app. And why would a married (Or in a LTR) man/woman be curious about a dating app?

Nonsense. I'm a dude, very happily married, no intention/desire to cheat and - especially after I read about it on the internet - I want to check out Tinder. I want to see what the people on there look like, and what their profiles look like. I've heard that you will definitely see people you know, married and single. I'm curious.

I did not download and install it, precisely because I'm afraid it would be taken the wrong way and because I don't lock my phone, I let my wife (though she seldom does) pick up my phone and go through it whenever she wants. I'd download it to check it out if I knew I could completely and reliably delete the entire app, but I don't really trust that I can. I'm also afraid someone I know would see me and tell her.

But that doesn't mean I'm not curious...just not (completely) stupid.

You can easily set up a profile in 1 minute given you have a facebook account. Then when you are done browsing, there is an option to delete the account. Once that is done, just delete the app from your phone. All history gone unless someone saw your profile while you were browsing and took a screen shot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh, I don't know. Maybe it is too Pollyanna of a view but he could be telling the truth. You know him best, is he usually curious about things, is it in his nature to research or check out new ideas? Honestly, I may download it now just to see what it is. That said, you should download it & see if he has a profile set up.

If you want to know what it is, google it and you'll find out. No need to actually download the app. Hell just read the description in the App Store. You'll see it is a dating app. And why would a married (Or in a LTR) man/woman be curious about a dating app?

Plus you can't really do anything with Tinder until you set up a profile.

Dude is being sketchy. Period.

+1000

[Anonymous]

Hey, great advice about putting Tinder on your phone out of curiosity when you're married.

Here's another fun thing to do: Ask around and find out the address of a busy "massage parlor," and head on over to check it out. It's got to be interesting to see how they operate, and maybe you'll see someone you know there! If someone sees you, just tell them you were curious.

[Anonymous]

What is Tinder?