Valid point. Families that are not attending to and have no intention to attend Hardy have a hard case to make if they are trying to make changes to the school that are not supported by the families that do attend. But if they do attend or plan to attend then they have the right - indeed, the responsibility - to push for changes they support. IB or OOB your voice for change at Hardy is stronger if you are in fact a Hardy family. |
I was with you, up until the bit about if you do decide to join us, don't you dare attempt to improve on the status quo. Why does mobilizing for change = acting all entitled? And how is uncritical acceptance of a school's current state ever a benefit to the school community? |
No, it's a public school. It belongs to all of the citizens of DC, every citizen has a voice in how their tax dollars are spent. That's how democracy works. |
She/he does have a point. I am Hardy IB mom but I know what she/he is talking about: the legitimate fear of an entitlement attitude which confines with threats that we sometimes hear from IB prospective parents ("If and when my kid will be in, I wanna see the uniforms disappear before the school year ends"). I would love to see more IB kids in the school but just because this would make playdates and hanging out easier for my kid ("see you at the Jelleff pool", "see you to play tennis at the school court" etc) Besides this, I am very happy with the more laid back mod of the school, compared to my upbeat IB elementary schools and all the paranoia of fundraising, Box Tops, 5 emails/day from school/teacher/parents/PTO. Academically my kid is thriving, is growing as a mature, aware and critical thinker, and fast math processor thanks to the SEM/advanced math classes. Honestly I prefer this mix, than next year's potentially even larger wave of IB parents, who will immediately launch their SurveyMonkey to abolish uniforms (I love uniforms too and for my kid uniform is not even an issue) . |
The commitment to raise funds should not be associated with paranoia: it's hard work and is necessary for improving the school. Indeed, it's how every-day folks improve their lot in life. It's how you take an acceptable situation and make it amazing. If I were a Hardy parent, I would look forward to raising money, box tops, emails, and everything else necessary to meet that end. Yes, emotions are a natural result of hard work; but I don't think it's helpful to put such a spin on it; and frankly is disrespectful to the wonderful feeder school you came from. |
That's a good reason for more IB families at Hardy, who will be looked to for fundraising. |
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And if those IB families have a problem with the uniform, so what? What would be so terrible about people lobbying for a change in dress code? (It seems like PP is less concerned with any actual change in the dress code, and more with the arrival of a cohort of families uppity enough to think that they're empowered to call for change.)
Signed, mom of daycare-age kids who's fine with uniforms in middle school or without them, either way |
Hopefully the old line community attitude will not be "pay up and shut up." |
Look at the size of the fifth grades in the feeder school. Even if Hardy achieved Deal-like levels of in-boundary participation it's never going to be 50% IB. Deal has more than twice as many kids in the feeder schools per seat in the middle school and has 65% IB. |
Henderson is not a "Doctor" of anything. She has a master's in Leadership from Georgetown. |
Not necessarily true -- the 5th grade classes at the Hardy feeders are low because the kids bolt after 4th grade. If parents see the promise of Hardy, they will stay through 5th. We'll see if the numbers fill out in next year's 5th grade classes. |
You're going to be lambasted again, and deservingly so. The self-serving "take care of my snowflake and screw the city in the process" of your POV is breath-taking. Apparently this is tough for people like you to understand, but when the majority of DCPS's students are below grade level, then shutting off an escape valve (such as Hardy) is educational malpractice. If your snowflake is too good to share a school with the refugees, then: A) move B) go private C) apply to the charters which are already better than Hardy anyway but in any case: for the love of your child SHUT UP and don't ever talk in public like you do on DCUM. You racist, douchebag prick. |
I don't think that's necessarily true. One of the reasons Deal is attractive is that it has a large enough student body to have a wealth of extracurricular offerings. Small schools can never quite compete on that metric. |
Or you can work the system to get your child into Deal, as a number of families who live IB for Hardy have done. |
you don't want your child to share a school with the below grade level kids I take it? |